The child s salary of 4,000 a month is never handed over, and he asks the family for no money, what

Maybe he's working hard.

Don't know what kind of child your child usually is? If you are confused for a while, you can talk, distinguish the key points, and help your child establish a financial plan for the second half of his life. If it is a cynical child, it is even more important to warn him and no longer give him any financial support.

Find a time to talk peacefully.

Communicate with your child.

Find out how much he's spending.

Listen more, talk less.

The child actually understands it very well.

Listen to the child's suffering.

Communicate with him more, there is nothing that cannot be solved.

I'm going to focus on this very important.

It stands to reason that what you earn has the right to dispose of it. But take into account the feelings of the parents. Parents work hard to raise their children, not expecting anything in return, only for their children's health and happiness.

As a child, you should be considerate of your parents' inappropriateness, and pay a part of the money every month, which can also help reduce the burden on the family and warm the hearts of parents.

You should give your child more communication, guidance, and advice that he save a part, or do some financial management, if the family is not financially relaxed because of his schooling, let him hand over a little to his parents appropriately.

Let him take care of it himself, and if he spends it profligately, he will ask for a part of the money every month to help him save it. Save it for him when he has to use it.

Pay, depending on his financial ability, whether he has a plan, stipulates that he pays a base, 300 upwards, can be fixed, or floating depending on the situation. Parents' birthday, guaranteed at least 500 per person, New Year, 800 to 1000 per person, the Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival not less than 600, others depend on his wishes, such as the purchase of clothes and daily necessities for his parents. If you enter more and pay more, you can't be too dead.

Leaving the rest of your living expenses to hand over represents filial piety.

Parents can be said to help him save some points, mainly because he has to be consciously voluntary.

Married? There's no need to turn it in when you're married... My husband sometimes turns it in.

Yes, leave your own living expenses, the rest can be handed over, as much as you want, how much money you give your parents is your filial piety.

Filial piety can be given to parents or not.

It is impossible to pay everything, he needs living expenses, but his parents have raised him for more than 20 years, and he should have the heart to honor his parents, buy gifts for his parents or give a part of the money he earns to honor his parents! My own opinion!

Of course not. I'm afraid he won't have enough to spend, if you need money, you can borrow it from him, if you don't need it urgently, let him use it himself, everyone is an independent economy, or when he earns more money and has a surplus, he will naturally use it to honor you.

It's worth your salary increase,,, you don't have to hand it in!

It's okay to pay it, pay him a down payment on a house, and let him maintain a house. He can't be left to spend money.

Is there any mistake, it's all out to work, and it's still in charge!

It's good to call some of it, or wait for your son to get used to work before getting on the right track

How old is it? If you don't know something, you have to turn it in, and if you are sensible, you have to put some pressure and power.

It is not easy for parents to raise their sons

You can ask him to pay part of it, but it's unrealistic to ask him to pay it all.

As long as you don't give it to your family, it's good.

I think this should be our own initiative to give it.,But it doesn't feel very good directly.,Depends on what you think.。。。

It's so suitable, because they have done their duty to bring you up, and now they don't have to bring you children, and it is your responsibility to have children.

Yes, at least 15,000 a year.

If the parents have no savings and no income**, of course it is appropriate.

Hello! Family affection will always suffocate you.

Learn to appreciate your parents' care.

Don't overthink it.

Although the money is given to your parents, it will be given to you when you need it, just manage it for you, so as not to spend it yourself, work is a part of life, as long as you live, you have to work!

It's impossible to pay it all, and you have to keep some for your own use.

Yes, your parents will help you save it, and besides, it's no one else.

Leave half of it, and that's fine. You're still living.

If you want to be completely independent, you don't live at home, under the roof of people, there is no way.

1.Ownership of your salary is yours, legally speaking.

2.The money given to the parents is to provide for them in old age.

3.Now it's an investment, you can give them 30% or 20% because now parents have their own earning power.

When I just came out of work before, I almost all turned it in, because I didn't have a little pocket money in my hand, it was really inconvenient for a girl, because it had just come out, and I had been a school uniform without casual clothes, and I wore a few short sleeves in winter, I don't know what your parents were like, but my parents were really dissatisfied, and I shouldn't have my own money now, the point is that I'm almost 20, really, because I really see through the money, only money in my eyes, How noble he is to say about himself.

I paid it for 5 years, I paid 4000 to your parents, du2000 for more than 3 years, and I paid the water and electricity fees separately.

I am tired of working night shifts every day, I change my job, the work is low, I pay less money, my parents' opinions are particularly big, every day I say why I don't work in the previous place, and call those relatives keep saying that I am tired, 3 sisters and brothers, I was the first to work, why do I always say that I am alone, so I knew that I would not pay so much at the beginning

It depends on whether your family conditions are good or not, if it is good, you can not pay a penny, if it is not ideal, you can give more to your parents, and you can leave a little pocket money for yourself.

The household must be paid. Give money to parents.

DU should too. Give more and give less. You've given a little bit more.

For example, the salary is 4,000, and the parents are 1,000. If you have your own card, you will save 1,000 and 5 by yourself, and keep the rest. You've turned in so much at your mother's place, and you have to find your mother if you have any money.

Don't let your parents worry so much about you. She is also helping you save for fear that you will spend money indiscriminately. But you have to save a little for yourself.

Shantou people, male, 26 years old, monthly income of about 3500, do business in the off-season, an average of 3500, used to pay my mother 1000, the rest of their own savings. Now for the house, I don't pay a penny, and I eat and drink for nothing at home. My mom didn't say anything.

It depends on your family's conditions, if the conditions are good. You can, save half for your parents, keep half for yourself, well, give it to your parents and they will keep it for you.

Sister, I'm also from Chaoshan, and now my salary is not paid, at most I will teach some living expenses, in fact, it depends on how your family is financially economic. If you belong to the good point, you will pay the living expenses or not, the medium living expenses may be half, the chance of almost paying 60 80 percent, and the very bad ones will all pay one or two hundred yuan, which is not enough to ask the family. . . Like the families who have just come out of society are relatively poor, and the parents are more hard, so they should share the burden, and I paid 70% when I first came out of society, and you can refer to it yourself.

Very sensible, huh? But at the age of 21, I still have to save some money to buy clothes and bags, because I have reached the age of beauty! Also prepare for future marriage! (I am also a Chaoshan person, and I feel very warm when I meet Chaoshan people).

I am from Guangxi, and my salary is only more than 2,000 yuan, so I usually give my mother a little living expenses, and the rest is just enough to support myself.

Look at the economic conditions of your family, if you can save it yourself, you can give some suitable ones to your parents during the holidays.

Ahem, the boy suggested that he keep it, and it is better for this social girl to have money in her own hands, and she will not be seduced by bad people.

At the beginning, I turned it in all year, and now I keep it for myself, and the girl will eventually start a family, and she has her own family to support, and raising a daughter is probably only this time when she can repay now.

Turn in 60% and keep 40% for yourself, but it doesn't mean that you have to use up the 40% completely, and keep it for yourself next month.

I gave all my salary to my mother, and my mother gave me the money.

I use it myself, but it has to vary from person to person, your mother should save the dowry money for you, and she won't save it anyway.

It's stupid! It is your own to save more money by yourself, and it will be convenient for you to marry in the future! When you get married, you don't have the money to find someone to go.

I don't pay 5,000 a month to save 3,000 for myself.

I'm a girl, and my salary is kept by myself, well, I'm more economical.

You are such a sensible and filial child! I'm ashamed, I'm a man!

It's a good girl, your parents gave birth to you and raised you to your family, depending on the family environment.

You can talk to your parents, and then send some money home from time to time to do chores.

Your salary should not be handed over in full. It's okay to keep some for yourself. I have relatives around me who are like you.

I can't say that such parents are selfish, they have difficulties. But mutual understanding is the minimum, after all, you are also an adult and should have your own expenses.

Leave yourself a way to live and save some face, after all, when you are older, it will be a little psychologically stressful to ask for money from your family, so it is said that the whole thing is in the past.

I think as long as the money is used in the right way, your parents will support you. They just don't see you as very mature.

You give half of your salary to your parents and keep half of your pocket money for yourself.

You set aside some of your salary for your daily life. Your parents should understand.

Keep a little for yourself and call some home, after all, it's not convenient for you to have it yourself.

Every time you pay your salary, you will leave 500 to 1,000 for yourself, and after a long time, you will have your own small treasury

Discuss how much pocket money you will have in the future.

If your parents have a job, you can take it yourself.

Then you leave a little pocket money for yourself

There's no need to hand it all in.

Get a card to save money by yourself, and you don't have to hand it all over.

Listen to your parents, your parents will not harm you, they are all for your good.

Talk to your boss If you really can't do it, borrow it from a friend you trust.

Alas, today's children are not as resistant to disease as we were then. Look at the company, explain the reason, and the boss will be considerate of you.

Let's borrow some if you have a good time!

Have a good talk with the boss, urgently,

Small coffers are income other than wages.

You're not thinking about how to increase that income, and it's definitely getting less and less motivated.

You're an adult, and you have personal legal human rights.

It is moral for you to give money to your parents, and it is your personal right not to give it to your parents.

Law is more important than morality.

You can talk to your parents about your feelings and convince them of the truth about the law.

If it comes to extreme situations, you have the right, the qualifications, and the ability to sue, and the success rate is high.

It shouldn't have been given in the first place, and it's definitely troublesome not to give it now. You still have to communicate well, you must know that what you occupy is the initiative, you are just a habit formed by the long-term bondage, so that the bondage has long been gone, but because of the obedience of the habit, you have lost resistance. It is your freedom to give as much as you want, you should not give it, you should thank them if you give it, and don't take them for granted.