I ve been with my boyfriend for three years, should I stick to it?

What do you love about him? What is it about him that you love? Do you have masochistic tendencies?

I don't see that he really likes you. If you feel that you can't live without him, then please continue, and if you really want to live a happy life, then please leave even if it is painful. Because pain is short-lived, find a man who truly loves you!

That's the happiness of a woman's life!

There is also this way of falling in love, which is a bit complicated, and I am old and outdated. Little girl, you're at risk. From your narrative, it seems that he is dating several girls at the same time, comparing and selecting, which is very unfair to you.

I'm 23 years old, my boyfriend is 26, we've been together for three years, and with everyone's support, maybe I'll have more courage to persevere. Question added: I suggested dividing! For the sake of the children...It's not close to people....But this.

Let your heart come, if you like her in your heart, you have to insist, if you don't like it in your heart, then give up, manly man, you can afford to put it down!

Hello! As a boyfriend's mother, no matter how good or bad her own conditions are, people think about her son, which is right, and you can understand this mood. Because you have been talking for more than a year, the situation should be fully understood, whether it is okay or not, there should be a happy word, the son is older, and there is no stable job, the parents are in a hurry, say something unpleasant, if you don't agree, people have to quickly arrange the stall!

What other people's parents say is not that they have any opinions about you, that's what it means, because you don't bring your boyfriend to see your parents for a long time, which itself means that you haven't settled down from your heart, and you hate that iron can't become steel in the short term, and your boyfriend can't become steel in the short term.

Hello! Your problem is well solved.

Running to get in shape.

It is recommended that you do your own thing first, strive to be the best version of yourself, self-reliance, self-improvement, self-love, self-respect, don't go to their house often in the future, don't add trouble to his mother (you won't listen to her say such uncomfortable-sounding words anymore), don't pay too much attention to his mother's words, so as not to increase your troubles and affect your normal mood and life. Your boyfriend's mom and her words also represent what she doesn't like you (more than a year of dating: you often go to his house, and he doesn't go to your house once, and you don't know about him at home, what will his mother think?). ）。

With the experience of the past to tell you, trust your own intuition, your feelings must be true, after marriage, if the mother-in-law lives with you will have more contradictions, especially after having children, there will be contradictions about living habits and education, think clearly, if the boyfriend is very good, and good at dealing with the conflict between you and his mother, then you can continue to talk, if the boyfriend is a person with mud then change the boyfriend, people who are not good at dealing with the conflict between parents and wife will make their wife very painful, No matter how much love there is, it will be exhausted.

You have to think that at least his mother is thinking about his son, and his mother is afraid that if your parents don't approve of you two breaking up because of this. In fact, this is also your boyfriend's concern, because if you don't take him to see your parents, you may break up with him suddenly, and his family is also worried about this matter, so that you can give them peace of mind.

You've been talking to your boyfriend for more than a year, it's time to think about your life's events, and if you feel that your boyfriend's job is unstable and his income is not optimistic, then you can consider whether to continue. If you don't care about that and just want to be with your boyfriend, then be bold and tell your parents that it's good for both of you.

Most of the men's parents are like this, mainly because the men are self-motivated, which is very important.

It's been more than a year and I haven't let your parents know,. , no wonder others guess.

Let me tell you what I think, but first the reasons.

You are always glued to him, listen to him for everything, and he will definitely not cherish it, because it is too easy, and I want to be the same for you. When you are worth tens of millions, you may not pay too much attention to a piece of clothing for 1,000 yuan, it may stay in a dark corner of your wardrobe forever, but if you saved up for two months to buy that dress, I think you will cherish it more.

Here's what I think is the solution.

First and foremost, you have to feel objectively whether he is really the right fit for you. Well, if you think he's the one you have to marry, read on. If you quarrel, find the reason from yourself first, don't rush to do anything, wait for yourself to calm down, and then think about whether the matter is your fault, if so, it is also appropriate to apologize and admit your mistake, if not, you don't have to be so humble to coax him, you are a girl; The second point is that you have to keep a little distance from him, don't always focus on him in everything, you have to cultivate your own interests and hobbies, your own career, you must be able to arrange your own time, you should also have entertainment, you should also have pastime, your social attributes are not attached to him, you must have something to make him appreciate, not just his fans, if you don't need to maintain a good public image, when did you see the star team fans have a good face.

You have to take your time to let him know that if he treats you badly, you may leave. If the day comes, I can really watch you leave, I want to ask, is he really the person you want.

I don't think your fault is that you think you're not good enough for him, on the contrary, you're too good for him. If you don't have a mind of your own, he won't respect you. The most dangerous thought for you is that if I leave him, I will not find someone more suitable.

Dear, I think it's going to be quite serious if you go on like this.

He should have a lot of dissatisfaction, so it's better to solve these dissatisfaction as soon as possible.

How old are you, do you plan to get married?

I asked him how he rarely quarreled with his ex-girlfriend before, and asked him what happened to his ex-girlfriend.

My advice: get rid of it, then be stronger, more reserved, and most importantly, sober and finally wait quietly for the next love. As the social climate deteriorates, the proportion of scum among young lads will only increase, and some of them are well disguised, so please keep your eyes open to find him.