After graduation, I am willing to live a dull life, is it really unproductive?

In fact, as long as you are happy, what kind of choice is also right! Everyone's pursuit is different, Chinese have too many capabilities, and sometimes it forms a vicious competition! Self-confidence is a good thing, and being willing to be plain is also a kind of beauty, just depending on what you want to pursue!

But if you give up pulling so simply in the wind and rain, you will lose the balance that God has given you! However, individuals have personal preferences, and your pursuit of the ordinary is the same as the ideal life I want to think! It's a pity that this society can really make you wish?

See the darkness hidden by your blandness! @

Brother: I don't know what to say.

But I think you have a lot of truth in what you're saying, you're very good at enjoying life.

I'm sticking with you.

Stick to your own ideas, don't be influenced by the people around you, and don't let you become wavering, only you know what you want, so live your own happiness and let others envy you!!

That's not necessarily, the main thing is to really ask yourself what kind of life you want to live the most, don't wait until you're old and regret it, as for what others think, it's their problem, but this kind of positioning may not find a suitable partner with the same rational positioning, ......

If you ask a thousand people what happiness is, you may get a thousand different answers. As long as you feel that you are living a happy and satisfying life, why should you care so much about the world?

Let's ask yourself first, for the position of a man in his heart, a man who can do what he wants to be, this is also an achievement!!

Everyone's ambitions are different. Don't care what others say, just do it yourself.

The stress of reality makes you seem helpless, so it's nothing.

The values are just different. It's nothing. As long as you are happy. It doesn't matter what people say!

You have your own path, you have your own ideas.

It's not a bad thing.

Life is like when you wash the dishes and then take them and put them away.

The life you like is that when you're done, go and put it away. Everything is taken for granted, and nothing is considered. Just do what you have to do.

The other is that you wash the dishes, take the bowl and put it away, and accidentally break a bowl, and there is a very harsh sound of landing, and when you go to pick up the pieces, your hand is cut and bleeding. Then I found out that this bowl was a handicraft of a certain dynasty, broken and broken, but it could still be exchanged for some money, an unexpected harvest.

One is to live like parallel lines.

The other is a wavy line that rises and falls.

The end point of both lines is the same. Those who choose the former are not necessarily useless, and those who choose the latter are not necessarily ambitious. If you don't starve to death anyway. Either way.

Remember, the end point of both lines is the same. It is recommended that you choose the latter, after all, experience is important. Would you like to tell your grandson a story of your own?

I don't think you like to hear it either"Once upon a time there was a mountain. "Right?

It's good to talk about it, don't go through ups and downs, and happiness is a blessing! So be it! One day you will be bored with this kind of life, how can a man look like an old man in his eighties, everyone has their own way of living, some people think that peace talk is happy, some people think war is happy, it's different, go on!

Life is like a dream.

Society is so. Pursue a few more.

Mindset conditioning. On the road of life.

Believe in yourself.

Horses of courses.

Live your life and let them say go.

From childhood to adulthood, everyone has their own ideals and pursuits, but we must learn to tailor our own ideals for ourselves. Just as the ideal of a beggar is to have a good meal, the ideal of a blind person is to be able to see the light, and the ideal of an outcast wants to have a warm home. There are high and low levels of human ability, and we must correctly understand and evaluate ourselves, and we must not set aspirations for ourselves without a goal.

Contentment is a rare state of mind, to learn to regulate yourself, learn to enjoy life, the truth is shown in the plain, you know, the ordinary is true.

As long as you are happy, why care about other people's opinions.

You have to remember that the most important thing in this world is to be happy.

I think that slowly people will understand you.

Staying true to yourself is what makes you truly happy, isn't it?

The society has a negative impression of the post-90s generation, just like our post-80s, thinking that we are all a decadent generation. In fact, now that the living conditions are better, we are all enjoying the superior life that our parents have worked hard for all their lives, which is caused by the times, not our fault. We post-80s, especially those born in the early 80s, have many outstanding elites from all walks of life.

And you post-90s, because some people are more prominent in all aspects, that is, the so-called "brain-dead" and "non-mainstream", resulting in the prejudice and discrimination of the whole society against you. In fact, depending on your evaluation of yourself, you have ideals and drive, although you have no money and no looks, these are not problems. Not everyone is born rich second generation, not everyone has a parent who is an official or a business and makes a fortune.

It's not that everyone is born with a star face. We are all ordinary children, but as long as you have ideals and the motivation and drive to achieve this ideal, I believe you will make achievements in the future. Be self-confident, learn more successful experiences and methods from others, read more books, and increase professional knowledge and social practice ability.

Enrich yourself. These will all help you.

It's nonsense to say that you work hard.

This time is not just hard work, many people have worked hard all their lives and have not achieved anything, success requires a lot of factors to cooperate with it, a bit like a chemical reaction, the lack of an element is bound to fail, success is a combination of 99% luck and 1% effort.

Pay more attention to the little things around you.

Maybe the opportunity is inadvertent.

I think the first thing you should do is find your interests, set a goal for your interests, and then work on them.

Do one line first, focus on one line. Looking for opportunities, the right time, the right place and other factors.

Hard... The sun is always shining after the storm.

Work hard and live authentically.

For the future, do well now!

Let's put it this way. For life, we are always more than the upper and lower than the bottom. Since you can be indifferent, there is no need to fight for something.

Naturally, there will be no boredom, irritability and depression for life. Don't think that job stability means no future and little achievement. Yes, the money you make is not much, maybe at least a fraction of the owner's hand.

But don't forget, you have a family. Such a you should be a kind of happiness for your family. You won't lose this home because of the struggle.

How many rich people want to get back to their original home after making money, but find that they have no regrets about taking the medicine, and then they can only leave one regret.

What I would say is that there is a price for anyone who makes any choice. Mediocre for the sake of a family, I don't think such a life is a failure. There is only one focus in life, and it is what you really want.

Cherish your current life, I don't know how many people are envying you! If you're bored, find something to do in your free time. The easiest thing to do is to take a book and read it.

Brother, don't make a fuss......

After graduating from university in 2006, I wandered around the society for nearly a year before I found a job with a monthly salary of 1200, due to the poverty of my family, until now I have been crammed into a dilapidated rental house with my classmates, no money and no future, and I have not been able to find a girlfriend until now.

I am indifferent to fame and fortune, but I am not willing to live an ordinary life, because I have to rely on myself to give myself a way to survive. Although I don't like to be intrigued with people when I work in the company, I have to go and shoot horses, all just to survive. I'm not a staff, boss, boss is unhappy at any time to tell me to get out, although the work is a nominal holiday, but even if it is the Spring Festival holiday, you must keep your mobile phone unblocked, so that the company can find me at any time to work overtime ......I don't have any insurance or benefits until now, and I haven't traveled ......I haven't even been out of this province since I'm so old.

I don't have the money to invest in a side hustle, I don't have a house, a car, I don't have a woman, and I don't dare to rush to find a new job, but I can't raise my salary. It's not that I haven't worked hard, it's that the boss always has an excuse for you to continue to work hard.

I live in tension, irritability, depression every day... Brother, what do you think I should do?

Life is like this, try to let go of your arms.

I don't know how to be blessed in the midst of blessings, and I owe a beating.

What is Expedition? Adventure is the wind, adventure is the rain, because of the adventure, we are willing to be indifferent and quiet; Also because of the expedition, we dared to go to Jingo, and the horse leather shroud was returned.

Know what ?.. is

Well, I'm working on this question too, but it starts with interest.

Got it: What are the interests? Interest is sailing, interest is pulp. Because of interest, we are willing to live a life of eating and sleeping; Also because of interest, we dare to go to the moon in nine days and catch turtles in the five oceans.

Don't sheeha, remember to adopt me.

Each of us wants firewood, rice, oil, and salt to eat, drink, and Lazar, so we must be willing to live with the fireworks. I am very willing to live with you, I don't expect you and me to be very affectionate, I just hope that you don't let me lose too badly. Can you promise to stay with me?

I'm willing to live an ordinary life with you, and I just hope you won't let me down.

What are the interests? Interest is thunder, interest is electricity, because of interest, we are willing to sacrifice time to watch TV and play poker; Because of our interest, we have the courage to fight the rapids and climb the dangerous peaks.

Interest is heat, interest is love. Because of interest, we abandon pleasures other than interest; Because of interest, we explore the mysteries and reap the fruits.

What are your interests? Copy the sentences listed above.

Even if I am just by your side as a spare tire, as long as I can be by your side, I will be happy and willing.

The deputy car is also embarrassed.

What is there to sigh about.

It's just a side car.