I love her and her dad doesn t agree, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-01
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The best thing to do is not to get married naked, and to have a house and a car to give her happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1. Work hard, be strong, and tell yourself that there are others who love you.

    In fact, we are human beings, and some of us are here to hone our willpower.

    As if his father was one of them, he appeared as a better person when he came to spur himself to become a better person. In this way, you will feel better, and you will also be more motivated to be a strong and hard-working person, after all, there are other people in this world who love you, mothers, grandparents, siblings, and your own lovers, etc.

    2. Find a time, find a place, and have a good talk with your father.

    Since the other party gave birth to himself, there is no need not to love himself, talk to his father well, and confirm whether he thinks too much, or his father really doesn't like him and doesn't love himself; If it is the former, it can be regarded as no mustard between father and son.

    You can live happily and not think cranky.

    3. The harder you work, the luckier you are, you behave so well in front of your father, I believe he will also see it, he will not think that you are an unbelievable girl, I believe that one day he will accept you all!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you feel that Dad doesn't love you anymore, you should behave well, study hard, and let Dad see that you are a very sensible and lovely child, and he will definitely love you more. In fact, every parent loves their children, but it means that the method is different, and it does not make you feel it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You should study hard, inherit the advantages of your parents, carry them forward, surpass the previous generation, and make some achievements, of course your father loves his children, you don't have such thoughts, filial piety to your parents,

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If Dad doesn't love you, it may actually be because he has a bad relationship with you, at this time you can see if you can cultivate a good relationship with Dad, and then tell him that you need Dad's love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Dad definitely loves you, but the way he expresses it is not quite right, maybe he doesn't usually express it through words, but he may express it in another way, maybe he is a person who is not good at words.

    You can honor him well, and I believe that he should give back to you in the same way.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can tell your father how you feel, and tell him that you need his care very much, and hope that he can talk to you more and spend more time with you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think your idea is redundant, because there is no parent who does not love their children, and you may be because your father is too busy, so he does not care enough about you, so he gives you the illusion that he does not love you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't think about it all day! You're your dad's child, can he not love you! Maybe it's a problem! Feed your family! You have to work hard to make your dad proud of you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you don't feel loved, you have to see why Dad doesn't love you, do you feel that the relationship between the two of you is unstable, so you need to work hard to be yourself and let Dad see it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is no father who does not love his children, it may be that the father is not a person who is good at expression, he is just silently doing everything for you, and the way of expression is different, so that you can misunderstand that the father does not love you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You feel like your dad doesn't love you anymore! And mom loves you and is happy! As long as you study hard! Bitter section of the body! Make yourself better, and your parents will love you even more!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This may be one of your own feelings, but I think your dad must love you very much, otherwise he wouldn't be so nice to you, so you should still understand your dad or communicate with your dad more.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You don't think about it in terms of personal feelings, parents in the world will love their children, but everyone loves in a different way, and it has something to do with their character, and fathers are generally stricter, which is true.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Dad loves you, maybe you don't feel it, Dad himself is not good at expressing it, and he will not be particularly gentle and careful and care about you directly, but he earns money to support your family and gives you money to spend, and will meet some of your requirements, this is a kind of love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, parents like their children and may not be good at expressing them, so you don't feel his love for you. Don't deny yourself lightly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Actually, it's not, every parent likes their child, is it that he is too strict with you and too harsh to make you have such thoughts.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It may just be that you feel, because many times it feels like you will do something wrong, and it is impossible for your parents not to love you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your father forces you to do something you don't like, tell him what your attitude is towards it. At the same time, you should tell your father your opinion, and at the same time make it clear that you will not do this, but also strengthen your attitude, so that you can change your father's opinion. Some fathers will let their children do things they don't like because they think it will be good for their children and will help them a lot in their lives when they grow up.

    But these fathers do not think about the ideas of their children, so they are too one-sided when doing things. In fact, as long as parents are good at communicating with their children, and children can let their minds be understood by parents, then this matter can be handled and changed amicably. Some children will not resist, so parents think that the children are willing to do what they arrange, which means that the children like it.

    Only by clearly stating that you have a rejection attitude towards these things, then parents will be willing to examine their own perception of these things. And there are also some children who have problems with the way they get along while communicating with their parents. Parents don't understand their children, and children don't understand each other, and while parents don't understand each other, fathers think that what they give their children is the best.

    The child thinks that the father is forcing himself, but in fact, this is the result of not communicating well.

    Only by opening up and telling my father what he really thinks, can he change this status quo. However, there are also some fathers who are very strong and unreasonable, and at this time the child can also try to get the father to take the initiative to give up those incorrect ideas, so that the situation will be improved. And in life, you can talk to your father more, so that your father knows what he wants to do, so that the feelings between each other will also get a good volatilization.

    In order to be able to reconcile the parent-child relationship, we must learn to understand and communicate in our lives.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think you can reject him by saying what you really think and saying it in a reasonable way, and I believe he will understand you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You have to tell your father that your heart is more depressed, and you don't like this matter at all, and I hope your father understands you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Make your attitude clear, be calm when you speak, tell him your future life plan, and let him know that he is not doing this on a whim, but has a specific goal.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You should tell your father that you want to do what you want and not to arrange yourself in everything.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think purely from an emotional point of view, the relationship between two people has nothing to do with other people, and the relationship between two people cannot be affected because the husband doesn't like it. It is normal for the father-in-law to love his daughter, and he can't bear to watch her live happily after working hard to raise a daughter, and pity the hearts of parents all over the world!

    Being disliked by the father-in-law should not become an obstacle to love, but should become a motivation to work hard, to strive to change oneself and become a person that the father-in-law is satisfied with. It is a very bad habit for young people to give up at every turn, and what young people need most is the courage to face difficulties, not to be afraid of difficulties, and in the end they will still impress their father-in-law.

    Because everyone's situation is different. So, here are some factors to consider:

    1.There is no such thing as a bad door. This notion is based on traditional social hierarchies, and rubber laughter has become less and less common in modern society.

    Therefore, before deciding whether or not to stick with this feeling, you need to understand how important you are to the match.

    2.The quality of the feelings themselves. Even if the relationship itself is not good, then there is no need to continue to insist. On the contrary, even if the door is not the right one, if the relationship is good, then it is possible to continue walking.

    3.Other factors. In addition to the right fit and the quality of the relationship, there are a lot of other factors to consider.

    For example, family background, cultural background, religious beliefs, career planning, etc. These factors can sometimes affect the development and future of the relationship, and need to be considered and communicated in advance.

    4.Future possibilities. Finally, the possibilities for the future need to be considered. This includes whether you can face the challenges of the future together, whether you have common ideals and values, whether you have enough wisdom and courage to deal with various problems, and so on.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In relationships, family support and recognition are very important. However, there are times when we may face a situation where our girlfriend's father does not approve of our relationship.

    1. Cultural differences.

    Cultural differences are a common reason for a girlfriend's father to disagree. Different cultural backgrounds can lead to differences in values, beliefs, and customs, which can affect how they perceive your relationship. Girlfriend fathers may be worried that you won't fit in with each other's cultures, or that your relationship will be affected by a culture clash of cultures.

    Coping Methods:Respect and understanding the other person's culture: Make an effort to understand and respect your girlfriend's father's cultural background and demonstrate your understanding and respect for cultural differences.

    Communication and exchange: Have an open, honest conversation with your girlfriend's father, explain your awareness of cultural differences and express your willingness to learn and adapt to the other person's culture.

    2. Economic conditions.

    Financial conditions are another reason that can cause a girlfriend's father to disagree. Your girlfriend's father may be worried that your financial situation is unstable and you will not be able to provide a good living condition for your girlfriend.

    Coping Methods:Show your sense of responsibility: Show your plans and goals for the future, as well as your commitment and care for your girlfriend.

    Improve your financial skills: Improve your financial capabilities through study, work, or other means to demonstrate your commitment and determination for the future.

    3. Educational background.

    Your girlfriend's father may be concerned about your educational background, think that your education level does not match your girlfriend's, or worry that you will not be able to provide a good future for your girlfriend.

    Coping Methods:Demonstrate your ability to learn: Demonstrate your ability to learn and the importance you place on education by actively learning and making progress.

    Share your future plans with your girlfriend father: Show your girlfriend father your plans for the future, including how you can use your educational background to lay the foundation for your future.

    4. Character and morality.

    Your girlfriend's father may be worried about your character and morals, worried that you will not be able to bring happiness and stability to your girlfriend.

    Coping Methods:Build trust: Build trust in your friend's father by acting honestly, trustworthy, and responsibly.

    Show your character: Demonstrate your qualities of kindness, integrity, and respect for others through your actions and words.

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