How do you have a topic of conversation with people?

1. What do you do? (Why do you like this job?) What are the biggest challenges? What's the biggest setback? What are your hopes for work and the future? ）

2. So far, what achievements have you made in life? (Were there any major setbacks?) 3. What do you love the most? (Why interested).

4. What was the most memorable event last year? (Or what about unfortunate things?) 5. What do you do with work?

6. How do you like to go on vacation?

7. Do you want to be famous? (Why).

9. In the family, how did you grow up from childhood to adulthood?

10. What are your personality strengths in the process of growing up? (Are there any drawbacks to being afraid of?) 11. What kind of relationship do you hope to develop?

12. Are you romantic? (How romantic?) ）

13. What do you think is the difference between men and women?

14. What will make you happy?

15. What makes you sad?

16. When you were a child, what did you want to do when you grew up?

17. What do you think is different from others?

18. Do you believe in gods? (What do you think of the gods?) 19. To what extent do you think your personal actions have an impact on changing society?

20. What do you think are the important events in society at present? (What would you do, if possible?) ）

Find something that is easy to talk about! It can be extended. The point is that you both know about the topic or one understands the other and is interested.

Don't ask where you live. Talk about horoscopes, talk about hobbies (movies, songs, authors...)Talk about blueprints, talk about confusion, talk about what you want. The point is that you have a move in your belly.

If you have a lot of knowledge and have your own thoughts, you can talk a lot.

Life, TV and movies, study, work, shopping. A lot.

Here are five types of topics to choose from:

1) Established theme. That is, the topic that has been agreed upon by both parties or prepared by one of the parties in advance. For example, conversations such as asking for help, soliciting opinions, passing on information, discussing problems, and researching work are often conversations with established themes.

The choice of such topics should be agreed upon by both parties, or at least approved by the other party. It is suitable for formal conversations.

2) Elegant themes. Elegant themes, that is, topics with civilized and elegant content, noble and refined style. For example, literature, art, philosophy, history, geography, architecture, etc., are all noble subjects.

But taboo don't know how to pretend to understand, class.

Get an axe. 3) Relaxing Themes. Relaxing topics, i.e., topics that are light-hearted, interesting, and not boring. &n

bsp;For example, theatrical performances, fashion, fashion, beauty salons, sports competitions, film and television, leisure and entertainment, tourism, places of interest in Chazhong, customs, celebrity anecdotes, cooking snacks, weather conditions, etc.

It is suitable for informal conversations, allowing everyone to express their opinions and play freely.

4) Fashionable themes. The theme of fashion, that is, the things that are trending now, now, and here and now, are at the center of the discussion.

5) Good at the theme of old acres.

The topic of expertise refers to the topic that both sides of the conversation, especially the person who is talking, has research, interest, and something to talk about. For example, when talking to a doctor, it is advisable to talk about fitness and disease; When talking to scholars, it is advisable to talk about the way of learning; Talk to writers, talk about literary creation, and so on.

However, it is taboo to use one's own strengths to defeat the shortcomings of the Shanren, because "words are not speculative and half a sentence is too much."

Conversation is meant to communicate, so it is not just talk and no communication.