Do you have people around you who talk less or have a hard time talking to others?

I'm the kind of person who talks less, and I'm not particularly good at expressing my emotions to others, how to say it, and I'm more and more afraid that my words will hurt others, and will make others disappointed in me, and slowly, slowly, some of the words that are about to be said are swallowed back, and when I'm lost, I want to talk to someone, and I type a lot of words in the dialog box, and when I want to send it, I'm afraid that I'll pass on negative energy to the other party, and I'm afraid that the other party's few words of reply Maybe I'm too timid, or maybe I'm too selfish, and I've been paying attention to my mood Fear of loneliness with disappointed expectations, fear of the embarrassment of chatting coldly, and at the same time, I am particularly concerned about how others feel about themselves and how others feel in their hearts.

Yes My junior high school tablemate is an example, he rarely talked to people and had few friends himself during his three years of junior high school.

Yes, that kind of person is naturally lonely, doesn't like to chat with others, and is a bit introverted.

Everyone has some introverted friends around them who are less likely to share their thoughts.

I have a classmate who is a bit withdrawn by nature, she will say whatever others ask, never say more, and over time, everyone doesn't want to talk to her.

I will respect everyone's way of expression, and I think that such people will generally be the kind of people who are delicate in their hearts, think more, and think more. They will try different topics, maybe they don't come across a topic they like to talk about, they may be more interesting than we think

I'm that kind of person, and I probably have a little bit to do with my depression in the past, but I'm much better now, and I remember my high school table mate saying to someone, "People who know [my name] will get along well with her, and they'll understand what she's doing, and people who don't know her will just think she's a high-minded person, and they'll think she's really unreasonable."

The few people I know around me are all sullen types.,Usually the communication seems to be speechless.,Once you get acquainted, this guy can talk to you all night in the mountains.。

I'm one of those people who doesn't know how to communicate with people, I don't know how to find topics, I don't know how to reply, and if I don't want to talk, I can immerse myself in my world all day. But this is not good, I myself will feel that it is not okay to go on like this, it may be fine in school, but if I really step into society, I can't live at all, I will let myself try to communicate with other people. It's hard, but I'm sure I can do it.

If there is such a person around, try to communicate with him slowly. Don't be too anxious, maybe he just doesn't know how to get along with you for a while, if you really have a relationship, he will definitely feel it.

I actually talk less, I don't even want to speak, but I think that living in this society, communicating with people is the most basic survival skill, so even if I don't want to speak, I will force myself to communicate, but be clear, what things can be taken out to get the effect you want, the more you talk, the more people you know, so you have to distinguish who is using each other, and what people you can expose without fear. I wish all those who don't want to talk have a friend to support them.

I feel that I talk less and less now, and the older I get, the less I will find some awkward topics to talk about because I am afraid of being cold, and now I look at the books in the bookcase that teach people to chat, and I feel that I am really not a good student, and I am blind to those books.

Some people are introverted just for people they don't know well, and once they meet someone to talk to, they will be like a chatterbox, such as before our class"The goddess of coldness"。However, it is not excluded that some people really don't like to talk and everyone is like this. How?

Of course, it is the same, and the minimum respect must be there.

I'm such a person, because I think a little bit and I can't express what I mean, so most people don't understand and can't understand what I want to express, and I need to explain it over and over again. I basically don't talk much now, except with my daughter-in-law, other people, usually I say a few more words, people don't want to talk more, and I don't bother to say it. How to say it, sometimes it's very uncomfortable, but most of it is good, it depends on the individual, I like to maintain low pressure or something, I like to be silent.

That's all.

For some people who talk less and less, and even have difficulty communicating with people, my understanding is as follows:

1. I have seen through many things and the essence of people, and I have also seen the contradictions of many things, and I can't solve these contradictions and entanglements, and I can't really solve the problems I face, so I can't say much, after all, everyone's views on the same thing are different, and I don't want to impose them on others, so I don't want to talk more after a long time.

This part of the population will feel that communication cannot solve the problem, so over time they will not be very talkative.

2. Some people don't like to talk very much, their personalities are relatively introverted, and their inner doubts sometimes can't be solved.

They try to communicate with the people around them, but often find that their fixed thinking patterns have been ingrained in different life environments and experiences over the years, so most of the time the communication is fruitless. Over time, I became even more reluctant to talk more.

The impact of life on people's personalities:

In the 21st century, where mobile phones and computers are common, mobile phones are basically inseparable, often at least half an hour on Weibo, an hour on the circle of friends, and then watch variety shows, dramas, and occasionally watch a movie, these times occupy the time to communicate with people, so after a long time, everyone is used to this way of life, and they become less talkative.

Because they communicate with strangers, strangers will always be polite to them, rather than talking casually about them as friends.

Because you don't need to be stressed to communicate with strangers, even if it makes a bad impression on them, they may not contact you again in the future, and your friends need to be careful when they speak.

You can talk to strangers without any scruples and don't worry about many things. But when talking to acquaintances, you have to worry about whether that sentence is right.

Some people like to communicate with strangers, but they rarely talk to acquaintances because they don't talk deeply when they talk to strangers, and no one knows whom, with a sense of mystery.

Because when communicating with strangers, he knows nothing about his past, and no matter what he says, it will not affect strangers, but when talking to acquaintances, there will be many other factors that interfere, and if he talks about his difficulties, acquaintances may be worried.

Because in front of strangers, they don't know anything about themselves, they can say whatever they want to say to them, and in front of acquaintances, they are all shown in front of them, so at this time they will be a little more restrained and talk less.

Because acquaintances know each other too well, there are no topics, and there are more topics that don't know each other with strangers. That's when you can speak your mind.

There are no words.

1. Lack of knowledge.

2. I don't know much about the person I'm talking to, and it can be said that I didn't pay attention to the other party, no, I usually don't pay attention to the other party (so what do you usually pay attention to?) ）

How to improve: 1. Enhance your hobbies and hobbies, so that most people's hobbies become your hobbies. The root of the topic is knowledge. There is little knowledge, let alone a topic.

2. Don't be afraid to say it wrong, or say it badly. Only the more you say, you can know that you are wrong, and you should pay attention to improvement. Keep summarizing as you speak.

3. Find a book by a master of oratory, and read it aloud, clearly, and repeatedly every day. Until I can blurt out the contents of the book.

4. Pay attention to adjust your mentality, if you want to talk to this person, then you must treat this person as your own person, whether it is an enemy or a mortal enemy.

If you really want to be able to speak and say good things, you will definitely be wrong at first, and you will even be ridiculed and sarcastic by others. Always remember to adjust your mindset.

Don't speculate more than half a sentence, the main thing is to look at the person you are communicating with, don't refuse to communicate with others, listen to the outside world, sometimes even if you don't know how to pick up a topic, it is polite to keep smiling.

First of all, it's not that you have changed, or you can't speak, but the way of the world has changed, and we don't dare to speak anymore. Now the art of speaking is emphasized because many people are not worth communicating.

I have a deep understanding of this topic, and a person's silence has a lot to do with the living environment. I didn't like to talk before college, and when I wanted to speak, I had to say a few words to people I knew well. Because there are many sisters in the family, they have not been valued since childhood.

Accustomed to being ignored, so I don't have the desire to communicate with others, and my personality is introverted. I don't know where to start......In addition, there are many learning tasks and high pressure. All happiness and sorrow follow the grades, and there is no extra energy to chat and talk to others.

When I entered the university, my studies were not so heavy, my interpersonal circle became larger, and my life was relatively easy. So I was a lot more cheerful and had the idea of communicating with others. Communication is all about having fun and relaxing!

After graduating from university, I began to maintain the confident, flamboyant and cheerful ...... of collegeAfter working later, I found that some people didn't like my publicity and chatter. After being "hit" again and again, you realize that not everyone is willing to listen to your story. So I don't think it's necessary to say it, I don't want to say it.

It's enough to know a lot of things yourself, and just be a low-key audience in the crowd. If you really have a bad mood, just talk to a good friend...Maybe it's because society makes us silent, and there is a wall and a mountain between people's hearts. There are things you can't say, there are things you don't want to say, there are things you shouldn't say....The arrogant life doesn't need to be explained!

<> "There are very few people who can talk, and even fewer people who really have something to say.

I pursued the depth of the human heart, but I saw the shallowness of the human heart.

Mu Xin. I just think of you in many, many small moments. Like a movie, a song, a lyric, a road, and countless moments when you close your eyes.

Zhang Xiaoxian. There are three faces of memory, your side, my side, and the truest side.

Robert Sidley Evans, "A Romance of Light and Shadow".

Words are useless. The handshake in the Jiujiuchang Hall is a more appropriate comfort, because there are very few people who can speak, and even fewer people who really have something to say.

Zhang Ailing's "The Golden Lock".

What will happen in the future, I don't think about it at all. If you think about today all day and worry about tomorrow, what is the meaning of life? It's just that things are so bad that they can't get any worse, and I think there's still a way out.

Maugham's "The Shackles of Human Eyes".

When I was making clothes at night, there was a WeChat message on my mobile phone, and I was a friend's message basically back in seconds, and I opened it to see that the sister group that had not moved for a long time was actually active, and I was a person who talked a lot, of course, I joined the midterm. Over the years, the number of WeChat friends has been increasing, so far there are 250 people who have not met, there are more and more people, but they find that there are fewer and fewer people who can chat, and there are only a few people who can really chat happily, and chat has become a luxury desire of their own.

The world is too big, too complicated, too fast, it's really nice to have someone to talk to you at any time, to care for each other, to greet each other, to prefer to reply to you in seconds when chatting, and to tell you what she's going to do when she wants to leave, this kind of person is simply the light of life. How precious it is to have someone who truly understands my happiness and sadness.

What you meet is providence, and what you have is lucky. Life is such a coincidence, I miss you, but you don't miss me. Cherish what you're looking for!

Many people and many things as long as they are treated sincerely, even if they are lost, they can only blame Providence, then may we shine in the years when we can't see each other. Everyone is well!