What should I do if my husband believes other bad people?

Since the landlord has this question, it is certain that your husband listened to the bad things that others said about you, right?!

First of all, calm down. Calmness is a woman's most advantageous partner, and it is also the partner that is most easily overlooked. Eighty percent of men who listen to slander will talk to you about words that are unfavorable to you from others.

So first of all, don't rush to show your innocence, the angry man will only feel that all your explanations at the moment are trying to cover up, so the first thing to do is to calm down, not to explain too much, and echo the man's words, one of the purposes is to calm the man down. When both parties have calmed down, pour him a glass of water and sit down to talk. Listen to the gossip he heard from **, ask him what he thinks about this matter, and then tell him tepidly that all the rumors are pure and false.

Men generally listen to the calm woman, rather than believing the yelling and swearing. If the rumors are indeed out of nowhere, the man can believe what you say, and if it is true, it doesn't matter, tell him the stakes, and the man will also look at the problem from your standpoint. After all, it is a husband and wife, and it is still effective to have a long talk.

It's good to have a clear conscience yourself, let others say it, it may be that your husband deliberately deceived you and made this means make you succumb in the future and dare not be so presumptuous in front of him, this is a kind of heart attack, as long as you are right, loyal and loyal to him, just follow how he plays, men have a little scheming. Just get used to it

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My girlfriend and I are similar, everyone will think that they can see clearly, and they are afraid that their partner will not see clearly, in fact, he is a sign that he cares about you and loves you, you can indeed alienate your friends a little bit, sort out the boundaries, make your husband feel that he is an ordinary friend, and don't go to appointments at night. Don't play alone with men. Every time you go out and talk to your husband to reassure him, then he will love you more.

And you can also talk to him calmly about your opinion, but be sure to say it well, from the other person's point of view.

He is suspicious of you, afraid that you will run away, you should not be in front of his colleagues or friends. Your husband is a bit narrow-minded.

Normal, most men are like this, everyone is selfish in front of love, and they can't get used to seeing what they love with others. Normal, good for you.

Your husband is wrong! The bad guys don't have words written on their faces! Nowadays, there are many wolves in society, so be careful of being abducted by "wolves". Especially those who are outstanding.

It's actually a sign that he doesn't believe you.

As the saying goes, like gathers like, people divide into groups, he doesn't believe in your friends, he just doesn't believe you.

Prove that he cares about you and is afraid that you will get hurt.

Men are very selfish, and he is relieved if you don't go out with others, and men are uncomfortable when they see their ex-girlfriends with other men.

I love you too much, worry about you too much, and sometimes it's a burden.

I often say this to my wife, because there are so many bad people in society now, and your husband loves you and cares about you.

Sometimes it's good to be careful! It shows that she cares about you very much! It's really chaotic right now.

It's to protect you from getting hurt.

She only cares about you within a limited range of her abilities.

It's a sign of loving you too much.

You deserve to be happy.

Kiss. After all, he is a mother who has a fluid shortage, and his mother is his own mother no matter how wrong she is! If it weren't for the fact that he was too old, he wouldn't be able to say anything about his mother, so he could only let his mother-in-law order it!

Such a husband can only play the opposite role. I'd like to say he's underwhelmed.

Throw him pillow and treat him for a few days.

Be more considerate and considerate of the elderly

Cut off him from a month's spiritual food.

Think about his goodness, find out if you are wrong, and calm down.

Divorce, divorce is not a sin in this era

Pack him up and get a divorce.

Now this society! Have a good chat with him, and if you don't come, break up early.

How does your husband fuck off?

The competition in this society is too fierce, and the pressure is really much greater for men than for women, and it is inevitable that they will be depressed and short-tempered when they are frustrated. He can't be recognized outside, his career is not going well, and your husband is a man with a strong personality, it is completely normal to lose his temper with his family when he comes home, and he is very bitter in his heart, even if he scolds you, it is not that he really wants to scold you, but he just wants to balance his mentality. At this time, the wife doesn't understand that he may really be finished, and he will be even more depressed, what you have to do is to encourage him and enhance his self-confidence.

In your heart, you have to think that your husband is the best, and believe that he will succeed! Slowly, you will find that your husband is actually really great!

Love is a gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm. Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

You can't be too anxious and ask your husband to change it right away. Gotta give him time. As long as he has the determination to change.

Don't be disappointed in him, and don't be disappointed in your marriage. As for his parents, if you can live well, I don't think there will be much of a problem. There must be few parents in the world who are not good for their children.

Take your time, a man should be able to restrain his temper after the age of 27 or 28.

I wish you all happiness!!

First of all, there should be equality in marriage, but the patriarchal society has not disappeared. Women's economic status affects family status, but the art of getting along is also a big factor. His emotions may come from many aspects of work and family, can they lead him to look on the positive?

At the same time, the law of the jungle has not disappeared, respect is two-sided, if you never resist, he will keep pinching your soft persimmon, maybe verbal violence will only intensify for you.

Wait for him to talk when he is in a good mood and don't be noisy. After all, they are husband and wife, and being like this not only hurts their feelings, but also how to live their lives! But don't be too direct, lest he misunderstand you!

Care more about her, let him feel your warmth and love, and I believe everything will be fine. Relationships and marriages need to be managed, friends work hard! Face your lover with a smile and tolerance!

Divorce, if you don't get it, there will be violence in the future.

If you are interested in you, you can't evaluate good people and bad people to others, not to mention your husband, when your husband doesn't move you, it's not good, it's a disappointment, if you like you, he will tease you, and it's good if you don't like it, believe in your own vision, your own man, even if everyone says he's not good, you have to say that he's good, if it's not good, why are you with him, it's not okay, it's the best for each other in each other's hearts, otherwise it won't last long.

Cut! Saying that your husband is not a good person and a hooligan is better to say that you are really an abnormal woman, otherwise the ancients taught that the couple is fighting at the head of the bed and.

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

The nature is difficult to change, the country is difficult to change, and your husband will not become better.

...I agree. (*Hee-hee.......) The husband is not a hooligan to his wife. Is it to others ... Would you like that?

Would your husband be willing to be a non-a**? Is there still a rogue between husband and wife?

I took a look at everyone's answers, and everyone answered your questions very carefully, so let me tell you my opinion! You love your husband very much, so you are reluctant to leave him, then you must have the determination to change him, a complete change, that needs to have a plan and strategy to change him, at present it can be seen that you have worked hard, but the heat is not enough, I think you are too easy to forgive him, you must make him deeply feel his mistakes, is the most important! Otherwise, it will be a palliative rather than a cure!

He can't control his temper anymore, who else can! But your husband still loves you, so there is hope to change him! Change him with love, communicate with each other with your heart, tell him how uncomfortable I am like this, don't forgive me easily, or if you don't cure it, you will cure it once and for all, so that he will never forget!

You see how long he's changed, and he's still standing still! Why! It's just that you forgive him too easily, soft-hearted, right?

It's so good for customers, why is it bad for your family! His family will spoil him! The above is my personal opinion, I hope it will be helpful to you, and I wish you happiness ......

I think the current problem is mainly your husband's problem, is his own problem, to put it mildly, I think his heart is very inferior, and people with low self-esteem are prone to tantrums, my suggestion is, you can go with him to find a psychiatrist to consult, after all, this is not a trivial matter, it is related to a lifetime of happiness, however, I think your husband's character should not go, if you can convince him to see, maybe it is the first step towards the problem. In addition, I suggest that your husband usually has nothing to do but read more books on self-cultivation, which are very beneficial to get rid of bad temper, and people who are often prone to temper tantrums are often traumatized in their hearts, or have low self-esteem and so on. Sometimes it's not exactly a matter of character.

You can refer to the following.

People are good people, but they are impatient with the people close to them, it should be difficult to get rid of them, so get used to them slowly.

Women are already great as long as they take care of themselves, so why should they take care of men? Don't worry about obedient men, don't care about disobedient men, don't care about men who are good to you, don't let you care about men who are bad to you, don't care about men who love you, don't care about those who don't love you, it's not your turn.

It doesn't matter if you have a bad temper, talk to your husband well, I guess your temper is also very strong, what can the couple say well, be humble to each other, I don't believe he will lose his temper for no reason, everyone has a temper, the most important thing is that you have to understand him, understand him, understand him.

Love him more, love him and don't hurt him.

First of all, it's not a big deal with copying, and it's not a certain one.

People's faults, there is no need to pursue a result, there is no need to think too much about things, people are always hit by themselves. Besides, you're pregnant again. What is certain is that your father-in-law doesn't like you in his heart!

If you want family harmony, you must learn to understand and tolerate others. Don't care about unnecessary things. Communicate more with your husband!

Time changes everything!

There's no way to go back to your parents' house and stay Can't we still hide if you can't afford to provoke it It's not the reason why your father-in-law is alone, if your husband says two sentences about your father-in-law, does he dare to bully you like this?

Father-in-law is to coax, no matter how much you don't like it in your heart, you have to pretend to like it on the surface, your father-in-law will never be a mother, you can't get too close to her, keep a distance, respect each other like a guest is the best, polite and everyone is happy, say thank you more, bother her less, don't think about finding your mother-in-law for help when you encounter something, find a way to solve it yourself, you really can't find our mother, don't look for your father-in-law, light and long water!

Your husband is not autonomous, he can't tell right from wrong, he can't help it. It's been a long time, and it's more than that. It's up to you to do it yourself.

I'm in the opposite situation with you, we don't talk for 2 months.

Try to avoid it, if you can't, try to be careful, or plan as soon as possible, and wish you happiness, in fact, treat the elderly like children.

I think in this case, you should go back to your own home, at least someone to take care of it.