I have been separated from my husband for 8 years, and I have been separated from my husband for mor

Updated on society 2024-04-12
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should have left a long time ago, what else does this irresponsible man want him to do? 50,000 yuan bought back your 8 years of youth, 8 years, how many 8 years are there in your life? Ask him more again, don't want it in vain, if you don't want it, he will give it to other women, you have been working hard for 8 years, just rely on what he says, it's not too cheap for him.

    Look for caution later. I hope you find your happiness as soon as possible.

    ps: You are so good, if I were a man, I would be willing to take you. Hehe.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Why did he only give 50,000?

    Let's leave after the conditions are negotiated, it is not easy to resist the war for 8 years, hurry up and find a boyfriend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's too much, hurry up and leave him, what's the matter! Don't think about the money, since you're not giving anything.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It should be accepted! .But 50,000 is it just sending you away?

    Although you're not for the money. But he's already done itIt shows that he only sees you as 50,000 ...

    He is ruthless, and you must be unjust. Got it?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Okay, don't be in vain. Live a little better on your own.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What are you hesitating about, you go to her, she's obviously avoiding you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Can $50,000 make up for your losses? Impossible! Look at how much financial ability he has, he can ask for more, if you don't want this money, you also give it to other women, this money is also considered to be common to your husband and wife, why should you give it to others.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you leave, she has no feelings for you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He's got someone outside, and it's not interesting to drag it, so get more money!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Couples are becoming more and more estranged, it may not be that the relationship has deteriorated, but that the communication between you has decreased, if two people do not communicate often, you don't know what the other person is thinking, you don't know what has happened to the other party in the recent period, then no matter how strong the relationship will deteriorate. So when you feel that the two of you already have a sense of distance, you have to sit down and communicate immediately, if both of you cherish this relationship very much, and don't want this relationship to break down, take the initiative to sit down and talk, if everyone thinks it doesn't matter, then it's good to get together and disperse.

    But sometimes the couple becomes more and more estranged, and it may be that the relationship between the two people has deteriorated, after all, everyone is changing, everyone is developing, you don't know what the other person will become in the future, all you can do is try to fall in love with each other, and maintain the relationship between you, if a person really wants to change, then the eight cows can't pull it back, if you feel that the relationship between the two of you has deteriorated, then let him go. If the other person is really determined to distance themselves from you and be cold and violent.

    If you are forced to break up, then you can't help it!

    Everyone encounters a plateau when they are in love. When you just start to fall in love, you will find that two people have a lot to talk about, and there are a lot of interests and hobbies to communicate, but as time goes by, you get to know each other more and more, and you will find many shortcomings in each other, and after a while you may find that you have nothing to say, at this time many people will mistakenly think that the relationship between you will come to an end, but in fact, if you cross this mountain, you can go on directly.

    Don't give up on your relationship at the last minute, it's not easy to cultivate a relationship.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you and your husband have been separated for more than two years, then the relationship will become very weak, and when people are not often together, the relationship will slowly fade, and then the two of you will feel that the marriage has come to an end.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello friend, you and your husband have been separated for more than two years, in this case, the relationship should be very small, and they have been separated for more than two years, so don't be involved anymore, you can get a divorce.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you are both working in a different place, you must live, it is not normal for you to live apart for two years, you may have your own ideas, if you live in two places and live separately for two or three years, it is nothing, as long as your relationship is there, it can still be good.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This depends on the depth of the relationship between each other, follow your heart, love the person you want to love, you don't need to regret it, even if the last two don't stay together for a lifetime, it can only prove that he is not the most suitable person for you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My husband and I have been separated for more than two years, do you still have feelings? I think you and your husband have been separated for more than two years, and the relationship must be weak, otherwise you can't be separated for more than two years.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Separation for a long time will affect the relationship, but there are still feelings, as long as they are together, the relationship will heat up quickly!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    My husband has been separated for more than two years, do you still have feelings? I think you and your husband have been separated for more than two years, what does it depend on? If the two of you have been separated for more than two years because of a fight, then there is no relationship, if it is because your husband and you go out to work to earn money to support the family, then after more than two years of separation, the relationship is still there. Hello!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    My husband and I have been separated for more than two years, do you still have feelings? In this case, I think that if I have been separated for so long, I may have no feelings, and having feelings is a feeling of family affection, so I think this should be no so-called feelings.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My husband and I have been separated for more than two years, do you still have feelings? I think if you have been separated for more than two years, you must have no feelings, after all, you haven't lived together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My husband and I have been separated for more than two years, do you still have feelings? Now that we have been separated for more than two years, the relationship is definitely not as good as before, and you can re-establish it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After two people separate, communication decreases or two people don't communicate much, so that the relationship will slowly deteriorate with these and there is a sense of distance. If two people cherish this relationship very much, they can communicate with each other and let this relationship continue.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If he has been separated for more than two years and has not been in constant contact, he really has no feelings, and he has some emotional foundation, but you said that he will also think rationally.

    Because two years is not a short time, through these two years of separation, he also feels that if you are separated, you can also live a good life on your own, so it is certain that the relationship will fade.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    My husband has been separated for more than two years, and there shouldn't be much affection in this case, otherwise, he wouldn't have been separated for so long, and the other party doesn't really love you, otherwise, he wouldn't have been separated for two years.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There should be, just a little lighter.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The consequences of long-term separation from your husband are as follows:

    1. Mutual incomprehension

    If they often go their own way, after a long time, they will not want to tell each other many things, and they may not understand each other when they talk about it, because they can't empathize with each other. Therefore, they will feel that they have a lot of things on their minds and do not communicate, and in the end, the situation that leads to is that the two people do not understand each other, and the relationship will only get worse and worse over time.

    2. Feelings fade

    If two men and women can come together and enter marriage, there must be an emotional foundation. Some people are even a couple who love each other very much, and getting married because of love is the emotional destination chosen by many young men and women. However, if the husband and wife are separated for too long after marriage, the relationship will slowly fade.

    3. There is a communication barrier

    We all say, "These two are husband and wife." In fact, the appearance of husband and wife does not only refer to appearance, but more to the tacit understanding and harmony between husband and wife after living together for a long time, so that they have many similarities in how they behave and do things. If couples do not live together for a long time, it will be difficult to establish this tacit understanding, and there will even be barriers to communication.

    4. Easy to be extroverted

    One of the most common consequences of a long separation is that both spouses, or one of them, tend to be extroverted. This is a relatively civilized statement, and we all know in our hearts what it is. The lack of a partner's place in life can easily breed extroversion.

    5. Everyone no longer trusts each other

    Love is accumulated little by little, and so is not love; Trust is accumulated little by little, and so is distrust. Once the husband and wife have been separated for a long time, they will no longer recognize each other and will no longer trust each other, resulting in suspicion and suspicion. At this time, the relationship will face an unprecedented huge test.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Due to work and family factors, my husband and I have been separated for many years. My husband said to me: "I don't have too many requirements, I just want to be able to talk to you every day, and be together every day, how happy it should be!" I just laughed and didn't answer.

    Aren't all people like that? What you lose is always good, but what you have is not cherished. I remember in those years, when my husband and I were together, it was a big quarrel for three days and a small quarrel for two days, and we were angry with each other.

    Now I feel that life is very comfortable alone, at least no one makes me angry. I am no longer angry with my husband because he smokes and drinks, and I am no longer angry at him for being sloppy and unkempt. I can eat whenever I want, I don't want to eat, I don't have to eat, and no one cares when I sleep, this kind of free life really makes me happy.

    In fact, no one can live without anyone, my husband's cigarettes are still smoking, and I am still drinking, but it is not too much, I didn't say that I didn't care, but my body was great. Even if I feel lonely sometimes, loneliness is also a rare leisure.

    My husband also realized this, and he said: "Our life is actually quite good, Xiao Bie is better than a newlywed, so that he is not noisy or noisy, but he feels that the other party is more amiable and cute." ”

    That's right, I want this life to last until we are old, and then we will be together again, with each other, taking care of each other, and having a perfect life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    [Legal Analysis].

    If the man agrees to the divorce, you can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures together. If the man does not agree, you can file a lawsuit with the court to request a divorce.

    [Legal basis].

    Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

    Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

    The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

    Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

    People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

    1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

    2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

    3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

    4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

    5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

    Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

    Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

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