Who has made you mature in your life and by what?

17 years before the college entrance examination two months because of a serious illness almost failed to take the college entrance examination, I was learning design, after the completion of the professional course, there are only 4 months left for me to learn and review the previous cultural knowledge, may be a disease, two months before the college entrance examination I suddenly fell ill, that day the image I was not very profound, I only know that the moment I got up felt that the world was spinning, my eyes were black and I couldn't control my body and fell, and when I fell, I suddenly felt liberated, as if all this busyness had nothing to do with me. The next few days are a month and a half spent in the hospital, I can't go to class, I can only stay in the ward to read books and review by myself, this sudden kick at the door of my whole family is at a loss, my parents for my body for the sake of my body, I hope that even if I repeat a year, I don't really collapse my body, but I know that time waits for no one, I don't want to work hard for so long, and spend a year of time, money and youth in exchange for the same results as others. There is no way to listen to the class, I wrote my own outline, and then I got a lot of teachers' key points and notes from my classmates, I have to thank my group of lovely friends, in my current life in the most difficult and difficult moment has been with me, help me, support me, the last time is really the biggest transformation in life, you have experienced high school for your own goals to fight for the days, experienced your life should bear some hardships, your expectations for the future will never disappoint you, In the end, I was lucky enough to be admitted to the university of my choice and went to my favorite environmental art major.

I was vulnerable and helpless, I didn't give myself a favor, I just understood what I was going through, I was just trying to be who I wanted to be. I hope that you who read the article, don't give up easily when you go through any difficulties, the more you feel that your way forward is difficult, the more it means that you are improving.

It is a kind of understanding after experiencing the diversified life of the family and society, self-knowledge, timely self-cultivation, and after sinking, knowing how to take and put down the things around and outside the side, and the thoughts will naturally come openly, and the thoughts will be sublimated, and then they will be casual, and they will be naturally mature and rational in life and work.

The people I have seen, the things I have passed, the mistakes I have made, the times I have been, and the society that I have been exposed to by my ears and eyes, bit by bit, have accumulated today's mature and rational me, pampered and humiliated, not sad for myself, not happy with things, and go with the flow when I can't do anything, and try my best to take every step of life.

I have the impression that some people have gone through a lot of ups and downs, but what they do still makes me look naïve and unresponsible. And some children are young, but they make me feel like little adults.

Becoming mature doesn't have to be something to go through. It's a metamorphosis of one's own mind. If you understand more about everything, and knowing how to understand the people and things around you may make others feel that you are becoming more and more mature.

As the saying goes, if a person doesn't experience it, he doesn't know the pain when the fire doesn't burn the instep. Therefore, for the maturity of various things, there is a lyric that is sung well, and we are just understanding, and we are old.

Maturity is a person's living environment, and the experience of family and growth is different, and it is also a show of a person's character and mentality. Some people have a sense of maturity in their bones. And some people have gone through a lot of trials and grinds before they become mature and sensible.

Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, they are young and vigorous when they are young, and they have no experience and lessons, and they will do everything without thinking. I remember that not long after I graduated, I went to the society and felt that I had a great ability, so I didn't listen to my father's advice, so I contracted a brick kiln.

One or two thousand yuan, as if he had changed as a person afterwards, only to understand that no matter what he does, he should first understand the truth of the matter, and then do it after careful consideration, but he should not act blindly on impulse, otherwise it will cause unnecessary losses and serious consequences. As everyone grows older, after continuous practice, they have summed up their experience and lessons, and they have become more and more stable and mature.

It was the time to pay the rent, and after paying the money, I basically had no money. I planned to borrow money from a few close friends, but before I mentioned this stubble, people began to cry poor. Anyway, I'm afraid I'll borrow money.

Think about the time when I borrowed from someone's house, I never made any excuses, basically borrowing as much as I wanted. Time flies, white clouds and dogs, and now when it is their turn to have difficulties, everything has changed. Perhaps, some so-called friends can only eat, drink and have fun together, and fly separately when disaster comes.

A person from the beginning of the mountain road, twists and turns, falls, gave up, walked back, cried and laughed, always persisted, until he came to the end of the road, but found that there was only a broken bridge, but not discouraged, insisted on building the bridge, but there was an old man coming out of the forest, and found that the old man walked out of there at the same time and there was a wooden house not far away, the old man said that he built it himself, and had lived here for decades, once I also walked here like you, but I saw a broken bridge that I couldn't cross, and I also tried to build it, I couldn't stick to it, so I had to build a wooden house here for a living, and the old man said again, young man, you have succeeded, and you have maturity and reason.

As I get older, my relatives and the elderly around me will age and pass away due to illness disputes. This kind of thing is a situation where people don't have to do everything, and it will make people mature! Learn to cherish and know that time is not easy and the world is impermanent!

Time flies by, taking away the old things like water, like a dream, dissipating in front of you. When you meet someone in another country, you will feel that he is very tired, because there is no lonely town without you in his days.

There will be a lot of beautiful encounters in the world, like flowers and dreams, when they really bloom, they will be full of holes, if we are not able to know each other, why bother to express auspiciousness and pain, a real emotion will make people always try their best to think, and can not express the betrayal of cold and warm, hurt and irrelevant to give up. In reality, I always keep meeting some people, I want to meet them in person, and I miss them; If you want to be alone and scatter in your fantasies for a day, you will still miss them; Sometimes I hate some people and hate them.

In a person's life, you will meet many people, but that is your choice, you must get, but when you choose and compare, it is not necessarily your choice, but you must get the other party's choice.

Whether a person's failure goes to the sea can make life better is not an arrangement that does not pursue fate; A person's gains and losses must be gained, not necessarily the joy that can be obtained. However, it is important to understand that there is no one in the world for no reason, it is your own choice, or yourself.

The gathering and dispersion of life are often encountered, everyone has their own mistakes, but everyone is willing to decide for themselves, and not shouting is the joy that everyone has no gain.

Because, life is nothing more than what you imagined, and more importantly, your own future, in such things do not require you to be perfect, so that everyone will pursue something, but without you, you are not like this, your days are blank.

When I accompanied my parents to the hospital, I suddenly realized that I was naïve and began to face life with a new attitude.

Everyone needs to grow through the experience, and they need to go through something before they realize that they need to change. It was only after a trip to the hospital with my parents that I realized that I should have matured a long time ago.

Parents don't want their children to worry, but sometimes they need their children to accompany them. Although I have been working and living in my hometown since graduation, I don't usually go home much.

One day my mom suddenly called me and asked me to drive home and take them to the hospital, saying that she was feeling a little unwell. The next day, I woke up early in the morning, and the three of us went to the hospital to check up my mother. During the check-up, I heard my dad say that my mom had been unwell for a while, but she didn't want to delay my work, and the two of them were older, so they didn't go for the check-up.

When my dad said this, I actually wanted to blame him in my heart, but when I saw the gray hair on his sideburns and his tired eyes because of his recent poor rest, I suddenly didn't know what to say.

I realized that my parents needed my company, and I think I was much more mature than before. When I went to the hospital for a check-up, my mother didn't have any major health problems, and while I was relieved, I also felt that I really cared too little about my parents.

Since then, I have called my mother every once in a while, and every time I have time, I will take my children home with me, hoping to spend more time with them. When I watched my parents play with their children, I really felt like I had matured a lot.

Maybe one day we will learn to be considerate of our parents and respect what our parents have done for us, but by the time some people realize this problem, their parents have already left this world. I think I'm lucky enough that I'll be able to walk with them for a long time.

Don't let it become a pity that "the son wants to raise but the family can't wait", and have time to go home more often to spend with your parents, they really need us.

I think that human maturity is a gradual process, and generally it becomes mature as you get older. But sometimes, maybe due to some changes in family or work, it will also make people mature in a short period of time, I myself was given a heavy responsibility by the leader, after a period of early and late work, I have a new understanding of work and life, and I have become a lot more mature in a short period of time.

After experiencing a broken love, I suddenly realized that some things are not enough to work hard, and if they are not suitable, they should be separated as soon as possible, which is good for everyone. Stopping my childish self-centeredness and obsessing over one thing has made me feel mature.

When I thought that meeting that person was to find happiness, but in the end I was a stranger to him, and after breaking up, I felt that I was mature, and love also needs to be paid, and it can't just be blindly taken.

It's that after getting married, I experienced some conflicts within the family, which made me mature, and I felt that the pressure of life was really great, and I also had a lot of my own thoughts in my heart.

My grandmother's death made me suddenly mature, and I felt that life was too short to waste my life.

Probably after the breakup of the first love, I originally thought that the whole life of love history was very clingy, and I would feel unhappy if he didn't reply immediately when I sent a message, after the breakup, I learned that love is equal, too clingy will be hated, don't affect your normal study, work, sleep and meals because of love.

After experiencing the icing on the cake, when I needed to send charcoal in the snow, I found that the friends I could chat with around me were gone, and I knew that the feelings between people were not as pure as I imagined.

When parents have disputes with others, they find that their parents are so fragile and helpless.

I think it's after being betrayed by my friends, and I feel mature. It also feels like there's no friendship to believe in.

Volunteering in some orphanages has matured me, and I think life should be lived well, not too decadent.

I used to be defenseless in front of everyone, and I had nothing to say, but many years ago, I was betrayed by a friend who turned around, and since then I have learned to disguise myself in front of others, and I have been half-truths when I speak.

Career, marriage failure, parents illness, these things will make people grow up quickly, especially when their parents are sick, we are needed, we feel that people will become very mature.

When I encounter setbacks in my work, I rely on my own perseverance to get through this difficulty, and I instantly feel that I have become mature.

After the 3rd breakup, I felt that I had matured, because I would never be a love brain again, and I had my own judgment and opinion on feelings.

Hitting the wall again and again made me more deeply aware of the cruelty of this society.

But all attempts ended in failure, not to mention that his head was bleeding from his head, but he was also groggy.

If you haven't experienced it, there are some things that you may never understand. I have experienced it myself, and you don't need to be told by others, you will understand what you should understand.

My experience is relatively ordinary and ordinary, and it makes people mature little by little. I am just starting to face the society, and I am the manager who has come into contact with my position for the first time; It is the first time that two people have been recognized emotionally above the family factors of both sides.

After continuous growth and constant job changes, I have become more and more mature and not easily affected by things.

It was after a big downturn that I matured, and I owed a lot of money when my business failed. In fact, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, I am living a good life now, isn't it just that I owe money? I've survived the same, people must not give up easily, as long as they are alive, everything can be turned around.

Being unemployed, making me mature. For example, people know that they are warm and cold when they drink water, only when they are unemployed and fall into helplessness and hesitation, you will see a lot of things clearly, some people and things, usually happy, but the indifference shown at this time can directly chill a person's heart. If you see more and understand more, the initial noise and complaints will be transformed into a rational silence.

Life is against the odds, and only by moving forward with your own weight can you find good luck and happiness.