I ve been in love for three years, but I don t love it, how to choose?

According to her behavior, she doesn't have much love for you, she has been with you for 3 years, probably due to responsibility, she may have been in a contradiction in her heart, I don't know whether to tell you the truth, or force yourself to like you, if she doesn't really like you, even if you are together, you will not be happy, you yourself have to ask yourself, whether you really love her, not used to her, "love" and "habit" are very different, I hope you talk face to face, frankly communicate your thoughts, Properly solving this problem is good for both of you, and you should not ignore her angrily, that will only show your naivety. Sometimes giving up is also a form of love.

Little People, Big Wisdom] Regiment is over.

Don't wait, find a better one! The old doesn't go, the new doesn't! She's just guilty!

The girl you love and you may have summed up the fate of the two of you in her heart for the past 3 years, or maybe she decided according to what she wanted in her heart. Another is that she has now met her new love, but she feels sorry for you, and she can't get over it in her heart, so she says such things and distances herself from each other. A woman's faith is tormented.

You have to think about it yourself and observe and observe. It's almost time to cut the mess, don't procrastinate, it's been 3 years, and then it's been delayed.

There is no right or wrong in the kingdom of love, only love and be loved, love is like a multiple-choice question, choose to love and wait for your girlfriend to return to your side, pay silently, choose to be loved to give yourself a long vacation, open your heart to accept the care and love of the outside world. Sometimes giving up doesn't mean the end, love is love! Grasp the present and have the future!

Hehe, I heard you tell this story, and I think it's funny! You're so stupid! So stupid! Love is a matter of the two of you, not to mention how many things have happened in the past 3 years, and begging is something you can explain with words! Your feelings matter!

Do you think she loves you? Have you ever asked yourself if you really love her? If you feel like she loves you!

That shows that this is just a test to see if Nian really loves her! If you love her so much, I think you'll keep waiting! Love one is not concerned about giving!

Even if in the end it is a word of sorry!

But I think she likes you too! She told you to wait a year, maybe just to see you, maybe she changed her mind, maybe she was watching you somewhere!

She's already in love with someone else, dumping you, just looking for a reason.

The first thing you have to do is figure out whether to play together or live your life.

I don't think I love it.

What I can't bear is not the feelings, but the enjoyment.

The plainness of love is the main way of life.

I should still love it, it's too bland.

Therefore, not every relationship can go to the end, but I think for those couples who have been in love for many years, they should hope that two people can enter the palace of marriage in their hearts.

But in our real life, we find that many couples who have been talking for many years eventually choose to break upAlthough there is no right or wrong in the relationship, after all, the two people talked about it for so long, but in the end they parted ways。What exactly causes the emergence of this question like the one discussed nowAfter 5 years of love, you still refuse to get married?

Some people may be in love for half a year in a short period of time, and then they will get married, so why have these people talked for many years but have not been married, what is the reason?

I don't think we're the right people for each other. There is such a saying in the workplace calledRide a donkey to find a horse, which means to say,Before you meet the right horse, find a donkey to ride。And in such a situation, in fact, there are also in the relationship, they can first have a lot of spare tires, even if he chooses to fall in love with you, but if he does not announce your existence to the outside world, then there is a high probability, in fact, he does not want his friends to know you, maybe he is still a single image in front of others.

But for those couples who have been talking for several years, it may not be very appropriate to have such an idea, after all, you have been together for so long, and you have known each other so deeply, it can be said that if you feel that the other person is not the most suitable person for you, you should have broken up a long time ago, why keep dragging each other?

The economic base is insufficient. If the economic foundation is insufficient, it should be a more realistic problemAfter all, two people falling in love and getting married are completely different situations, when you fall in love, everyone can go to eat, drink and have fun casually, and it doesn't matter if you rent a house, but if you get married, we definitely want to have a stable place to live, and it is best to be able to buy a house.

But the current housing prices are really prohibitive, and after buying a house, our quality of life must be greatly reduced. Therefore, many couples will want to get married, and they really don't dare to get married when they think of life after marriage.

The other party does not want to get married. There is another situation, that is, the other party actually doesn't want to get married in his heart, and he hopes that he can always maintain this state of falling in love.

But I have to say that he naturally has a reason for this idea, but if it is because of this reason that the other party wants to get married and can't get married, then there is no doubtThis is actually an irresponsible attitude, if you don't want to get married, and the other party wants to get married, then just break up and don't drag the other party anymore.

But for the other party, the two have been together for so long, maybe he really likes this person very much, but he is unwilling to get married, which is really painful.

I think you should give up this kind of relationship, you have been in love for 5 years and have not achieved positive results, which can only mean that there is a big problem between you, and it will not end well if you continue.

Answer: I'm glad to answer your question, I don't want to get married after 5 years of love, so if you can't see the future in this relationship, I still advise you to give up and start a relationship again as soon as possible, don't waste your youth on this relationship.

It should be, they have been in love for five years, and he is unwilling to give you a promise and a home, which is very insecure, and it also shows that the other party does not love you enough.

I think this kind of relationship should really be given up, and it will not end well if it continues, because from this situation, I can feel that the other party does not have you in their hearts at all.

This statement is just to cover up the reluctance in the heart, no one can say that if you don't love, you don't love, you have feelings for prostitution every day.

I really can't... Fake can.

I used to think that I loved deeply, deeply.

But as time goes by, you will find that love is actually very shallow.

First, you have to determine if he really loves you deeply. If not. He said that he doesn't have feelings for you anymore, and that's a very normal sentence.

Second: Do you really hurt him if you do the wrong thing, and the love hurts deeply. If you really hurt him deeply, then there is no need to keep him.

Even if he forgives you. In the future, there will be quarrels in life, and he will often use your harm to him as a recipe for quarrels. That will only hurt him and hurt yourself.

Third: Give each other some time, don't ask him for anything, just be friends, care for him, love him. If he loves you. One day I will be moved by you.

The above is purely a personal idea, and it is impossible to forget if you have loved it).