Why do you still want to be together when you know it s not suitable?

I know it's not suitable, but I still want to be together, mainly for these reasons.

The first reason is that it is not suitable to be together and reluctant to let go, and I have not met a better and more suitable person than him, and I have not let go of the relationship for so long so quickly, and it always takes time to dilute it. I still want to give the other party or give myself a possibility, try, maybe it's appropriate, and I can run in well. But it often backfires, and many times it feels like two people are not suitable.

The second reason is that after being together for a long time, I feel that nothing is good, there are all shortcomings, and I feel disgusted when I watch it every day. As long as there is a quarrel, I will break up on my lips, say anything outside, and I will not think about whether the other party can accept it, never think about these, but the relationship has faded after a long time. However, when I really broke up, I was reluctant to give up, I felt that I still had him in my heart, and he was still there, but I had been together for too long, and I felt that I didn't care anymore, but in fact, I still couldn't let go of it in my heart, and I was still reluctant.

The third reason is that if you have been together for too long, it takes internal energy to break the habit, and the human brain will automatically look for the most labor-saving state. At the same time sunk costs.

It is also the reason why people are reluctant to let go. It's like buying **, the more it falls, the more reluctant it is to sell. In addition, many times there is a reluctance to part because there is no better alternative.

The fourth reason, because the feeling is built bit by bit, a memory of a journey, but a lot of feelings are reluctant to be inappropriate, in fact, it's like I don't want this toy anymore, but I don't want to give it to others, it's more selfish.

The fifth reason is that sometimes two people are not necessarily together because of love, but also because they are used to it. Getting used to living with someone is like getting up every morning and drinking a glass of milk, and suddenly one day without milk (you can't see that person) will feel empty in your heart, as if the whole day is incomplete, even if you quarrel with this person every day. People are afraid of change, and they are afraid of variables.

Knowing that it is not suitable to be together, there must be something that each other wants.

The two of them know that there will be no results. But still to be together, there must be something back to each other. Or when we first got to know each other, a lot of things happened that made each other unforgettable. So the two of them are also entangled now.

Not being suitable does not mean that you don't love each other, when you are together, you must both like each other and love each other, so you will be together. There are certainly many aspects of incompatibility, but if you love each other enough, you can definitely overcome this incompatibility.

Because I like it, I know that in many ways the two people are not suitable, but the feelings in my heart, the love in my heart cannot be concealed, and this thing that cannot be covered cannot be deceived by myself, and I always want to show it unconsciously and want to be together.

Everything is caused by love, although in the process of communication, I feel that the other party is not suitable for me, but what if I already like it, now I am reluctant to let go, there is still a glimmer of hope in my heart, I feel that after being together, two people can run in with each other and become suitable people, there is this possibility, but the result is not necessarily good.

I know it's not suitable, but I still want to be together, that's because I can't breathe, I just feel like him very much, although I know that it's not appropriate to be together, but I can't let go of him in my heart, so it's still together, which can only show that you have him in your heart.

Because there is still love, I can't let go of the expectations I once had for a better future with him, I always feel that if I run in again, no matter how much tolerance and tolerance will get better, I want him to be relaxed and happy, but he only feels depressed, and wants to make himself calm and tolerant, but he feels wronged for a while, and they both feel that they have paid and changed a lot for each other, but the other party does not feel it. I hope he is all right, and he doesn't dare to look back, after all, he loves each other.

Although I know that it is not appropriate, we must love each other at the moment. Since you love each other, why don't you love thoroughly and vigorously? In this way, even if you are separated in the future, you will not regret why you didn't have a good love before, and you will have more good memories.

It may be because they like each other more, or they may just be looking for a sense of belonging, or there is no other suitable person of the opposite sex, so two inappropriate people will also be together.

Maybe two people have some common ideas, and then they will be together, and if they really want to be together, it depends on whether the two people are suitable.

If you love each other deeply, you don't have to think about it so much. There is affection between people, there is family affection, and it is natural to be sad when they are separated. Everyone knows that once people fall in love, they can't extricate themselves, maybe we will look forward to a new turn in things, sometimes it's just a self-deceptive idea, because although the two are not suitable, they have feelings for each other, so they will feel more painful after breaking up, indicating that the pain caused by the depth of the relationship between the two is deeper than the pain caused by the inappropriate degree of the two.

Sometimes the two are together, they have loved each other, they have paid, and they may no longer be suitable for being together, but they will still be reluctant, one is reluctant to give up a relationship, and they feel that they can save it, and the other is reluctant to pay for each other, and there is no result in the end.

Most of the reasons are reluctant, when you are together, you should be together, cherish the moment, don't think about it so much, if you really can't be together, then let go in a chic way and always meet someone who is suitable for you.

In love life, incompatibility is actually the norm, because everyone's personality, conditions, and three views are different, so it is impossible for two people to be completely suitable together, and they insist on being together because they like each other.

Everyone will have something to worry about, knowing that they can't but they are reluctant to want to get it, but instead of two people being sad but it is better to take a step back, many people will also have attachments, which is very normal, because he is serious about this matter and it is important to him.

Some people are not destined to be all the way, let you tie up to a boat ruthlessly, it's just in vain, how he loves you, you can't understand, how you dig out your heart and lungs to accommodate him, he can't understand, he feels that two people are in two parallel worlds, seen from afar, no matter how hard you walk, you can't get close.

Knowing that it is not suitable, they still want to be together, mainly because they are greedy for the material enjoyment of the other party, the other party is a relatively wealthy person, or has better economic strength, so they will be with him.

Many people are blinded in love, knowing that they will not have a future with him, and they are not suitable for him, but they still have to try to be with him, because they are reluctant. I can't bear to pay for such a long time and it will be replicated. So even if it's not suitable, try to be together.

That's because I haven't met a more suitable one, so I have to give each other a look, knowing that it's not very suitable but not saying that I can't get by, it's better to have someone to accompany you than someone who doesn't have a companion.

First, I haven't met someone who is better and more suitable for himself than him, and I don't let go of the relationship for so long so quickly.

Second, after being together for a long time, I feel that nothing is good, there are all shortcomings, and I feel disgusted when I watch it every day. But I'm used to it, and I don't know how to separate.

Sometimes it's not appropriate to let people know, but you feel reluctant to let it go. It may be a habit that has been formed over a long period of time, and habits make it difficult to give up.

Because I like it too much and can't put it down, I know that it is not suitable and there is no result, but I still insist on trying it like a moth to a fire, otherwise I can't let it go in this life, and I will regret it for a lifetime, because I always feel unwilling if I haven't tried it.

I know it's not suitable, but I still want to be together Most of the reasons are mainly because I am unwilling to be together, because after being together for so long, you know each other, if you find a relationship again, you have to start from scratch, understand from the beginning, and it will only be very tiring.

Because I am reluctant to give up on each other, I love deeply, I feel uncomfortable leaving each other, and I also expect the other party to change, and I can't bear to give up this relationship.

I think that you don't know each other very well, and you are reluctant to separate, but you still care about each other, love each other, and you lack knowledge. It's normal for girls to have such a mentality, if you really love, treat your boyfriend with a more tolerant heart.

I know it's no longer suitable, why are we still together? Because they love each other, they know that it is not suitable, and they still have to be together. They want to turn the unsuitable into the appropriate. Make the impossible possible. This is the power of love.

This is because two people love each other too much. So though knowing that the two people have a lot of differences. It may not be appropriate to be together, but they still have to try. This way you won't be left with regrets.

I know it's not suitable, but we still want to be together. It shows that the two of them are not together because of love, but because of some other factors. Maybe it's money, maybe it's making do with it. It's all about being together for the sake of being together.

This is because most of people's behavior is governed by the subconscious, and once this subconscious inertia is formed, it is difficult to break it. Change often requires a great deal of pain and discomfort.

The subject said that he felt that he was no longer suitable to be together, but he was reluctant to let go.

This shows that at the beginning, at least both parties think it is appropriate, and there are certain aspects of the other party that attract you and have brought you a sense of security and trust. It's just that later in the relationship, some behaviors or habits of the other party do not meet your expectations or cause you a certain amount of harm, and you feel that the two are not suitable. In this case, you are reluctant to let go, it may be that you have not met a better person at the moment, or even that the person you meet gives you the feeling that is not as good as the feeling that the current one gave you, it is difficult for you to have the confidence and courage to choose a relationship.

The second is that you have been together for a long time, and your temperament, personality and three views have been in line with each other, and you have gotten along well for a long time, but due to changes in the external situation, the two are not suitable and are reluctant to let go.

Because they have given their true feelings to each other at the beginning, and only when they love someone deeply, will they be willing to change themselves for each other. They are even used to each other's breathing and heartbeat, and everything about the other party is so familiar. Although it is not suitable now, if you choose to let go means that you have to start looking for the right person again, first of all, you don't know whether you can find the right person, even if you find the right person, you still need to go through a comprehensive understanding and run-in, that is, after the run-in is successful, you still face many variables, which are all problems that need to be considered before letting go.

Therefore, when the relationship between two people becomes inappropriate, as long as it is not serious enough to have to let go, it is better not to let go, a good relationship is managed by both parties, and when there is a problem, find the reason from yourself and then correct it, and communicate with the other party at any time to make compromises with each other and maintain the relationship. Otherwise, if your own problems are not corrected and you find other objects, they will still exist, and you will not be able to solve the problem fundamentally.

Knowing that it is not suitable, but still having to be together, this is because although two people know that it is not suitable, they still accept each other, they still feel that each other has a lot of places worthy of their nostalgia, and they still have a certain vision for the future, and hope that slowly each other's can become very suitable, so they will be together, that is, when there is no good yearning for the future, they can overcome the current difficulties and walk together.

I know it's not suitable, but we still have to be together. It's because there is no suitable one yet, and when a suitable one appears, they won't be together. It's better to be bored than to be alone.

This is because they love each other deeply and fall in love. This kind of love is also relatively common from ancient times to the present, the reality is always full of contradictions, difficulties, and most of the so-called inappropriate reasons come from the outside world, such as family opposition, friends staying away, etc.

Maybe it's when you find it inappropriate, you've fallen in love with him, and at the same time the other party also accepts you, whether it's touched or sincere, and you've been getting along for a while, so two people who seem to be inappropriate are together, if you love him, it's as more run-in to run into each other's feelings, maybe in the end you are in tune.

It's because the two of them have been together for a long time and are used to it, so they don't want to waste time with other people, so they just get together.

It shows that two people love each other very much, even if they know that there will be contradictions and misunderstandings, they should try to be together, and it is recommended to communicate more when getting along to reduce friction and contradictions.

Maybe it's reluctant, it's too reluctant to be with each other, so it's still a short time together, this kind of love will also happen in our adult world, that is, it's too much love, because some material or spiritual or family aspects affect two people together, it will lead to this phenomenon.