There is no choice, troubled entangled, confused, tangled choice...

Tangled. I want to say a lot to you what I think. But time doesn't allow! I can imagine how you feel! Even if I can't relate to it.

You were deceived by J, and she only felt because of your sincerity to her, but she didn't have you in her heart at all. You've always been wishful thinking and your words are against you, hoping you'll listen to me.

Emotional things are the hardest thing to say, no one can ** the future. However, knowing W is a stupid mistake you made, and if you don't know W, at least you won't be sad now. What love needs is single-mindedness, because you step on two boats, but, in your psychology (in your bones), you still hope that you can give a single-minded love, unlike those beasts that don't care if you step on several boats, so you will find it difficult to choose now, causing yourself to be sad, you told J, she is also sad.

If you tell W again, then you will continue to hurt another person.

This is when you make a mistake alone and hurt three people, including you. You should reflect and make a decision, then forget about one of them in your bones, and be single-minded, and you will be happy.

Selfishly said that being loved will be happier than love J Maybe I'm just used to your company, and I can't forget my first love for 3 years. You don't want to waste time.

It feels good to split your legs.

J has been thinking about her first love, indicating that J has always loved her first love, the reason why she is reluctant to leave you is because she has become accustomed to your existence, and regards you as a kind of spiritual sustenance, you are her second choice, if the first love is really not good, just find a life that loves herself,,, who to choose is to see if you love W, if you love to choose W,,, in fact, you are as entangled as J, because you think about two people, think about it.

Fate is destined, it's hard to say anything, but if it's yours, she is naturally yours, and if it's not yours, you don't have to stay, please be patient! Miss her maybe you'll meet a better guy and want to open a little buddy! Good luck!

If I don't give up, why don't people do it for themselves? You are not even yourself anymore, how do others perceive you? It is better to die than to be free.

Do a decision that you don't regret after ten years, twenty years later, I've never heard that men are difficult and need someone to sacrifice their ambitions to accompany them, loving you is not to grasp, but to set you free.

That's pretty much it, it's a bit of a mess.

It depends on what kind of work experience you have for three years. If it's mixed, it's better to go to school, and if it's a valuable three years, then work

If you look at your own academic qualifications, what about a master's degree? The streets are full of them! At present, some companies are still afraid to apply for a master's degree. You can do a master's degree with the money of a junior college, but this is not absolute.

Are you struggling with the need for a choice?

When a choice is placed in front of you and you need to make a choice, do you have the idea of looking ahead and thinking about it, thinking about a lot of questions, if you choose, what will happen, and if you don't choose, what will happen. People are like this, they all want to develop in a good way, they all want to choose Lu Qian to choose what is good for themselves, and they all have the psychology of comparing with each other, but because there is a risk in choosing, they have to eliminate the hesitation as soon as possible.

Some people also say that if you think of one thing, let it go, don't think too much, don't try, who can think of what the result will be, sometimes, I envy such a person, do things decisively, will not think too much, will not lack courage, will not be bound by a choice.

I've been struggling with it for a long time.

I was entangled in the "Heart Sutra" that I had written some time ago, and at that time it was to practice calligraphy, and at the same time, I also hoped that I could calm my heart by drawing and writing.

However, the "Heart Sutra" that was written unconsciously became a piece of my heart.

I don't know what to do with them? Throw it away, or keep it?

If it feels disrespectful from the bottom of my heart, I don't know what disrespect is. If you keep it, you don't know where to put it? Not much written, but not much is written either. Slap the beam.

When I read "Breaking Away" today, I seem to know how to face them.

At that time, they were not written to revere the fortune, but the reverence was in the heart and would never change. It's not disrespectful to throw them away at this time, but how can respect be represented by just a few pieces of paper? It's just that the current self and the self at that time made a break, and made a break with his own demons.

At all times, we must insist on facing problems and objects, and "thanks" and "likes" are two different things.

Generously acknowledge this feeling, gratitude, and respect. Therefore, there is no need to confirm whether it is justified or not.

Accepting your true self is also a kind of introspection! Confronting objects brings liberation to the mind.

Liberating one's own mind, isn't this exactly what I wanted when I wrote the Heart Sutra at that time?

When you are entangled and troubled, that is, when you should conduct self-analysis, the same behavior will be different for different motivations.