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You have to understand what is the reason why you can't be together, when the relationship is realistic. You're not in the same place, and she can't give up everything and leave with you. All she wants is a comfortable life, a real life.
So she will choose to follow the family arrangement, choose to try to accept the man on the blind date, and choose to give up on you.
Everything is caused by the fact that you cannot be in one place, not to love or not to love, but to give up.
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Since she values her family's opinions more, it means that she needs the support of her family more than her love for you. Why should you bother with it?
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It is clear that you are not a very decisive person.
But you still show that you love her very much, just to see how much you love her.
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If you really love someone, even if people all over the world oppose it, you have to be together without hesitation, right? If she already had the idea of wavering, why continue? Fate, let you lose a her, and in the end you will definitely give you a her.
If you treat her so well, she can try to accept others, and then one day you can forget the pain and start over. Don't be nostalgic for the past, please believe that there must be a girl in this world who was born for you, and she is the one you should cherish. Also, in the emotional world, no matter who it is, once it is shaken, it is not true love, she is, and the same is true for the question!
So, even if we are together again, we will be separated in the future, it is meaningless...
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First of all, you ask yourself, 1 can you go to her and live in the same city as her. 2. Do you have the means to afford your future life? 3 What she can give up for you.
After asking these questions, maybe you will have the answers. You say you love her very much. But I hope she will leave her family and career and come back to you.
In other words, you are unlikely to give up the life around you for her. Your girlfriend knows this very well. So she chooses her loved ones.
Love is more than just a feeling and a habit. Don't think of yourself as great. How much love is love?
If there is no answer. Then measure it with reality. Don't keep talking about what happened to your girlfriend, what did you give her besides constantly slapping and chatting online?
Think about it. Maybe you haven't done anything to give her confidence and security for 5 years. Your girlfriend is really disappointed, so choose the way it is, and if you can't do it practically, it's better to let it go.
Because maybe your love isn't deep enough to change the trajectory of your life.
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Don't continue with no results.
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Brother! Fate!! My girlfriend also wants me to go home on a blind date! I'm so helpless.
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I understand your current mood very well, and I can also feel that you love her very much, but reluctant love will not be happy, Romeo and Juliet, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai have no good ending! Try a new relationship or talk to a friend!
It's too long to see it. Two points are talking.
What you want is very simple, just a home that ordinary women need to give themselves a sense of belonging. This is not difficult for him to do, you can put forward your ideas to him, if he really can't do it just leave him, waiting is the most painful, women don't have much youth to wait.
Ai, I tell you, love someone, no matter whether she has a boyfriend or not, as long as she is not married, you have the opportunity to love him, give him happiness, you know no, the woman you said is gentle, kind, and very good-looking, just this, there must be a boyfriend, not only do you like her, but there are many others, but you don't know ! If you love him, you have to give him love, don't lie to her, you have to move her with your sincerity, you have to tell her what you love her, if you don't say it, how does she know!! Believe me, I'll love him and say it (that's it).
I'm waiting. I'm sure he had something to worry about.
After reading your story, I sympathize with you, in fact, I have had similar experiences. But I chose to give up, and giving up is also a beauty! Although I have always lived my life alone in another faraway place, trying to let time dilute everything. >>>More