Why do some people like to add a lot of friends while others only add dozens of people?

In other words, everyone's circle of friends is different. Some people may have a larger circle of friends. And some people have a relatively small circle of friends. It also has to do with each person's personality.

Maybe a person with an active and cheerful personality will have a relatively large circle of friends. Don't go to the road with more people at home. If an introvert is an introvert, he has a problem with his personality.

Another thing is that many people are reluctant to deal with strangers.

Some people who like to add a lot of friends may be more cheerful, lively and outgoing, and like to make friends. They add a lot of friends and friends, just to expand their circle of friends and make themselves more connected. Because today's society is a society of connections, interpersonal relationships.

As long as you have friends and a wide range of roads, many things will be easier for you to do, and it will be smoother. Personally, I also like to add a lot of friends. Because among those friends added, you may not know which friend will be able to help you on which day.

So it's still good to add friends. Keeping them in the circle of friends isn't necessarily a bad thing, just don't bother.

For some friends who only make friends with so many people. Maybe they don't feel the need to add some unfamiliar people or strangers. That's why they don't want to make a lot of friends.

One of their ideas is that they have enough good friends and they don't need those who don't matter. In fact, my suggestion is to make more friends, meet more people, make more friends, and make a wide enough social network in the circle of friends.

Having more friends isn't necessarily a bad thing. It is also beneficial to have a little more friends in the circle of friends.

If the concept is different, the way of natural choice to make friends is different. The mentality is different, and the number of friends is naturally different. Some people live in the circle of friends, some people live in their own small world, and some people often sit and chat with friends, or make an appointment to go cycling together on weekends.

This is because everyone has different interests, and the friends they need are naturally different, and many people have different personalities, so the choices are different. <>

Like to add a lot of friends, it is likely to be with an open mind, want to meet more people, whether you know each other or not, chat a sentence or two to become friends, whether you are familiar or not, add a friend first, maybe when you will be familiar, isn't it? There are also many people who need to communicate, and regard adding a lot of friends as an auxiliary way to support their careers, like some micro-businesses, as well as people who do publicity on QQ, naturally they have to add a lot of friends in order to sell the product. It is only a purposeful profit-making behavior, which can be explained by adding a lot of friends.

The director of the student work office in the university, there are too many friends in QQ, and you have to upgrade your membership to add more people. He is a very positive person, very enthusiastic, and at the same time, his work is mainly student work, and many college students who have left school can contact the school through him, including promotion and other activities. There are a lot of people you don't know what will happen to them, and maybe when they can help you.

So it's not a bad thing to have friends, depending on the person's psychology of making friends.

Some people don't like to chat, there are very few people in social tools, but they are all friends who can be called bosom friends, in fact, this state looks very good, you don't have to look at so many people upset, but when you want to chat, you can find a few people to chat with, talk about what funny things happened, what happened that made people unhappy, or discuss the recent news, so it seems, it's not impossible to live your own little life, it looks very comfortable. Wang Han said in the show that there are not many people in his WeChat, this is completely a personal mentality, no matter what kind of circle you are in, you can be yourself and choose the lifestyle you love.

Everyone's way of making friends is different.

Some people are extroverted, to all people, can open their hearts, take the initiative to contact, this world, for him, is a world full of friends, unless others hurt him hard, he will do subtraction, otherwise, he enjoys the feeling of friends all over the world.

Examples of friends flying all over the sky

I have a friend who is full of friends and calls everyone dear.

One time I went with the two of him to class, and his dear was all over the room.

I laugh at him a lot:I don't know what to do, but I always love it.

Carefully selected examples by friends

The other kind of person is unwilling to compromise on anything, pursues perfection, pursues excellence, and has a high bottom line.

It is difficult to open the door of his heart, even if you meet someone who can talk to him, he will repeatedly investigate, once you have withstood his test and selection, you will become his lifelong friend.

I have a friend who has a very cold personality, and when I say ten words, he probably only replies one.

But whenever I have something particularly important to find him, the support he gives is always the fastest and most powerful.

I've looked at his address book, and he only has more than a dozen friends.

An example of adding friends because of value

There is another kind of person, whether to add friends, mainly value the value of the other party, and may delete it after using it, so in a certain period of time, his friends will not be too many.

Contacts and circle of friends can also see a person's personality. There is no good or bad character, existence is reasonable.

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Each of us has friends, but the circle of friends is not the same, some people's circle of friends is not big, some people's circle of friends is extremely wide, the breadth and narrowness of the circle of friends is related to the person's character, if you don't like to make too many friends, then your circle of friends is very narrow, in other words, if you are willing to make friends, your circle of friends will naturally be wide, but it depends on yourself.

More than ten people. But there are very few people, and there are still less than ten. Personally, I feel that those who have only 10 people in their family are relatively cold, and they don't want to show their circle to others.

I don't want my life to be seen by others. It can also be said that his own privacy ability is relatively strong. There's one such person around me.

He was a boy, and when he was chatting with us, I learned that there were only ten people in his circle of friends, and those ten people were her best friends. But what about him, he's not cold. He just doesn't think it's useful to make so many friends, and when something happens, he won't reach out to help.

Only those who exchange their hearts are worthy of his deep friendship, and the friends in his circle of friends are all from childhood to adulthood. There are also some friends who have made friends in school. Their relationship is very iron, for example, me, no matter what happens to the two of us.

will ask each other for help. I feel that friendships like this are more long-lasting.

But those who like to add a lot of friends, I feel that they feel that one more friend has one more way, in fact, in the face of the current society. That's right. It's just one more friend and one more road.

Even if it's not a good relationship. It also belongs to friends. If you have any difficulties, you can help together.

This is a matter of personal interest, some people think that friends can only be added if they are really good friends, and some people think that as long as they know each other, they can add, after all, one more friend you also have one more way out, and some are doing micro-business, so naturally you have to add a lot of good friends, otherwise who will you sell it to?

I had two *** before.,Actually, I'm speechless.,I forgot the password of the previous *** after I changed my phone.,And then I re-applied for one.,That *** just happened to be selling some things myself.,It's to do some small business when I'm in college.,Make some money.,So I added a lot of friends.,But I don't add it myself.,It's all on the Internet that someone is looking for me to add me.,I usually don't like to harass people.。

Then I suddenly turned to the password I remembered, and I boarded the previous *** again, so I thought about it, and there were more than a dozen people by ***, including my parents, these relatives, and some very good friends and classmates, so that it won't disturb others, and it feels pretty good. I think a lot of ** or micro-businesses will be like this, because everyone wants to have their own life, so that life and work will not be too chaotic.

Of course, some people don't use WeChat much, and they don't like to talk to strangers, so they only add a few people, such as a friend of mine, she usually really gets a WeChat, I send WeChat to find her basically the next day, and the people in her WeChat are pitiful, basically parents and the like.

For those who are in business and have a cheerful personality, it is beneficial to add more friends and meet more people, even if they have no business, maybe they can help in their work in the future. Such people also like to add more friends.

In fact, at the beginning, I was like this, when I first came into contact with QQ, it was every time I touched the phone, I added friends and friends.

The QQ number was only available when I was in elementary school, because I didn't have a mobile phone, and I couldn't play, so I secretly used my mobile phone to play every time my parents were away. At that time, I didn't know what traffic was, and every time I went online, I spent money playing, and every time my dad's mobile phone bill went down very fast, haha, I was most worried when he checked the phone bill. My heart trembled, but at that time, the Internet fee was really cheap, and it didn't take a trillion in ten minutes.

In order not to let them know, every time I go online, I just add a lot of friends, as long as I give me a QQ number, I will add it. I don't know, but for what kind of heart, in fact, there are not many people who really connect and speak. In junior high school, I still added the classmates in the class all over again, and in high school, I have been divided into classes, how can I have so much energy to ask for their QQ number, and some of them are added from the group when they are looking for someone when they have something, or they directly chat privately without adding friends.

Later, I counted the number of people added to a class in high school, and there were almost a dozen people, and I felt that some of them were very hurried passers-by, and even if they were added, they would be deleted one day. There are only 30 people in a class in the university, and I have added more than 20 people, as well as people from various organizations and clubs, of course, most of them have added me, so I have added fewer people.

Now there are nearly 300 people on QQ.,I feel like I'm sometimes talking to only a few people.,Some people slowly deleted me.,Some of them were also deleted by me.,Keep it and don't speak.,If you really want to find it.,It's all available in the group.。

Because everyone's thoughts are different, he likes to add so much, and the second sister, these people just like to add ten. I guess that's what these people think.

It may not be a person who takes the initiative, sometimes it is related to the person's personality, and he is embarrassed to take the initiative to add you, or he may just not want to take the initiative to add you, just want the other party to add him. Maybe he feels that others take the initiative to add him to have more face, anyway, there are such people.

Because some people like each other, and now his friend is ten dollars like this. That is, he likes to be passive and does not like to actively wait for others to come to him. It could be that he looked at whether the other party had feelings for him.

If the other party has feelings for him, then some will definitely add him as a friend. Then the next step, he took the initiative to go out. Who chats?

Talk, talk, talk. If we are together, then move on to the next step. Of course, this is not for all people, but for some people.

Like passive, don't like. That's what his character is. However, as a boy, it would be better for me to take the initiative.

Because girls generally like to be passive. I don't like to take the initiative. It seems a little embarrassing to take the initiative.

If the boy likes him, then the director will have no problem, if he takes the initiative, the boy doesn't like him. So you can imagine how embarrassing it is.

Hello. I may think it's more convenient for you to add him. And it seems that he is not so catch-up. Of course, you don't have to worry about it so much. Treat yourself like an ordinary friend.

People make friends and deal with things are different, the style is also different, some think that you add him, is his respect, you value him, he is so comfortable, some people do not say who is indifferent, will study different, for people to do things more self, you must add me first, I can add you, otherwise I will not add you, such a person lives a special self, what is the drink?A person's interaction must depend on his character, and you can understand his temperament.