Should I give myself a backup in a relationship?

It's better not to, because you have this idea and action, you will do it next time, you are still young, it is he who is worried that you will leave him instead of you, you have to grasp the scale, if you really can't be together, choose to break up, this society is like this, it is difficult to find eternal love, if you always think about finding a backup you can't focus on loving him, you will only see his shortcomings, love needs to be tolerant and single-minded, I hope you can put a correct view of love.

Backup, but don't let your boyfriend know! Besides, you are only 23 years old, you can date for a while longer and see your boyfriend's character clearly! A lot of men love women for sex!

There is such a saying in society that "men give love for B, and women pay B for love", which fully explains the purpose of men's love!

Shouldn't. Don't even think about it, think about it. What would he think when he saw it... Ever thought about it?

Absolutely not, you have to concentrate, if you feel that this is not good, you can break it, and you can only fight half-heartedly.

Since they are together, it means that he has something that you are satisfied with. Communicate with each other. You have a problem to speak up and let him know what you think, so that the relationship will become deeper and deeper. As for the spare tire, don't think about it beforehand, that will not get real love.

All kinds of men have such shortcomings or advantages, perfect only exist in Korean dramas, learn more tolerance, learn more satisfaction, and will have more confidence in love. As long as he is sincere to you and treats you as his treasure, the others can slowly adapt and change.

Love someone, see his essence, if the other person's essence is not bad, kind-hearted, why do you care about such a trivial thing as he can't give you an umbrella on a rainy day, you also said, he has a career, shouldn't people with little time fall in love? There are many women who know how to give. Hope it helps.

I think it depends on your attitude towards feelings, some women's feelings are all she has, and some will pay more attention to career, wealth and status.

If it's the former, you love him, so manage your feelings well!

You can try to test him, he often misses appointments, then you are a little cold to her, you also start to make mistakes like him, and distance yourself from him, see his reaction, if he still reacts to the career, then your future will be farther away!! You know if he is on the rise in his career, and if so, then you should understand him as well!!

If you want to be with your current boyfriend for a long time, then you have to be genuine.

If you say it well, you are preparing for the future, and if you don't say it well, you have an improper style.

As long as it's sincere and there is no generation gap, there shouldn't be a need!

A spare tire is a must, and if you don't explain, it's also a good thing to have a few more confidants.

Want. Make yourself less harmful!

It's okay not to let him know.

True love, I don't care so much.

The man who broke the appointment is unavoidable, there is no sense of responsibility, and he will be divided early, so don't disturb him to find another one!

Half-heartedness will not succeed in anything.

Of course, maybe we'll break up that day.

Break up, it's too much of a difference, and it's not suitable for you.

Wu Yekun "It turns out that she doesn't love me enough".

She generously gave hope and gave my heart and liver.

What's the point of continuing to give blindly?

She has a gap to lean on, and I can also hold the light.

Cheerful for the sake of a superficial harmonious situation.

Actually, I'm afraid to peek.

If you expose the emotional reality, it feels too uncomfortable.

It turns out that she doesn't love me enough, so I sit in the back seat.

It turns out that love is not about paying too much.

It turns out that she only repays me, and it turns out that she has repented.

Even if I give more than I reap, it's my fault.

She should be more disappointed and shaken than I am.

Only loneliness haunts me.

Helpless this deed.

Blinded pathos creates the illusion that dominates both sides.

It turns out that she doesn't love me enough, so I sit in the back seat.

It turns out that love is not about paying too much.

It turns out that she only repays me, and it turns out that she has repented.

Even if I give more than I reap, it's my fault.

Forgive me, I'm still numb and resistant, I always have hope for her.

It turns out that she doesn't love me enough and it's not her fault that she is addicted to it.

She was happy to be accomplished, and she didn't owe that much.

It turned out that she only repaid me, and the only way to deceive me was to deceive me again and again.

Whoever ends up happily satisfying with her will be which one.

I'm afraid of insulting me.

Develop your own abilities, don't rely too much on the other person, give some warmth when the other person needs it, don't appear in front of him all the time, sometimes you can deliberately disappear for a period of time to make him miss you. Hope to adopt.

First of all, you have to be an independent person and don't rely on each other for everything. Secondly, you have to dare to stand up for yourself, of course, in the right situation. Finally, you have to work hard to improve and show your strengths.

Generally, girls who do not have a strong sense of presence will be in a relative state in love. In fact, you can be bold, don't care so much about her, you yourself are the most important. You don't have to worry about his business.

It doesn't have to be a result. So that you can not be too passive.

You hang on to him, you want to find him all the time, and then you have to look busy, sometimes you take care of him, sometimes you distance yourself from him.

If you feel that you are at a disadvantage in your relationship, let him get used to your presence first, and then suddenly stay away from him for a few days, he will take the initiative to come to you when he is not used to it, and your status will come up.

If you feel that you are at a disadvantage in your relationship, let him get used to your presence first

On an equal footing with your lover, compare your heart to your heart and be considerate of each other.

Everyone is different, it's good to live in your own way, why care what others think, since you are in love, what she likes is what you have, if you change, then it is unknown whether she still loves you.

Personal advice. Put yourself in the last place.

It's the family, the wife and the children, themselves!

What to do, consider in that order. Don't think about yourself first!

This question mainly depends on what kind of attitude you have to face it, whether you are facing it with a fulfilling life, it is perfunctory, if you are talking for the purpose of marriage, then you must pay more and lay a good foundation for the future I don't know which one you are.

I can only say that don't care about anything for love, you should be sensible, light love is blind, how can you say that you can control it, you can only say that you don't affect your other normal life because of your love!

Don't scruple so much. Why bother with these ordinary things. Love is beautiful.

Whether it's long or short, I think it's a breakup in the end. I don't regret it's not. No one will ever scold you, why did you know it was like this.

Words of a fool. I don't think you're going to give up.

As the saying goes, "Don't be afraid of 10,000, just in case".

So this is not just about love, but even everything.

But personally, I think that the back road is just an idea in my heart, and I don't have to show it.

Empathy, if your other half left a back path for you and a backup third party, would you?

Let's take it as we please

Yes, that's right.

Think carefully about whether he is worth your whole effort.

Will you have to decide later.

Society is realistic, and there is no regret that the medicine is sold.

No. You are wrong, we have to look at the way back, don't be confused, find the direction of life, don't be confused about life.

Love is to devote oneself wholeheartedly, if you leave a way back, is it still called love?

I feel like I'm purple, unless you're sure you're going to get married in the future.

Follow your own thoughts, don't let others dominate you, so that you will fall in love, and you will not be confused.

The car broke down, there was a kit in the trunk, ask her to help you get it.

Help me get the contents in the trunk.

1. All lack of security and do not have enough trust in the people around them, probably because they were too lonely when they were young, they should hang out with other people more and not lock themselves in the world of lonely people.

If you care too much about the other person, you will suffer from gains and losses.

Why is there no sense of security?

Dreams are people's subconscious, and you may have been under a lot of pressure in this area recently! And he's the ...... your subconscious candidateI like it, I can only say that maybe a little!

I've been like this for the past few days, dreaming of a guy I know but don't know well pursuing me, and I think I like him. But I have a boyfriend.

A person's dreams at night are related to the things she thinks about the most during the day, indicating that you must be paying attention to him and thinking about him.

It means that you are young. Don't rush to develop with this man because of a dream, I have dreamed before, I was young and ignorant, I always felt that this dream was too amazing (in fact, it was just a hint given by myself), and began to pursue others, but now it seems that I would rather forget that dream at that time.

Not necessarily, because dreams are always weird.

It doesn't have to be just an idea.

It's possible to subconsciously like him.

=.= Yes. Thinking about it day and dreaming at night.