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The probability will not be very high, even if they end up together, the relationship after marriage will not be very good. It's statistical, but there's no absolute thing, and no one knows what's going to happen in the future, just grasp the present, and if you like it, you can be together, and you don't have to think that far ahead, because that would be too tiring.
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Seldom. Before the age of 20, because the mind and personality are maturing and developing rapidly, today's thoughts will change tomorrow...Today you love him very much, for whatever reason.
He didn't even marry. Tomorrow there may be a feeling of ambivalence...If you really want to be with him.
Don't be with him too soon...
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Very little, I don't know how to love, and I don't cherish love, when I will, it's already a long time to fight, but I still hope I am, hahahaha!
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In fact, there are not many people who can go to the end of their first relationship, very few, because they are not very clear about the purpose of their love, and it is not for marriage, if you think about it, can you think so far as you start?
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Character really says everything. If two people have a common goal. There is a common outlook on life, values. It is possible to go to the end. In the end, two people are together more about family affection, love, and love.
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What is love? How many people in ancient and modern times can make it clear, and what you know may be very superficial.
There are not many people who may know how to love.
So it's still a lot to explore.
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From a statistical point of view, there are very few, and it depends on how you grasp it to become the few and few! Hehe.
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Not much, so to speak, almost nothing.
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There are hardly many, and even if they come together, there are a lot of separations.
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It's not a question of whether you know how to love, but to find your true self, your complete self, and then find what you really want, have it, and cherish it.
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It's hard to tell. It depends on each individual's personality.
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Very little, only for the first time
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There should be, I am.
We've been talking for 6 years.
She's my first love, I'm not her first love.
I don't feel like I'm going to leave her, do you say she's going to leave me?
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It's really hard to do this Now they are all very open people, and those who have their first love must be together.
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It's very little, but I wish I was!
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Yes. As long as two people manage each other, it should be!!
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In fact, first love is used to train us, teach us how to love, how to be loved.
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We had a survey, a sample of 1200, and the end result was:
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I don't think I don't understand, but I haven't encountered it!
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I'm going to use my facts to prove that first love marriage will work out, even though I'm not married yet, and I don't have a first love.
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There's a book called Arabian Nights Talk, and there's a song called Butterfly Flowers, and you can't read them all.
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My fault for the past! You're so powerful.
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It's so amazing to get married!
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Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, we often expect to have a perfect relationship for the first time, but neither of us has the ability to manage a satisfactory relationship.
The first is when we are faced with our first love, we believe in fate and do not know how to operate.
It's easier to stay in the naïve stage of the relationship, because he is always waiting for a perfect other half, instead of trying to change himself, thus missing out on happiness again and again.
When we first fall in love, it's easy to idealize our partner and feel that the other person can meet all our needs. In our subconscious, not only do we expect each other to be partners, but a long-term and comfortable relationship needs to grow and change each other. For example, we learn to understand each other's needs, recognize and accept each other's differences, manage our emotions, learn to understand each other's voiceovers, and so on.
If you don't know how to operate and run-in, it is easy for both parties to break out into conflicts and eventually break up.
The second is that it is easy to care too much about relying on each other. And lose yourself.
As others say, the first love is not because we don't like it, but precisely because we are too serious and like each other too much when we first fall in love.
Behind this too much liking and caring too much, it may be that we lack self-differentiation and do not treat ourselves and each other as two individuals who travel alone.
If there is a good town, it is emotionally immature. Emotional maturity has a lot to do with the family environment in which you grew up, and if the parents themselves are emotionally mature and stable, the child is more likely to be a mature person.
For many people, we enter our first love with the emotional immaturity of our original family, which is likely to hurt each other in our relationship.
But at the same time, emotional maturity is not entirely determined by the family of origin, it can also be exercised and formed in interpersonal relationships after adulthood.
First love is likely to become a testing ground for exercise.
I hope I can help friends in need.
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The most important thing in love is to enjoy the process of two people together, and don't get too entangled in the final result. Many lovers will be unable to get together in the end due to various problems, especially Qiaochun's first love, which will basically break up in the end. Because the first love is the first time to try love, both of them are in a state of ignorance and lack of experience in getting along with each other, which leads to the passing of the love period.
Most of the first love occurs in the school period, when the two people in love are relatively young, lack of understanding and experience of love, and are also very filial when getting along, it is difficult to grasp the proportion, which will lead to the first love of the couple is always awkward. Many people begin to mature in high school, at this time for love is particularly yearning, often meet the one they like (she answered late), they will mistakenly think that this is love, in fact, this is just a simple appreciation, at this time if two people choose to be together, the love of this kind of love into love, then it will make the relationship with each other very bad. Because they are relatively young, they don't know each other clearly before falling in love, so there will be a lot of conflicts after being together.
Because he is in the study period, he has to avoid school and parents when he falls in love, and he can only break up unhappily in the end.
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The memory of first love is very deep, but the first love does not understand what love is, so most of them cannot get married.
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The younger you are at the time of your first love, the easier it is to break up. Because the younger you are, the stronger your growth and the more uncertain you are.
From first love to marriage, from campus to wedding dress, it is very not easy to macro chain. This requires the pace of growth, future choices, and life direction of the two people to be basically consistent. If any of these conditions are missing, there is a high probability that they will break up.
But we need to note that breaking up does not equal failure, and marriage does not equal success. These are two different things entirely.
To be exact, there are no failed romances. Everything we go through is meaningful. Even if you break up, you will definitely be able to learn some lessons from it.
For the vast majority of people, breaking up is a must-pass exam in life. It is very good for the growth of the code.
Breaking up is a very valuable life experience. Even if it hurts to the heart, after the pain, there will definitely be gains. If the understanding is high enough, the whole person will be reborn. That's how much a breakup means to us.
So, I hope everyone is brave to love and don't be afraid to break up. Break up when it's time to break up, don't hesitate to delay it for years.
Always go with the present and go with the heart. When you are together, you can enjoy the process late, and at the same time, don't be too attached to the result, follow the fate, take it, and let it go, which is great wisdom.
The world is beautiful, and the world is worth it. May all things in heaven and earth and all living beings be auspicious!
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