How to be a scheming girl?

At the beginning of man, nature is good. Grasp your original beauty and nature. Don't hurt you for someone else's sake, or go astray when you see someone else playing "beauty tricks".

Maybe those who play tricks are "handsome" and "cool" in our eyes, but they may know the sweetness and sourness. No one is born with scheming. Scheming is just a means for people to protect themselves, but it is never used to "show".

Protect yourself, protect your own beginning, and don't let those worldly mundane things infect your pure heart! If you're trying to be stronger for yourself, time will tell you how. If you're trying to win over your beloved boy, then forgive my stupidity, I don't think any guy would want to be with someone who is very scheming, unless he wants something out of you.

If. What if. You really can't calm yourself, then, you imagine that all the people in the world are bad people, and they should all be in hell .. a nose

Over time, you will find that you will become what you want to be now, but not what you want to be in the future. Memories should be full of warmth, and I hope you are the same. Also, learn to forgive.

Lost people. First of all, you should be calm and my text has good wishes for you and all the girls who are like you now.

May you, be happy.

Scheming and wisdom Of course, kindness is king.

Why are you going to be a scheming girl?

Is it to arm yourself or is it simply scheming?

The original intention leads to a different ending.

The more wisdom you have, the more you will naturally see the problem more thoroughly, the more appropriate your analysis and understanding, and the more predictable you will be.

It's called scheming.

Specifically, read more books, especially the classics, the ancients memorized them one by one, can you do it?

Embarrassment. This kind of thing. Let it be.

I think the special "intelligence" of scheming has something to do with the existence of life and the living environment. Some people don't care whether he is deliberate or not, he can always complete many calculations in his heart at once, and some people are sunny and destined to be a strategist in every possible way.

If you must want to be scheming, it is better to think about it yourself, weigh the pros and cons, gains and losses, and think about how to best treat yourself (this should be the ultimate goal of scheming, right?). ）

In general, deliberateness does not create a real personality. Just be yourself.

I think it's better to be a cute girl than a scheming girl.

Emotional psychology: well-behaved and scheming.

Chongqing Cuncaoxin psychiatrist reminds that the attraction of well-behaved girls and scheming girls to the opposite sex is different

First of all, the voice of a well-behaved girl: I don't like to show myself too much, I am always very reserved, keep a distance, although I like it psychologically, I always feel: I am a girl to be introverted, I can't expose my thoughts too much, although I have a boyfriend in my heart, but let my boyfriend feel that she, not confident, not active, like boiled water, no assertiveness, timid, dull and tasteless.

And what about scheming girls? Chongqing psychiatrists explained their voices: more active, with their own sultry attributes, increased interaction, enthusiasm, they are willing to show their charm and characteristics in front of the opposite sex they like, take the initiative to express their love and different points of view, which makes people feel very real, generous, care about themselves, very different, very confident, and difficult to forget.

The voice of the good girl: I love him, I want to do more for him, although she doesn't talk much, but if he asks her, she will not hesitate, for example, see that he is tired and hungry, she is also tired, but she will cook a pot of fragrant soup, silently watch him drink it like a child, the good girl will be very pleased and smile silently; Even did laundry, cooking, and housework for him without complaint, and his boyfriend was very excited at first, but gradually felt that it was a matter of course.

But the scheming woman thinks like this: she wants to attract the boy she likes, and I want to guide him to participate in every bit of life with me, so that he thinks of me every second. Every time she does housework, the scheming woman must pay attention to taste, from a small photo frame to decoration, she will introduce her ideas to her boyfriend, to achieve the advantage of home decoration, etc., so that her boyfriend or lover can understand her difficulty, her dedication and taste.

If there is love in the sky, the sky is also old, and the heart is worried about the grass!

1. Don't look at people with your eyes, because it's easy to wander, and don't listen with your ears, because it may be a lie. Feel it with your heart, it is really never fake, and it is absolutely impossible to be fake.

2. The person who is most likely to betray you is often the person who blows the pat on you; The person who hurts you the most must be the person you love the most. The person who really wants you to make progress will not pat you on the back, and he will kindly point out your problems, even if he knows that you will feel uncomfortable because of it. A person can hurt you to the bone, the premise must be with your permission, you love him, you have a special affection for him, so he will make a mess of your life, if you don't nod, no one can get in.

3. In this life, there are three bowls of unpalatable noodles: human noodles, scenes, and feelings. Can't be too much, and can't lose grace, it's really difficult to get it just right, we are all slowly groping in life.

4. In the end, all emotions are just value exchanges. Once it is not possible to provide value to each other. Two people will break up and divorce. When the value of one party is higher than that of the other party, the high value will look down on the low value, and the other party has not betrayed you, but you are not worthy.

5. If you are one point higher than others, others will be jealous of you. If you are five points higher than others, others will envy you. You are ten points taller than others, and others will respect you.

6. Other people's attitude towards you depends on your wealth or status, not what you do. In a relationship of unequal status, don't expect the other person to respect you.

7. All people will hand over complex tasks to those who are capable, but leave the benefits and benefits to those who have a good relationship with them.

8. Relatives don't necessarily care about you, they may just want to know whether you are good or not, if you don't mix well, stay away from you, mix well, please you.

9, sheng mien, fight mi. Be kind to others, don't be kind to others, he will slowly take your favor for granted.

10. If someone verbally attacks you and offends you, you have to fight back on the spot. Otherwise, he will repeat his old tricks next time, and there is no psychological pressure.

11. There are good and evil in human nature, people who are filled with evil in human nature exist, don't think that you have a conscience as a person, and some people's conscience has long been thrown out of the clouds.

12. Anything that feels like you really can't control is best to stay away from it in the first place, no matter how charming it is or how attractive it is to you.

13. Your kindness must be a little sharp! Tolerance should be moderate, stay away as soon as possible for those who don't know how to be grateful, and dare to fight back against those who are an inch.

14. Many people don't hate privileges, they just hate that the people who have privileges are not themselves.

15. When some people do not get a certain benefit, they will have the emotion of judgment, and when they are an interest group, they will maintain such a relationship all the time.

16. Don't tell others about your sadness easily, most people are just listening to jokes.

17. The basic thing that concessions bring is to gain inches, don't think about what respect and distress you can get in exchange.