I have nightmares about my marriage, help me

Ma'am: I understand your feelings.

5 years is not a short time, and in general, a couple should have ended their run-in period long ago.

Your situation is indeed a bit unreasonable, and you have to have a good liberation from this abnormal state of mind. Otherwise, the consequences are difficult to predict.

He just went too far. Your place in his mind is not difficult to see in the fact that he can face your parents and commit violence against you. This kind of behavior not only violates your personality, but even more seriously insults the dignity of the elderly!

It is an unforgivable bestiality! As a soldier, he has desecrated the sacred military uniform again!

Madam, it's not that you can't afford to lose marriage, it's the dignity of being a human being that you can't afford to lose!

You should have a break, there are not very few good men. Good bye.

There is a traditional Chinese saying; I'd rather teach people to beat boys. Don't teach people to divide their wives.

But your situation is different. I advise you all; Get out of the sea of suffering early.

Such a painful encounter. I sympathize with you very much.

You have to fight for your happiness. Protect yourself. He is beating you up from heaven, where does love come from, where does happiness come from?

Hurry up and find your own happy life. Bless you.

You can help with legal aid.

Or find their leaders on the troops to solve the problem!

This problem is in trouble with the troops, and his future is over!

This is a very serious matter! The troops will punish him 1

When he is in a good mood, talk to him well, and if he doesn't work again, go to his unit to explain the situation to his leader, and let the leader do his ideological work.

If you're not happy together, let's separate.

There are thousands of sons and daughters in China, and if it doesn't work, we will change it.

Leave the pain, life is a process, you have to live yourself well, don't be like this, if you don't have children, it's good to leave, really.

Life is really short, give it up, or you will regret it.

Looking at your information, I feel that you have no emotional foundation, you got married impulsively, and you didn't feel his thoughtfulness, maybe his temper and personality are not suitable for you, so it is better to choose to leave!

The woman is 31 years old, you haven't had children yet, and the current family is unstable, you are not happy, what are you waiting for?

How many years do people have to live qualitatively and quantitatively?

While you are still young, you can consider finding another one, go to find your own happiness as soon as possible, experience the happiness of married life as soon as possible, and have a cute baby will make you happy as soon as possible!

Support your choice of divorce!

Are you not at fault? I don't think a man who beats you five times in five years should be considered an irrational beater.

If you love him, you should be more tolerant, and marriage needs to be compromised.

Didn't see the question of writing your own in your big work and don't know why?

As the question: 31 years old and no children, if you really can't bear it, divorce.

Life is not like this, finding the person you love and entrusting your life is the most important thing for a woman.

Then make a baby together and change your temper, and it will be perfect.

Family relationships are the most difficult to hope that you will think more about yourself, let alone divorce and marriage? What an important thing!

Remember:; A man who beats a woman is not to be wanted.

This method is okay, that is, when you go to bed at night, put your hands on your chest and don't take your hands away, so that when you fall asleep, you will have nightmares, because I tried it myself.

Most of the insomnia and dreams are related to the psychological state during the day, and it is not unreasonable to think about it during the day and dream at night. In addition, neurasthenia can also lead to dreams, so it is recommended to take some brain pills or soothing pills to recuperate. It should also be noted that it is best not to drink tea at night, but to drink some jujube tea.

Fear of marriage, relax your mind, and get married. Everything will be ok when you get married!!

Hello friends, don't worry, this situation is a phenomenon caused by psychological effects, pay attention to timely conditioning.

It is because of the transformation of the environment.

Maybe you're too stressed, but talk to your family and friends, and you'll be fine.

One situation: during the day, you want to say that what you want to do is not realized, and the dream comes to complete it for you, so you can thank the dream.

On the other hand, there is stress to deal with, the heart that is pressing, the person who is difficult to face, the loss that is difficult to bear, and even the feelings of loss, shame, and guilt, which remind me through dreams, I don't want to do this, you just find out what is true, even if it is a bad idea, you must greatly accept yourself, forgive yourself, and then forgive others. The nightmare disappeared naturally.

In the third case, I had a nightmare by chance, maybe my arm pressed on the heart, and it was nothing.

The fourth case, the power of autosuggestion: For the third case, if you are very serious, take the dream as an abnormality, take it to heart, and "think about it day and night", the nightmare will continue to harass. Drugs have the same power of autosuggestion.

The drug presumably acted as a placebo. People who are too autosuggestive will not only rely on nightmares (deep down they even earnestly hope that they will appear again to prove what they believe), but they will also imply themselves and believe that they will have nightmares without taking medicine.

Turn your head around and try to sleep, it works pretty well for me.

Stressful. Find a way to reduce stress! Naturally, sleep well!

Drink a glass of milk every day before going to bed, massage your temples and fall asleep slowly, and if possible, a pillow filled with mung beans is the best.

Press your hands on your chest or use a pillow to press your chest...It will be easy to dream about it.

Thinking about it day and night, watching some horror movies** or something.

Watching horror movies, thinking about it during the day and dreaming at night, the effect is really good.