It s troublesome.,Because of emotional things.。。。

Concept is also part of the present, after all, your home is too far away, and if you like it, you don't necessarily be together. Since it's not suitable because of this, it's the same for you to go over, I think she's figured it out. The girl's mind is so conflicted, but when she wants to open up, you try to convince her that it's very hard.

But the main thing is that you have to go over and make it clear to her before parting, so that you won't have a pimple in your heart, and you should also know what she thinks and why she is separated. If you understand that the situation is just because she wants to leave you because of some small contradictions, and he loves you very much, and you have confidence in yourself, then you can also work hard to maintain the family affection and work hard with her. Love needs to be tested, who doesn't have some contradictions and face choices, the main thing depends on how you think rationally, the result is not the most important thing is how you want to think and how to do it so that there are no regrets and hurts.

Don't think too much, start doing things after thinking about it, understand the other person's thoughts and say what you want to say contradictory. Hehe.

Come on, what needs to be said must be said. But don't be unhappy. As you said, if you really want to separate, you have to say goodbye happily. It's all hopeful, and it's also the best understanding of yourself.

I analyze your problems, the main thing is that the environmental conditions do not allow you to be together.

1) If your girlfriend goes to Liaoning, if she doesn't have a job, it will be a financial burden for her, and your family is not very good;

2) If you want to go to Shandong, you will face the problem of finding a job, it may not be smooth, and there are so many things at home that need you. After all, with the death of my father, the situation is very different without you in the family. Further, if you are with your girlfriend, as her parents, do you agree to your marriage, and you can't support yourself, what kind of relationship do you have to talk about?

So, what you have to consider is that the price to pay for continuing this kind of relationship is too great. You say I can run back and forth between the two places, but you can't. It is precisely because you have been in a relationship for 4 years that it is difficult to see the problem at once, and it is difficult for you to calm down.

The process from falling in love to getting married is not a one-step process, and you don't have the financial strength, right? So I said, is it necessary to continue the relationship when I see no results? You are not a god, you can live without eating or drinking.

You are a college student who wants to say that you still have the ability to analyze problems, and you are not stupid, right? You might as well make a comparison of what you want to do, compare the results of the good and the bad, and see what kind of conditions and abilities you have to do what you can do? If you lack too much, don't dream about it, it's better to be down-to-earth.

It's hard for you to continue the relationship, you can think about it calmly.

If I had been 9 seconds in the 110m hurdles, it would have been easy to win the world championship.

Oh, I'm from Liaoning, and he's from Shandong! Hehe, to get back to the point, do you know what it means for feelings to stand the test? ? If you really love each other, don't be ruined by those unnecessary conditions!

Love is love, if you feel that it is torture, it means that you are no longer in love!

What can you do if you go to him Does he have a house Do you want to be a son-in-law If he wants to live a good life with you, he will definitely come Since he said that it is divided, then divide it How to do it Once a woman breaks up with you, it will be sooner or later Instead of waiting for that day to come, it is better to act now.

You have to admit it"Women are very realistic"This fact, then it will be easy to do. Filial piety is more important than love!

Be filial to your family. I used to be too. Talk back to your family for the sake of the subject.。

Eventually, the subject ran away and followed someone who was better than me. Women are very realistic now. And when the lovelorn is at home and smashes things.

Only the family understands. To be alive is to be realistic. Alas.

You can tell her. You go out to work together to earn money. Then buy a house and get married.

Little brother, family always comes first! Whether it's you or her, feelings are a matter of two people, but marriage is never!

Your family is so special, call that girl over.

Together, you can maintain your family.

Perhaps, she already has someone.

Why do you want to force it?

The other party is obviously escaping the relationship.

You are lucky because it took you 4 years to see women clearly.

Bless you!

Summary. Kiss, first of all, when encountering emotional problems, you should stay as calm as possible. When emotions are high, it is easy to make impulsive decisions.

Try to think calmly, find the root cause of the problem, analyze the causes and solutions. Communicate with each other and be open and honest with each other about their feelings and needs. Try to avoid blaming and attacking each other, and instead try to listen to each other's opinions and ideas with the goal of solving problems and improving relationships.

Maintain an attitude of equality and mutual respect, and understand each other's circumstances and needs as much as possible. Take into account your own boundaries and needs. Try to find a balance that meets your own needs while also taking into account the feelings of the other person.

Hello, are you having a relationship problem?

Kiss, first of all, when encountering emotional problems, you should stay as calm as possible. When emotions are high, it is easy to make impulsive decisions. Try to think calmly, find the root cause of the problem, analyze the causes and solutions.

Communicate with each other and express your feelings and needs openly and honestly with each other. Try to avoid blaming and attacking each other, and instead try to listen to each other's opinions and ideas with the goal of solving problems and improving relationships. Maintain an attitude of equality and mutual respect, and try to understand each other's circumstances and needs as quickly as possible.

Take into account your own acres and dig shirt boundaries and needs. Try to find a balance that meets your own needs while also taking into account the feelings of the other person.

Teacher, I'll send you **, you can help me analyze whether it's my fault or not, my problem.

Here's the thing, after meeting my boyfriend last night, Gao Oak, I didn't reply to him when I got home, and my friend happened to come to my house, and he said that he couldn't feel love, what should I do next to my relatives.

Kiss, how long have you been dating, why can't you let him see your relatives and friends?

Three months, it's definitely not time to see my parents, and I don't want to make it known to everyone that has no results.

Dear, you should send him a message when you encounter such a situation in the future, after all, a message can't be delayed for long, right, otherwise he will be cranky.

Kiss, in fact, the couple did not take the travel tone to determine who is right and who is wrong, since he is not satisfied with this, you can go to the town in the direction he is satisfied with, and this is not a contradiction.

Kiss, since he said he couldn't feel your love for him, he will show it more obviously in the future.

I feel that there is no future, forget it, he is also tired, and I am also tired.

Kiss, well, if it doesn't feel appropriate, then separate, he may be a more careful and sensitive person, a person who cares more about details, if he feels tired of dating, then he doesn't have to settle for it.

Kiss, probably the reason for my network round attack, just now you said that you have only been dating for three months, and you only saw it, if that's the case, Brother Lala, you're not wrong, it's that he's too concerned and too anxious.

Married life, husband and wife have no quarrels, the relationship is not normal, where there is a quarrel between the husband and wife, the relationship must be true, there is no terrible quarrel, as long as it is handled well, the quarrel will be reconciled quickly, each other will love each other more, when the quarrel calms down, will feel more that no one can do without whom, they can not bear the cold war the most, everything is endured in their hearts, and the timely quarrel will make life better.

After marriage, as long as they love each other and respect each other, occasional quarrels will make the relationship more real. Yes, I don't need you to be perfect, no matter how noisy we are, I just need you to make me feel, I am always the only one in your heart.

Maybe you fell in love at first sight, it was just a meteor passing by, romantic but not necessarily long-lasting, if you can fall in love together for a long time and grow old together, that is the bright star, there is love to marriage, from the debate is not to cater to, never the calm of life, but the love that cannot be separated in life, scolded and not left, true love for a person, no matter how fierce the two quarrel again, no matter how angry the two people are, they will also cook a meal and call each other to enjoy together, and will also take good clothes and invite each other to go out for a walk together... ...

A good marriage is never a person's business, a happy marriage depends on the efforts of two people, it depends on the common cherishing of two people, what is noisy and noisy in life, if there is no you in life, what is the meaning of life, after marriage, grievances and grievances between husband and wife, grievances are grievances, grievances are grievances; Bitterness and happiness between husband and wife, bitterness is happiness, happiness is suffering, there is happiness in suffering, and there is happiness in suffering; Quarrelling, hating and loving, full of helplessness and tolerance, but also full of truth and sweetness!

What does this look like? If you don't have any reason, you will quarrel for no reason and look at each other unpleasantly. The kind that has nothing to do with it. I don't think it's a good fit to be together. Ascension.

If it is said that it is because of the personality and temper, or some things in work and life, it is understandable, because Cong Xiwei has a reason, and the root of the problem can be found, and there is a way to solve it. I'm afraid that I can't find any reason for four years, so I just quarrel there all day long. In this way, life is completely meaningless.

You can find the reason for the quarrel, and you can sit down and communicate slowly. If the couple has feelings. I want to change the status quo.

Quarrels are not the days that you really want in your heart, so it's a few words. Because both husband and wife have a common will.

But if only one party has the will, or if one party does not have the will. Completion of communication can't be done. There is simply no room for peace. So forcibly together also.

It doesn't have much value. On the contrary, it will make each other's hearts emaciated. The days passed in the dark. It's directly to find guilt for yourself.

The greatest meaning of being together is mutual understanding, support, tolerance and respect. That's how it's like a couple.

Noisy and noisy is a common thing between husband and wife, which means that the relationship also needs to be run-in.

Just a little noise and misunderstanding. You can get by! So. Let's live! It's okay for everyone to tolerate and understand each other.

I'm also having emotional problems, and I'm struggling!

His mother is worried that you are still very young, afraid of delaying the future of the two of you, after all, there is a generation gap in thought, I think what you have to do now is to study hard, you can first put your love in your heart and cherish it, you two study hard together, love is also the driving force, I hope you have a good future!

I think you and you two are not compatible in personality, and there is no freshness after a long time together. And you don't give your man face, you know that you still have to respect him in front of others, you two can do whatever you want alone, your shortcomings are fatal, and neither man can stand it. And you just said:

But in the past two days, I don't have the same feeling of being very close as before. I don't think you're feeling new anymore. More than two years of affection, you will use your own two days to measure.

This is too capricious, the two of them should calm down, accommodate each other, and change what they can. Your boyfriend really sees that he loves you, please cherish it. Think about it yourself (male standpoint).

Indicates a boy. Make it clear to him, sit down at a table and make it clear that you are used to being good to you, and you take it for granted for a long time, so now you have to accommodate him, for example: he is the main thing in everything outside.

At home, when he has a better relationship with you, learn to cook, accommodate him more, and don't focus on you in everything like before. A man also needs to be cared for, he works hard, and if you come back and see a table of dishes that you say will happen to him, you should also ask him for his opinion. When the relationship is reconciled, you don't spoil him very much, and sometimes you have to lose your temper, so that you can be happy.

Although I am not a boy, I can mention a little insight, I hope it will help you a little, and make sure that your relationship is caused by the current situation caused by the personality teacher, 1. It is a good thing when a man has a goal, you don't pour cold water on him all at once, even if it is unrealistic, you must express your support and indirectly put forward reasons for opposition.

2. Outside, you must give him enough face, and it doesn't matter if you are majestic at home, but don't lose the gentle side of a woman.

3. Generally, after marriage, there will be a period of marriage, and the contradictions caused by the friction of each other's personalities should reflect on themselves in time and restrain their personalities.

4. In the current situation, you can surprise him unexpectedly, and then when he is moved, he will give a heartfelt speech. Deepen their feelings. For example, it's a birthday, or a small gift.