The boyfriend who has broken up for three years, why did the boyfriend he had loved for three years

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How to put it, I think this kind of thing, what he thinks, it doesn't matter, what matters is what you think, and what you want him to think.

    Seeing that you can describe the problem so specifically, and that one of his blessings makes your heart move like this, it means that he has always existed in a very sensitive place in your heart, and it is about to happen. If you really care about him, and still have hope for him, and are lucky, then I advise you to talk to him frankly, I don't know if to talk about it at the beginning, but no matter what, after all, it has been separated for three years, three years, not long, but short enough, enough to change a person, enough for a person to experience something that has not been experienced before, enough for a person to grow, enough for a person to recognize the importance of another person to himself, so, what you want to figure out is what you are now for him, But you're still very timid, afraid that if you ask, you will receive an answer that will disappoint you, so you come here to ask for help. I'm suggesting, no matter what, it's better to ask for it happily, even if he just casually greets, you are sad, but at least after you figure out this fact, you will not be so persistent, so persistent that you will make yourself miserable.

    Of course, it's up to you how you decide, but in short, I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think he still has you in his heart, three years have passed since love, and he may have let go of it before he will send you blessings. In the previous three years, he probably couldn't bear not to contact you, for fear that you would think too much, but he hadn't heard from him for three years. Even if he has you in his heart, the past three years have been wrong, do you still believe that he has been thinking about you?

    If yes, why did it cut ties with you like that. Even if he wants to redeem your love today, you should think about it carefully!

    Happy birthday to you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You don't have to think about this too much It's not that I have you in my heart It's just that I suddenly found that there are faint and shallow memories of you I think it's just a kind of memory when I was young If he has a partner and does this, it will be a bit of a cheap It's about boring It's about boring to give yourself an inexplicable so-called explanation for what happened to you in the past If he doesn't have a partner yet, it's purely lonely and empty You have to take the initiative At most, it will develop into ambiguity After that, when he has someone he likes or is not boring, you will repeat the same mistakes Ignore each other (if he still loves you, he will save everything about you, and will not disappear or delete everything silently).

    To sum up, no matter what, he is "making a mistake", you keep your posture high, just continue to ignore it, otherwise, you will lose again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't think about it, maybe he's just thinking about you occasionally. It's been three years, and he hasn't contacted you for three years, and if he really still has you in his heart, he won't be able to do this.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    His qualification ignited the hope in your heart, but recalling that you were together naturally, not vigorous, you can forgive it for saying that everyone is embarrassed, and it is good to be together if you have fate, but in the end, he disappeared silently, and he didn't even tell you the least breakup, what is there to remember about such a boy, and I hope to go together? Aren't you afraid that history will repeat itself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    So many people have given you advice, so many people have given you blessings, and you have also given everyone back, which shows that he was once more important in your heart. Actually, sometimes I try to avoid these kinds of questions, because it's something I don't want to face, and the answer is very clear, very cruel. What can he do if he has you in his heart, he ran away in those three years, even if he suddenly contacts you, what can it mean?

    He once left very irresponsibly, why do you reply to this kind of man? Even if he cares, can he care about giving you a lifetime of love? Even if everyone says that you are very strong, okay, that's because you are better than him, you are better than that man, he is not worthy of you, hehe, there are better men who are worthy of you.

    One message from him can make you have such a big reaction, proving that you are indeed better than him, so he once left you. You're not the type he likes, either. Don't be so impulsive in the future, in fact, I don't want you to ask, because don't be so excited about that person anymore, there's no need!

    You have long been strangers, what you have to do is not to reply, when nothing happens, be your happy bride, and also, your rejuvenating teacher is not because you still care, but because you were so irresponsible at the beginning, and you flashed without a word. Do you feel like he owes you an answer, and you're wondering if you want more? But I'm afraid that I won't be able to get over it.

    When a man leaves a woman, there is only one answer, not enough love, a person who doesn't love you enough or doesn't love you, what's the use of keeping him? Put your mind on your husband and continue your happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He must still have you in his heart, otherwise he wouldn't have sent you a blessing. But it's just a greeting between friends, maybe in the past three years, every time you have a birthday, he will think of you in his heart, but he hasn't contacted you for various reasons, but he must still think of you in his heart, this kind of thinking is just a good memory.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not true love, it's about breaking up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone has a different perspective on love. Love is like a battlefield, there is always a fierce struggle, and it is very likely that someone you like will be snatched away by others. It's the same for girls, boyfriends, who broke up for some reason, but calmly regretted and regretted that they had been in love for almost three years and what should they do if they broke up?

    The first option is compounding. Then this is the time to prescribe the right medicine. Since I didn't say why I broke up, my advice was just advice and I had to think about it myself. To find out why he broke up, why he broke up:

    Recovery strategy: Be sure to make it clear to him personally

    Your boyfriend has broken up, don't do what you want at this time, don't ignore him, and treat this matter as a very important thing. You can ask him for leave of absence to deal with it. You have to tell him that your bottom line is in.

    You can put aside everything at hand and pay attention to him, but hopefully he will understand you. Sometimes your words may not be clear, and sometimes you don't take into account the details, but you still have to convince him that you will pay attention and correct it later. Although there are problems between two people, it is possible to communicate well and not break up.

    I hope that the communication between you can bring a good bridge to your future interactions. Many things, many words are clear, and the problem is basically solved.

    Redemption strategy: meet, euphemistically convey love

    If two people can talk every three to five hours, and after talking for a while, the other party's defense of you has been put down, then you can agree to meet, have a meal or watch a movie. Be happy when you meet, talk as much as you can about recent developments, and ask him how he's doing. Appearance and charisma matter when interacting.

    There will be love in the eyes. When watching a movie, you can whisper close to his ear. Just a little hint.

    Don't say compound yourself. Don't ask if the other person is back together. If he had allowed the brewing to last as long as possible, he would not have been able to quit.

    Some people say that it is better not to have a good memory, because the more memories there are, the less happiness there is.

    If it is irretrievable in the end, at this point, you should have another strategy, slowly let go of yourself and deal with the pain of losing love, if you don't go out and dwell in this pain, no one can help you. At this point, you need to keep yourself busy. Let yourself not have leisure, go out with friends around you, let yourself have more time, not have time to think about him, and try to find new feelings for yourself.

    All in all, balance the relationship between work and love, value emotional investment, take care of and care for each other in the relationship with the other person, and be there when the other person needs it. The other person doesn't need you to spend much money to prepare a gift for her, maybe only your heart. In this way, you can feel that he cares about you, deepen his dependence and trust in you, repair the emotional link, and redeem more success.

    If you really can't get it back, don't be too sad, you have to learn to let go, fate is difficult to force after all.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should work hard to get out of this relationship, you should make yourself more positive and optimistic, don't take this matter as a very important thing, you must let yourself have a better attitude to face your feelings, and don't fall because of it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In the face of such a situation, you should learn to adjust your mentality, make yourself more calm, and you should also get out of this relationship, so that you can develop the correct three views and let yourself come out.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think you can ask your boyfriend why he chose to break up, and secondly, you should also make yourself better, and you should also work hard to break through yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If your boyfriend who has been in love for three years suddenly proposes to break up, either he thinks that you are not his crush, or he already has a new crush.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It seems that there are still some small problems in the relationship between you, and these problems may be some mistakes at certain times, at certain times, and these mistakes need to be corrected by you. In this way, you can not break up, and if you suddenly propose to break up, it is also your emotional problem.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It is very likely that he has no feelings for you, it may be because he already has a new love, it may be because the two people have a particularly serious incompatibility, it may be because they are particularly familiar and have no freshness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Maybe it's because he thinks that the relationship between the two of you is not as good as before, and he doesn't think there's anything new anymore, so he mentions breaking up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It may be because the woman is unhappy to solve the relationship, because the one who is not interested in your software does not love you anymore.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    has been in love with his boyfriend for three years, and the reason why he suddenly mentioned the breakup may be that he met someone he liked more, so he broke up so suddenly.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Since this is the case, it is that the other party is dead, maybe you really hurt him, it seems irreparable, but if you care about it very much, then you still can't give up, contact the middleman, and test it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's sad to break up with your boyfriend and can't let go, in fact, you are still a little unwilling to let go of yourself at that time, maybe part of the reason is because you are unwilling, just like a house that you have built for a long time, and suddenly it is burned down, and you return to the original place, you know that it is a house, the house you once managed with your heart, but he is no longer the same as it was, but you still can't let go of you who was managed with your heart at that time. It's not that you can't let go of your ex-boyfriend, it's that you can't give up on yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Whether you can let go of the breakup or not, in fact, this is also a situation, and you can't let it go under normal circumstances. It's cheesy to say, not to mention the three-year relationship of a couple, raising a puppy for a month, and leaving it will be sad. There are many kinds of letting go, and a reasonable person understands that this person does not belong to him, and it is good to feel emotionally pressed in his heart, and he will try not to show it when he is sad, because he understands that there is no need to be really together, and there is no point in being sad.

    It's normal to be reluctant.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

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  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Not necessarily. If the feelings are deep. Even if they are separated, it is possible to get back together.

    If the fate is shallow, it will be dispersed. It can be seen from your question that your boyfriend has completely deleted you and replaced all the old things with new ones. I want to live again.

    There is not much chance of getting back together with you at the moment. Wait and see. Maybe there's a chance.

    The three-year relationship is not just throwing away.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's not very likely, and even if you quarrel, you won't be able to do such an impulsive and ruthless behavior, right? This man is going a little too far if that's the case.

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  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Three years of relationship is indeed not a short time. But sometimes a breakup is not due to a fight. It is an outbreak of long-term accumulation. So you have to think about it yourself, and breaking up can only mean that your fate is here.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Someone has broken up after ten years of relationship, this kind of thing makes no sense, calm down and leave everything to time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The three-year relationship broke up because of a quarrel, and there is still a chance to be together, the key is that you have to find the reason for the quarrel and solve the problem.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There's still a chance to be together, but you need to get rid of the two of them, admit whose mistakes and make things clear.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I don't mind continuing to be together, and if you continue to be together, there is still a good chance of breaking up in the future.

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