How to understand that poverty and perfunctory are two different things?

In my opinion, being poor is due to poor economic conditions, but I will try my best to be good to my girlfriend, that is, I will spend 9 cents on my girlfriend if I have 1 yuan. Perfunctory means that no matter what his economic conditions are, he always ignores his girlfriend, and he is more stingy in the face of his girlfriend's material needs, and he may spend 5 cents on his girlfriend if he has 100 yuan.

(1) Poverty is forced to be "stingy" with his girlfriend.

I talked to a boyfriend before, he is not very good, when everyone else is giving gifts, he doesn't have extra money to buy me gifts, but he will accompany me. At that time, we needed to fetch hot water to the dormitory every day, and he would use his own hot water bottle to bring it to the downstairs of our dormitory. The people in our dormitory are relatively lazy, and they can't get up every morning when they go to class, so he will memorize my class schedule, call me ** to wake me up when I have morning class, and buy me breakfast and wait for me.

During the time when I was going to graduate school, he worked even harder than me, helping me occupy a seat every day, moving things, buying food and water, and listening to my complaints. Because he is very kind and attentive to me, he makes me happy even without any gifts. <>

(2) Perfunctory is subjectively "stingy" towards his girlfriend.

Perfunctory is the greatest harm to a girl. In such a relationship, the girl will suffer from gains and losses, thinking about things, one time he is very busy and has no time to take care of me to comfort himself, and then he denies his thoughts just now, thinking that he just doesn't love him, so he will be so sloppy. The boyfriend of a girl in my dormitory is this kind of person, his family background is okay, and he was the most enthusiastic about Christmas when he was in college.

On that day, her boyfriend didn't even have a congratulatory text message, and when my roommate called him, he still thought my friend was making a bit of a fuss, what was there to do on a foreigner's holiday. My roommate was very sad and didn't see him come to a ** comfort, and the two of them broke up quickly. <>

Poverty is a state of life, it is a true reflection of your current situation, and perfunctory is your attitude towards others, it cannot be said that the reason for poverty is perfunctory others, the two are not related.

Personally, I think that the words poor and perfunctory are different, because if you are poor, then it is a problem of a person's ability, he can't do some things within his ability, and perfunctory means that he can do these things, but he doesn't want to do them.

Poverty is that there is indeed no material foundation and economic strength in actual life, and perfunctory is to be able to do well in daily life, have a material foundation to support one's own life, but because of some of their own lazy habits, perfunctory life.

When a person is poor, he will also spend money for you. But perfunctory is different, he will do something without his heart, and he will not give all his energy.

First of all, I think this sentence is very true, because poverty and perfunctory are really two different things. To be poor is to be poor, and perfunctory is a character flaw.

Poverty is not able to afford expensive gifts, financial ability is not good, perfunctory is a matter of attitude, many times do not need too much money to do things, and are too lazy to do, and say that they are poor, this is perfunctory.

I think that poverty should be a kind of environmental dilemma if you work hard and can't get results, and perfunctory is your unwillingness to work hard, and it is a problem of personal will.

I feel that although the poor person is poor, his ambition is not poor, and he may be more active than the rich when he encounters things, but perfunctory is to do things absent-mindedly, and he feels that this thing is not good for her, so he doesn't want to do it with his heart, this is perfunctory.

Poverty can be changed, but perfunctory is different. It shows that this person's attitude is problematic, his three views are not correct, and he is not very willing to communicate with others.

In love, some people often use poverty as an excuse to perfunctory each other, but in fact, they just don't want to spend time and energy on it. For example, on Valentine's Day, the other party said that he had no money and was too poor recently, so what was the good thing about a broken festival. But in fact, poverty is not the problem, the real problem is a perfunctory attitude, what you want is not an expensive gift, but the heart of a lover.

People are like this, knowing that they will be paid and rewarded for doing serious things at work, and on the other hand, they become reluctant to work free things. Thus forgetting that whether it is a handwritten love letter or an expensive gift, the most important thing is to be attentive. And attentiveness and perfunctory really have nothing to do with what age you are.

Especially in the current environment, too many people are keen on the concept of love where money comes first. They easily compare their love for someone with money, a house, and a car, and then rightly equate money with love.

However, only by remaining sincere and sincere can the two souls be together and work together on the path of love.

Summary. 1. Milk tea is not more expensive than cigarettes, a bouquet of flowers is not high consumption, poverty and perfunctory are two different things, love and dislove are hidden in the details. 2. Poor is, I don't have money, but I will also express my lover's birthday on a holiday, even if it is a roadside wildflower or something very cheap, but it is all a heart.

Just because you can't afford it. Perfunctory is, in fact, there is nothing, and the mind can't see it at all, claiming that he is poor. There are all sorts of excuses.

3. The sense of ritual has nothing to do with being poor, the people who love you will love you in every possible way, poor and perfunctory are two different things, and the sense of ritual is really cheap and precious.

Poverty and perfunctory are two different things, and the sense of ritual has nothing to do with poverty, and poverty and perfunctory are two different things.........1. Milk tea is not more expensive than cigarettes, a bouquet of flowers is not a high consumption, poverty and perfunctory are two different things, love and dislove are hidden in the details. 2. Poor is, I don't have money, but I will also express my lover's birthday on a holiday, even if it is a roadside wildflower or something very cheap, but it is all a heart. Just because I can't afford to buy the previous silver.

Perfunctory is, in fact, there is nothing, and the mind is not visible, claiming that he is poor. There are all sorts of excuses. 3. The sense of ritual has nothing to do with being poor, the people who love you will love you in every possible way, poor and perfunctory are two different things, and the sense of ritual is really cheap and precious.

4. If you can't meet the boy who is willing to give you a sense of ritual and security, then love yourself. It's not terrible to be single, it's the most terrible thing to be and rather than lacking. 5. In fact, a bunch of late-night stoves full of Wang Tianxing is not expensive, and there are birthdays every year.

It's just that our definition of happiness is not about expensive and rent-for-rent comparison, but about the care we feel. So, being poor and perfunctory are two different things.

1. Milk tea is not more expensive than cigarettes, a bouquet of flowers is not high consumption, girls must distinguish clearly, poor and perfunctory are two different things, and ritual and material are also two different things.

2. We are all past the age of listening to love. Probably only actions can prove whether the other party is worth it or not. I'm afraid that I'll fall into the abyss of reality, but I can't help but use realistic standards to measure my current love.

3. Li Zongsheng wrote in his lyrics: "I never wanted to be single, but I had a premonition of getting married later." "It seems that everyone wants to get rid of the loneliness of being single, and it is all realistic.

Take all kinds of realistic standards to consider whether the other party is suitable or not. "Do you have any savings, what kind of work do you do, and what is your monthly salary. But they forgot whether they loved or not.

4. It seems that people nowadays feel that suitability is more important than liking, and love without material is a plate of loose sand. "Love" has become a luxury for young people nowadays. Only the rich talk about feelings, and the poor only talk about money.

5. A sense of ritual, freshness, and a sense of security cannot be lacking, I just want to listen to a formal confession, and then talk about sweet love, rather than being together in a daze, and separating in a daze.

6. In the past, I always felt that the sense of ritual was not important, as long as we could be together, as long as we liked each other as always. When I grew up, I realized that the sense of ritual has nothing to do with hypocrisy, and the meaning of the sense of ritual lies in treating the seemingly boring things in life with a solemn and serious attitude. Buy a bouquet of sunflowers on the weekend and you'll find that the wind is extraordinarily gentle.

Poor is that he has no money, insufficient funds, and may not be able to buy the gifts you want, scum and slippery, but he will find a way to make up for you, prepare with his heart, carefully choose what he wants, treat this matter with his heart, and remain sincere and sincere. Perfunctory means that he doesn't buy you anything under the guise of having no money, or for all sorts of reasons, or buys things that are so cheap that you don't need them at all. It's just that he doesn't want to spend time and energy on the matter of buying you gifts.

You may not really want the gift he gives you, you don't care how expensive it is, or how delicate it is, you just want to see how much he wants you. Even if someone is poor, he will find ways to show his love for you. There is a person who, even if he has money, is not willing to spend it on you, and he will refuse to pay for you on the grounds of age and poverty.

For example, on Valentine's Day, he may say that a broken holiday, when you can't celebrate it, there is nothing good to have it about. Or he will say that he forgot, which is perfunctory. And the person who loves you, even if he has nothing, he will write you love letters, handmade gifts, and find ways to make Rula happy, make you happy, and make you happy.

I still remember Zhang Ailing once said: "If you like someone, you will be humble to the dust, and then blossom." ”

Women are always very easy to immerse themselves in love, and the more they love each other, the more they will feel inferior. They will become cautious, always consider each other's thoughts, and always put each other first.

Gradually, I will grieve myself, as if this is enough to prove how strong my love is. Don't dare to ask for too much material, always want to be sensible, and even always make excuses for the other party.

Although love needs to return to real life, money is not the key to hindering love.

Whether a person loves you or not depends not on how much money he has, but on his actual actions.

Women need to understand that poverty is not a perfunctory excuse, and it is obvious whether you love or not.

Poverty and perfunctory are two different things.

In fact, for women, what they care about is not what kind of life the other party can give, but whether the love is sincere.

They are willing to endure hardships with their lovers, even if they live a hard life, but they are worried that their sincerity is entrusted to unworthy people.

They don't care whether a man is poor or not, they are afraid that the other party will perfunctory themselves, and they are even more afraid that men will use the excuse of poverty to perfunctory themselves.

The sense of ritual has nothing to do with poverty.

In fact, most of the female Cong Yuncha people yearn for love mostly because they have a lot of beautiful fantasies about it.

They hope that one day they will be able to meet the lover of their dreams, have a grand wedding, and be loved like a princess.

Although this idea is somewhat unrealistic, it does not stop them from pursuing romantic love.

These should be two different things, and they can't be linked at all. Poverty is the essence, and perfunctory is a bad style.

Summary. Poverty and perfunctory can also be compared to two different attitudes towards life: one is to work hard and constantly strive to change one's situation; The second is to be passive and lazy, and do nothing about one's own situation. Therefore, when choosing the path of life, we must have a diligent and enterprising spirit.

Poverty refers to a state of poor life, while perfunctory refers to an attitude that is not serious enough and not attentive enough to things. In other words, both "poor" and "perfunctory" have their own unique meanings: the former alludes to the difficult situations faced in life; The latter, on the other hand, embodies an attitude of indifference, inattention, and lack of effort.

Poverty and perfunctory can also be compared to two different attitudes towards life: one is to work hard and constantly strive to change one's situation; The second is to be passive and lazy, and do nothing about one's own situation. Therefore, the royal sales, in the choice of life on the road of disturbing the sedan car, must have a diligent and enterprising spirit.