You won t get bored of doing anything

Dear Friend:

Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, is the most valuable experience in your life

What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing.

Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much.

You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!

I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely.

So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right?

For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!

In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life?

In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it.

Go with more interest and curiosity.

Let's discover the little things in life! ~

Really enjoy life and you will.

Finding life beautiful. People won't be so tired.

There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! ~^

So much to the point. You should work harder to face life.

Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

May you shine brightly every day!Happy and healthy :)

I hope to encourage you @

You won't get tired of doing fun things, and if you don't believe it, try it! Ha ha.

This phenomenon we call "single feeling" fatigue, just like driving, from the beginning of excitement to the means of transportation, after a few coherent actions in the car, the formation of unconscious behavior, if you drive different models, it will form a new experience, produce different feelings, and mobilize your desire to explore new things.

The same is true for work, a single work process, the formation of habits, will be boring, inside and outside the work will need to adjust themselves, off work or holidays to participate in sports and hobby training, easy to find a new starting point.

There is more than one goal, because you are used to it.

Because I agree that you will gradually get tired of it, as follows:

First of all, no matter how beautiful the past is, it has already passed, and it is useless to indulge in memories, and people cannot live by memories. If you have been deceived and never been hurt, you should not even think about that sad thing. Entangled in pain, unable to extricate yourself, in the end it is you who hurts yourself.

Get rid of the pain, forget all the unpleasant things, pluck it out of your heart, empty yourself, let something good replace the old, and slowly come out of the shadows. Everyone has things that are undesirable in life, face them calmly, there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed, lighten up, look down, look away, and everything will disappear with the passage of time. Don't dwell on the past, it doesn't make sense, don't let boring things occupy your heart, mess with your thoughts, waste your time, and throw it away like garbage.

And don't use this time, work hard to build yourself, give full play to your strengths, do what you like, and let yourself live happily and colorfully?

Then, since you can't change it, then ignore it and dwell on it. Make time to do something meaningful, time is precious, don't waste time, don't waste your energy on meaningless and worthless things, people's energy is limited, don't be led away by unworthy things and people. Life is short, you can't waste it, regardless of your ability, seize the time to do meaningful things, and realize your self-worth with goals and plans.

A smart person will not waste time on boring things, things that cannot be changed, put it aside for the time being, the more he wants to do it well, the more he is in a hurry, it is often twice the result with half the effort, it is better to put all his energy into something valuable and like. Nothing is set in stone, leave it to time. Show in the forest, the wind will destroy it" The better a person, the more people are jealous and slanderous, which will naturally attract a lot of slander, and some foul language can appear in front of him at any time.

This is a very normal thing, and it means that those people are not as good as you. You're better than them, otherwise, why would you be slandered? There are always some people in this world who can't see the good of others, and once you are better than him, they will do whatever it takes to frame you and try to discredit you.

For the villain, you don't need to deal with it, the villain's behavior is despicable, and the more you ignore it, the more you sometimes get cheap. Don't get angry with villains, keep silent, despise them, even if they come to you, don't deal with them, never associate with villains, they will consume your positive energy and lead you astray.

Finally, I suggest that you gradually change the bad boredom from the right way of thinking.

Because there is no sense of novelty.

After three years of marriage, we start to get tired of it, and I think that generally about three or four years, especially after having children, everyone will quickly get tired of married life and tired of each other.

Not long after we got married, I conceived a baby, due to malnutrition, and because I didn't know how to cook, my husband didn't have time to take care of me, so I could only go to my mother-in-law's house for a while, and then I felt that my husband and my husband slowly began to be estranged, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, it is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but I went to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law plays mahjong every day, The cooking is not on time, and my father-in-law smokes at home every day, and it is useless to say it, and at this time he always says that I am not sensible, etc., and slowly finds that he is unwilling to call him to say these things.

Later, I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also taking care of me wholeheartedly, because I was pregnant and vomited too much, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of my parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I had to understand.

Then we couldn't take the baby alone, and it was true that a person would not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, his parents ** did not hit one, at first I and he will be a day **, and then slowly I don't want to pick him up **, and I don't want to talk to him too much, we separated for about ten months after I went back, I felt that the two of them could not be like the feeling when they were in love, when we were married for just three years, and the feeling at that time was that I really wanted to return to a person's life.

I think it's generally three or four years after marriage that you start to get bored. Especially after having children, everyone will quickly get tired of married life and get tired of each other.

Not long after getting married, I conceived a baby, due to malnutrition, and because I don't know how to cook, my husband didn't have time to take care of me, so I could only go to my mother-in-law for a while to go to my mother's house, at that time I felt that I was slowly beginning to have a gap with my husband, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, it is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but I went to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law plays mahjong every day, The cooking is not on time, and my father-in-law smokes at home every day, and it is useless to say it, and at this time he always says that I am not sensible, etc., and slowly finds that he is unwilling to call him to say these things.

Later, I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also dedicated to taking care of me, because I was pregnant and vomited too much, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of my parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and he couldn't come to the bureau to smile and forgive.

Later, I couldn't take the baby alone, and it was true that a person would not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, and his parents didn't hit one, at first I and he would be a day, and then slowly I didn't want to pick him up, and I didn't want to talk to him too much, we were separated for about ten months, and I went back again, I felt that the two of them could not be like the feeling when they were in love, at that time we had just been married for three years, and the feeling at that time was that I wanted to return to a person's life.