The choice of love! 5. The choice concept of love!

Some of the students in college fall in love with sincerity, maybe they really like it, but it's not love.

Making friends in college is with the mentality of looking for a girlfriend, true love is to live a lifetime, and it is true that if you don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend in college, people will think that this person is too earthy, or too inferior.

It is very likely that these manifestations are due to the role of the psychology of college students, which is not only common in college, but also in high school and junior high school.

There are also a lot of handsome guys and beauties in school, if an ordinary person faces so many beauties and handsome guys every day, whether you want to or not, you can't chase it, so it's also because of the influence of the environment in the school and the necessary factors that exist itself, if there are very few people, I don't want to have boyfriends and girlfriends so often. ~~

How can you know the will of men, but please be worthy of my heart?

It's just college.,Of course, it's because I want to love it... There won't be a student who is forced to marry by his family...

Wouldn't it be too "crowded" if everyone's love arrived at the same time?

Do what you want. Don't care what others say!

Why care about others, do you want to have things that others have for your own vanity? If you really have someone you like, then you go after and fall in love, if not, you don't have to talk about it! Don't, be so vain!

Go your own way and let others do the talking! Falling in love in college is a manifestation of spiritual emptiness and a manifestation of a person's inattentiveness to study.

Love when I was a student was the most expensive, romantic, and innocent ......

Of course, it's because of love that I love, and I love if I want to love.

Love in school is the most romantic and innocent ......

Maybe not more than agree, but you know it when you go to work.

At that time, people were more realistic than when they were students, that is, it was difficult to find good girls without a strong financial foundation.

What you think is what you are.

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many.

In my experience, you will succeed in retaining, but you will still encounter problems soon, this is determined by her personality, and she will be very tired in the future, so whether you go or not depends on whether you can withstand such tiredness.

You crave love of mutual respect, more tolerance and understanding, but you can't get it right now. As you can imagine, the reason why you haven't given up yet, you must have gotten something else: beauty (vanity), gentleness, sweet words.

If you have to choose, you need to determine which one is more important.

Love needs a common goal so that it can last, otherwise sooner or later it will be cold and uncomfortable.

If you can't be strong enough in the short term, it is recommended that you communicate well, wait for a while, and give up if you can't get what you want, so you just don't regret it.

I understand this pain, if love becomes a burden on you, I personally feel that let it go, the other party doesn't know how to cherish it, love has to think about each other, your girlfriend thinks about herself in everything, if it's me, such a girl is not worth it.

Learn to look at her eyes, if you just rely on it instead of love, continuing will only make you more miserable, Men have suffered from this thing, There is no way, When the break is constantly suffering, I am actually caught in this whirlpool when I try to solve it for you. It's just that people are in different situations, and the only thing is that they can only do this, and they do their best to obey the destiny of God, and I wish you good luck!!

Let it go, reluctant to be together will only make yourself and her uncomfortable, now in such a situation, you are all very tired, there is no need to live together, some time ago I also encountered the same problem as you, so difficult to choose, but in the end I chose to let go, now I go home, the mobile phone number has also changed, and the contact with her has been cut off, it feels like nothing now, although sometimes I miss her, but at least people have become relaxed

It's kind of sympathy! My girlfriend is simply a copy of your girlfriend! It's really tiring and uncomfortable, but I love it so much that I can't let go! Now that we've broken up, if she doesn't accept the reunion, forget it, to be honest, I'm quite envious of you!

It seems that your love needs material things as the cornerstone, so before you go, think about a few questions:

1. Will she love you enough to change herself and be willing to share the joys and sorrows with you? (If she would, then the question below is omitted).

2. If you are still busy with your studies, will you find a material supply that can fill the foundation of your love in the next 1 year? (If you can, please continue to ignore the questions below).

3. Do your parents' income be enough to build the foundation stone of your love? (If you can, please continue to ignore the questions below).

4. Do you love each other and defend it at any cost? (If yes, where you go, don't hesitate!) ）

Give her some time and try to talk to her again.

If she still doesn't understand you, then nothing good will come out of you in the future.

It's better to live alone, or find someone who understands you.

Contradictions are inherently there.

Girls want love and they want bread, and if you can only give one thing, it's normal for girls to hesitate and repeat.

It's like a man wants a woman to earn money to support her family while also being able to marry and raise children.

Give up, this kind of woman will not run the family in the future, and your descendants will die poor.

Don't keep it, she obviously doesn't have deep feelings for you.

Love: It's not easy to meet the right person at the right time.

It depends on what the reality is.

I chose love, and I believe that two people working together can create a better future.

Love is precious, but the real value is even higher. Accept it ...

It's that reality is more important.