How can you tell if a man really loves you and cares about you?

When you love someone, you will be willing to do anything for him, you want to stay with him every day, and you feel very happy with him. It's a little shallow to like, and when you do a lot of things for him, you will also want him to do it for you, or you will be more hesitant, or you will think about it a lot. But you will do anything for him regardless of everything, without complaint, willingly, and without expecting anything in return.

And it's dead-hearted, and it won't have any thoughts about others. Writing this means I'm not ambiguous, because I've taken care of everything and I'm getting ready to love this person's ......z's.

Say you're sick and watch how he behaves.

Summary. Dear, I think the most effective way to judge whether a man loves you and cares about you is to judge whether he can bring you emotional value, in other words, whether he can make you feel safe enough.

How to tell if a man really loves you and cares about you.

I think the most effective way to judge whether a man loves you and cares about you is to judge whether he can bring you emotional value, in other words, whether he can make you feel safe enough.

First, financially, he can support his family, has a sense of responsibility, and can meet some of your financial needs.

Second, emotionally, whether he can actively soothe your emotions when you have them.

Third, in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation, whether he can pay attention to your details in an all-round way, and reflect these details you need through action in a timely manner.

Fourth, look into your eyes. If he cares about you, then the way he looks at you should be sincere and beautiful.

Fifth, a sense of responsibility, whether you have a long-term plan for your relationship and future life, work, marriage, and children.

I sent him a child today, and he didn't come to see me at this time, and he didn't send me a fee, I want to ask him if he wants it, or wait a few days to see it.

Dear, you have a child between you, right?

The child was just born, right?

He asked me to beat me, but he didn't mention the ** fee to transfer to me, and he didn't come to see me, so I was rare.

Dear, I see. It's an unexpected pregnancy, and then your boyfriend let you fight, but he didn't stay with you after the fetus, and he didn't give you a ** fee, right?

Dear, what kind of attitude did he have when you told him that you were pregnant?

Generally speaking, in situations like this, the boyfriend will stay with the girl, because this matter is not a matter of one person, but a matter of two people.

At that time he asked me to knock it out.

If at this time, the boy leaves the girl alone to bear silently, then there are only the following possibilities. First, boys don't know how to face girls. Second, boys don't love girls much.

Third, Lu Fang is too busy to pull away. Fourth, the pure uproar attitude that doesn't matter about it.

It's true that he's busy.

Dear, if he was very adamant about letting you get rid of it, it was because he didn't want this child, or he wasn't ready to get married or have children.

He was busy, I understood, but he didn't say anything, and I felt uncomfortable.

I said that my coat is not hungry, and if he doesn't come, I won't come home tonight.

Dear, understandable. At this time, girls are more vulnerable, and even if boys are busy, they should be condoled.

Dear, I think the biggest reason why you are doing this is that you feel his indifference and indifference, so I hope to make him feel guilty and make him realize his mistake through this kind of accompaniment, so that he can realize his mistake and take you back. But don't be too aggrieved by yourself! After all, just after the tire, the body still needs to recover from the <>

First: deliberately disappearing when traveling together.

Couples go out to travel together, is a better way to deepen the relationship between two people, if you suddenly disappear for a period of time when traveling, **do not answer, WeChat does not reply, see what the other party is reacting, if you care about your person will definitely be anxious, give you non-stop calling**, send messages, because in his heart, the most afraid is that you have something, afraid of losing you, if you play disappear, and she (he) is quietly back to the hotel waiting for you, on the surface it is a confident look, In fact, I don't care, at most I will give you a **, if you don't answer, I will send you a WeChat message to tell you that he (she) is waiting for you back in the hotel, if you meet such a person, you should consider whether your relationship should continue, because he (she) doesn't care about your safety at all, and when you return to the hotel, you may still be angry with you, and will tell you that because of your disappearance, you haven't played well and so on, but there is no word of concern. Can such a person be a real relationship when they are together?

Second: Go bungee jumping or roller coaster together.

Bungee jumping or roller coaster, for some bold people may be nothing, but for some timid or afraid of heights, it is a great challenge, if you he (she) is a timid or afraid of heights, then you must go to sit for these two things, one is to let him be able to overcome his fear, the other is to see if he dares to hold bungee jumping with you, people often can show their true nature when they are afraid, if he doesn't even do this with you, Then what he said about loving you is only limited to words, because loving someone will be desperate for the other party, not to mention just an entertainment project, if she really loves you, he will be willing to accompany you in whatever you do, even if it is something he is afraid of.

Third: "pretend" to break up once.

This article is more applicable to girls, and he "pretended" to break up once, note: it's pretending, don't make it true, pay attention. For example, you and him (her) deliberately quarrel because of a trivial matter, and after the quarrel, you will pretend to break up, and you will leave after speaking, don't pick him up today** or reply to his WeChat, see what his reaction is, will he take the initiative to admit his mistake, will he worry about your safety, if the other party does not have ** WeChat is still quarreling with you, and you reason, then you don't need to reply to his WeChat, if the other party sees you will not WeChat is not worried about you, but more angry and corrupt with you theory, then you should think about it, Does he really love you, and does he still treat you as a treasure in the palm of his hand?

1. Understand the shortcomings of the other party, or never think about leaving.

In fact, in the world of feelings, true love is not the initial heartbeat, but understanding each other, but still fascinated by it. If you understand all the shortcomings of a man, know that he is machismo, calculating, and impulsive. But he still can't let go of him, he never thought of leaving, but he is willing to grow up with him, this is probably the person he cares about the most, and he can have such a feeling, that is, he really loves someone.

2. Even if you are silent, you will not feel embarrassed.

The best state for two people to be together is that even if they stay together and don't say anything, they won't be bored, but as long as they are around, it's enough. Life is always plain, and it is a beautiful thing to be able to experience a life as plain as water. Therefore, if two people can really understand each other together, give each other space, and will not feel that it is not interesting not to speak, then this kind of relationship is a good state.

Those who can feel this way are probably those who truly love each other, so that they will not doubt each other because of a little thing.

3. Be able to fit each other in terms of thinking and living habits.

You must know that if you can find a person who is truly in love, can communicate in thought and life, this person must be the right person. He will definitely know everything about you, he will understand your thoughts, he will not ask you for anything, and he will respect your ideas. Many couples are separated mostly because they don't understand each other well.

Therefore, if you can agree with each other ideologically and tolerate each other in life, then you will truly love each other and be willing to make changes for each other.

Willing to spend money for you.

When many people fall in love, they don't like to discuss the topic of money with their partners, and they always feel that talking about money is too cheesy and hurts their feelings, but they don't know that most of the conflicts after marriage are related to money. A person's income belongs to a person's privacy, and the reluctance to talk about money before marriage may become a weak point in your relationship and lay hidden dangers for subsequent marriages. A man who doesn't want to talk to you about his income, his wealth, and doesn't let you know about him.

It is enough to look at the attitude of men towards themselves, to see whether men treat themselves with special care, or whether they are particularly caring.

Judge a man who truly loves you. You can use some specific examples or your own real feelings.

1.Tell the other person about the shortcomings of your own meditation first, and see if the other party can accept it.

2.Ask him if there is anyone he can't forget, and if there is, don't start.

3.What he values most in love.

4.What he can't bear the most in love.

5.What are the biggest advantages and biggest disadvantages of his royal yard dust.

6.What do you want to gain in a relationship.

7.How the other party controls you.

8.What he considers to be the worst quality.

9.When was the longest relationship he had ever been in and why did it end.

10.What is his five-year plan.