How do you get along with people who annoy you over small things?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I will send you a word first, and don't let other people's mistakes bother you.

    Think about why you should bother if it's always her fault. If she always does something wrong, then you communicate with her, don't sulk, maybe it's because it's all small things, she doesn't care, you talk to her, maybe she will pay attention next time, so it will be solved.

    Also, don't always look at the problem with feelings, for example, you are disgusted with her, and then she does a very normal little thing, and you also feel very unpleasant, think about it, isn't this unhappiness for yourself, but the other party has no loss, and you are short of fire.

    The little things in life should be dealt with in a timely manner and cannot be ignored.

    If you have communicated many times and he is always so bored and annoys you, then you have to be tough, otherwise you will make others feel that you are a weak person. First of all, I told him in an aggravated tone, if he is still the same, then don't react to the teacher or family members, and don't use violence until the last resort, because you are justified, and if you do it first, it will become unreasonable. Remember, there is no fear of anything.

    Hope you can solve it smoothly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Tell him seriously again, don't be friends with him again, scare him, and tell the teacher to listen, let the teacher solve it, or ask the teacher to transfer, the reason is that you can't see the blackboard, sit in front of a little bit!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In addition to ignoring her, ignore her, say hello when you meet, and don't talk to her if you have nothing to do. Pay attention to yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In a normal heart, suffering is a blessing, and the more you care, the more troubled you are.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Persist, endure, overcome, wait

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you want to be unannoying, just do the following;

    1. If you give comments or suggestions to others, you can click on it, and it is his business whether he accepts it or not.

    2. If someone else has something to do, don't disturb him, unless he is your best friend.

    3. To help others delay the draft, there is no need to be too enthusiastic, too hot and others are not easy to accept, you must know that sometimes others want to do things alone, not too early to delay want you to help, but it is not easy to say. If you worry too much about others, you will also mislead your own business.

    I can see that you are a very warm and sensitive person, and you really want to be recognized. My personality is also somewhat similar to yours.

    In fact, you don't have to be the best, as long as you treat people with sincerity, I think most people will like you very much.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Everyone has their own standards, just be yourself. Don't too! It's Taisen Ling, oh Qianming. Don't care too much about other people's opinions, but it's up to you to discern if you change your opinion.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    People can't help themselves in the rivers and lakes... Sometimes I have to get along with this kind of person.

    1. It's good to ignore it, she is talking to you, you have to talk to her about it, and now you are too busy to talk to her! Wait until you're done before you get on with it! The other is to ask clever questions! End the topic!

    2. Communicate with them more than listen. As long as you don't have anything urgent to do, you might as well calm down, listen to it, and remember it. Anyway, sometimes it may be because of my own inner reasons that I hate her! And these are good for exercising your perseverance!

    3. Repeat what he said at the right time, or ask a question or two. I believe that this practice will benefit you greatly. Sometimes, maybe it's because of prejudice that we hate them, but when we're calm, it probably won't be like that!

    4. When encountering people who explore people's privacy, they can't have one thing to say and two to say. The best way to deal with people who visit people's privacy is to answer the wrong questions. For the other party's question, it is not that he does not answer, but the answer is not what he asked. In this way, you will not offend the other party, and you will not let the other party succeed.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You don't have to do anything, just go to get along with those people you like, and you don't have to force it to get along.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is never a shortage of smart people in the world, but there are also many people in this world who are difficult to be self-aware, and some people can behave very stupidly, no matter how you look at it, it will not conform to their own aesthetic views.

    In the face of such a particularly troublesome person, no matter how good-tempered a person is, he probably can't stand it, he always feels that he will have things that he can't do, and he will continue to trouble you, anyway, you must help with big and small things, and there is another part that makes you seem to be very mother-in-law, always looking ahead and backward when doing things, without a little decision, and will always be suspicious.

    There's a saying that I can't afford to provoke and can't hide, this is the first piece of advice, just dodge, this kind of person, you talk to him, you can't solve it for a while, please, don't say it, the whole person is not comfortable with you, so go as far as you can, anyway, when he can't see you, he will naturally avoid trouble.

    You can go out to travel for a while, and it would be good if he came back with one less person.

    In addition, if it is close to each other, then try to avoid the rest time, you don't get up when he gets up, in a word, try to minimize the chance of the two meeting, no matter what he says, just say drag.

    The second way is to solve this problem completely, you directly talk to him, let him change it, but this matter is a long way to go, want to achieve a lot of pay, maybe you don't have other meaning, but because of this matter turned against each other, in the end friends can't do it, and finally become the most familiar stranger, so be cautious.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Getting along with people who are particularly troublesome can also exercise you, of course, if you don't want to be exercised, just stay away.

    I'm the kind of person who is very troublesome, every girl who is close to me when I go to school has a heavy responsibility, for example, I am a road idiot, I don't know the road, I don't know a classroom in class, and I don't pack my things much, if one day I have to go to a remote multi-purpose classroom, they have to wait for me to find the book first and then go with me; And when I go down the stairs or walk, I always wrestle, and I don't know why, when I go down the stairs, I will step on the air, they have to hold me quickly, and eat, I am also a picky eater, two people go to eat pancakes, I will say a lot of requests, master, I don't want that pancake, I want a lot of coriander, yes, two ham sausages, no hot sauce, no green onions, give me a little more from the sky, and then help me cut a section. Isn't it annoying? If I don't understand something, I'll keep asking.

    But no one gave up on me, and I don't know why. The girls who have been friends with me are very virtuous in the end, in short, they will take care of people like a big sister, maybe they don't want to do this, but so far I have asked a few, and everyone doesn't have much opinion on me, because although I am troublesome, but it is very reliable when it is critical, such as borrowing money from me, I will borrow money from me, I will accompany me if I want to play, and I will try to help if there is any difficulty.

    So this person is just a little troublesome, if you don't like it, you don't have to get along, who doesn't have a shortcoming, you also have shortcomings, from your own point of view, you also hope that others can be more tolerant.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Distance is a shield that protects our inner world.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In the interaction between people, who can be infallible? Therefore, it is said that people are tolerant, inclusive, tolerant and tolerant when they get along with others. To achieve mental compatibility, attention should be paid to increasing the frequency of communication and finding common ground.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People's hearts are mutual, if you play with your heart's eye, you have to play routines, no matter how good your friends are, they will be farther and farther away from you, get along with others, be sincere, be attentive.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Interpersonal relationships are a kind of relationship of good will, in the words of Buddhism, called a wide range of good relationships. Man is an animal with three parts reason and seven parts emotion. When others have shortcomings that are difficult for us to accept, there are many ways to deal with them in addition to excluding them as a whole.

    For example, appreciate him, learn from him, and appreciate him from the perspective of polishing your heart. Another example is to look at yourself and ask yourself why you are suffering from the shortcomings of others.

    In many cases, what we reject is actually ourselves. Disgust with other people's shortcomings or opinions, precisely because it is self that we cannot accept, and it is a pain in our own hearts. If you can choose to face or tolerate, it is a kind of growth.

    People with cultivation rarely hate others, not only because they have a wide chest and can endure it, but also because they have few pain points in their hearts that are difficult for others to touch. Confucius said that "a gentleman is frank, and villains are often relatives", which is exactly the case, the difference between a gentleman and a villain is that there are many pain points in your heart, and you care about others for these stabbing points.

    Chen Jiru, a scholar of the Ming Dynasty, said in "The Story of the Small Window": It is not necessary to live without evil neighbors, and it is not necessary to have no friends without harm, but those who hold themselves will get both. Meaning:

    It doesn't have to be a place where there are no bad neighbors at home, and the party doesn't have to avoid bad friends, the key is to be self-reliant, and be able to draw good things from bad neighbors or bad friends.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Getting along with people you don't like needs to pretend, you need to endure, you need to be humble, can you do it?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you want to get along with someone who annoys you, I think the only way to do this is to be patient and ignore him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Distance is a shield that protects our inner world.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    People's hearts are mutual, if you play with your heart's eye, you have to play routines, no matter how good your friends are, they will be farther and farther away from you, get along with others, be sincere, be attentive.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In the interaction between people, who can be infallible? Therefore, it is said that people are tolerant, inclusive, tolerant and tolerant when they get along with others. To achieve mental compatibility, attention should be paid to increasing the frequency of communication and finding common ground.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you meet an annoying person, then you should follow her more, because such a person will not listen to any of your opinions, she will do whatever she says, and such a person will treat him in this way.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    How to get along with others.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Be yourself, don't live for others, trust me,

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