I m a man, why can t I change the symptoms of crying, is there a way to treat it?

Hey, psychological problems, in a word, no courage

When I was in elementary school, I was bullied and cried a lot

It is said that men don't flick when they have tears, but I want to say that it's not a sin for men to cry!

Crying, especially for men! That proves that you know how to be romantic and learned! Haha, you're just like me, but I'll find a place where no one is crying!

1, it's okay, this doesn't need to be deliberately **, crying is a normal manifestation of people's uncomfortable emotions and emotions, this is not a disease.

2. After crying, gradually try to solve those or face those things that make you cry, otherwise those people will always bully you and always make you uncomfortable - crying.

There's nothing wrong with crying, it means that your emotional system is stronger than others!

First of all, don't put too much pressure on yourself, it's best to go with the flow!

Let your heart be ruthless, and tears will flow into your stomach.

Bang your head against the wall next to you and kill yourself.

How old are you? Just hold back your tears when you want to!

But sometimes the tenderness of the iron man is very attractive... Hehe...

First of all, I secretly made up my mind in my heart: I am great, I can do it!

Let yourself have psychological comfort, so that you will not feel self-pity when doing things.

Boys often cry, which means that he is a sensual little boy, and it is not a bad thing. If you cry a lot, you can exercise your child's independent habits more, and let the boy do more things by himself, such as washing his own clothes and taking care of his own things. You can also let your child participate in a training camp or something like that.

Boys love to cry very much, you can let him do physical exercises, and let him do things alone, learn to be independent, so that his heart will be strong and he will not cry so much.

We should use our most traditional and ancient education methods to educate, so that he can not cry, the ancients said: filial piety comes out under the stick.

The man doesn't flick when he has tears, but when he is not sad, I think it's because he cares about you too much. Because it loves you too much, it will let go of its self-esteem and become vulnerable in front of the people it loves the most. Girl, if there is a boy crying for you, please hold his hand and feel its sincerity, a man will not cry in front of someone he does not love.

Girl, if there is a boy crying for you, please don't give up on him, maybe he is the true love of your life.

This is a problem, and he must be supervised to get rid of it.

Every child has personality traits that are born with them. It will be different in the future life. We need to recognize the differences in children's natures, and they will also follow the example of their parents and learn from their environment to behave in a variety of ways.

If parents appear shy and overly cautious or impulsive, your child will behave in a similar way. The nature of a child is related to genetics, but also to the nature of the individual. As a result, some children may have similar temperaments to their parents, but have extreme parts of their own personalities.

How to help a "timid" child:

1. Let the child play with other children, you can play with the children of neighbors or relatives first, to give the child a less noisy start.

2. Visit some children's activity places, such as the parent-child center. Let him feel fresh, feel the ** and noisy atmosphere there.

3. Try not to let your child see your anxiety, if he often makes you angry, you may wish to let your lover take care of him for a while when you are helpless.

4. Be a good role model. When mom and dad are socializing, let your child observe your attitude and social skills. Let your child feel how to be elegant, relaxed, and comfortable in etiquette and communication.

As long as mom and dad work hard, those children who are slightly shy will also be more confident. No matter what kind of personality your child is, don't give up on the acquired environment to shape your child's personality because of inherited personality.

1. It's normal for children to cry, don't show too much dissatisfaction, especially when you're young, you can't express yourself, so you will take it as a way to express it.

2. Ask the child if there is something uncomfortable and why he is crying, in addition to crying, there can be other ways to express it, such as scolding the socks loudly.

3. Tell children not to cry when they encounter a little thing, to be brave, to learn to solve problems, for example, if they have been wronged, they can tell their family members instead of crying.

4. Explain a few stories about bravery to children, so that children can learn the correct way to deal with problems in the stories, so that they can better realize their own problems.

5. Boys should be responsible and learn to protect the people around them, so if there is an opportunity, boys should be allowed to learn martial arts, so that they have enough ability to protect the people around them.

6. Instill the concept of men in children, let them know the responsibilities of men from an early age, let them learn to solve problems by themselves, and learn to find better ways to cope.

I'm a girl, and I used to cry a lot, and I've been trying to make myself less crying, and it seems that I've made some progress. It's been a long, long time since I've cried. First of all, it is definitely useless to simply tell yourself that you should not cry as a man.

When you encounter sad things and boring things, you can try to replace crying with other venting methods, such as smoking, running, exercising at a high intensity, finding someone to go to a particularly lively place to high, in short, divert your attention, and don't always suggest to yourself that I want to cry.

Also, read more. It is forbidden to read romance**, romance movies or other things that are too emotional, and usually watch more science and technology, news and current affairs, and things that say rational and male thinking, so that the brain becomes tougher and indifferent. You can also take a look at the psychology thing, and I recommend "The Road Less Traveled".

In short, the more you know about your thinking and yourself, the more rational you are, the less likely you are to cry.

Finally, when you encounter something really sad, don't suppress yourself, find a place where no one is there to cry, it's nothing, it's good for physical and mental health, there's no need to suffocate yourself to death because it's a gentleman.

poke yourself in the eye and tell yourself that you can't cry if you want to.

Endure!! Think you're a man.

Cut it, and everything will fall into place!!

In fact, this setback after your mother's death should have made you much stronger, and I think you may still be too fragile psychologically. Another thing I think you are particularly good at is that you know that you love to cry, because in fact, some people don't know that they love to cry, so they cry, but you can't help crying.

I suggest that you can usually watch some depressing, dark works, or very warm ** type tear jerker, in fact, if you cry too much, you won't cry easily with more mature thoughts in your heart.

I don't know if you watch anime or not, but I think a lot of anime can't be expressed in real movies, so it's good.

It is recommended that you look at Five Centimeters per Second, Grave of Fireflies, I have not heard of the name of the flower, these are all good.

Realistic Movies I suggest you watch more movies on the dark side of human nature, such as Confessions.

First of all, let's talk about why you should look at the dark, because there is a saying called "look at the world with cold eyes", when you see through the cruelty of the world, you will be stronger.

Of course, it's not enough to be just dark, and you need a warm type to neutralize it.

As for tear jerker, I don't recommend that you watch those joyful tear jerkerers, you must watch sad tear jerking works, so that you can feel life better and become strong.

In fact, mature people need the sunshine and the dark side, the reason why you cry often is because of immaturity, I feel that you are still too biased to see the world too beautifully, because in society, especially men, it is really bad to cry often (of course, this is for your public image, it's okay to cry occasionally in private) You may not feel very deeply now.

Of course, in addition to these, you also need your own willpower, which depends on the individual.