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In your life, have you ever asked the question: Whose word should I believe? Have you ever asked yourself:
Do you believe that others are important, or do you believe that you are important? In fact, believing in others is just as important as believing in yourself. We are neither stubborn and arrogant, nor cowardly and unassertive.
Therefore, we must both believe in ourselves and listen to the opinions of others.
Believing in yourself plays an important role in one's success. Some people obey their parents, and he learns whatever his parents want him to learn, and he has no opinions, are you born to live for your parents? The outside world is wonderful, you can't live under the protection of your parents forever, one day you have to leave your parents and go into society, one day your parents will die, they can no longer tell you how to do it, so you have to believe in yourself and put yourself into society to exercise and explore.
Only in this way can you embody your true self in society and be useful to society. But if you lack self-confidence, you will not be able to appreciate the true meaning of life, and always think that you are inferior to others, then in today's fierce competition, you will inevitably be eliminated by society and become a useless person. There are countless examples of success like this because of self-confidence:
Yang Liwei, as a pilot, if he is not confident enough in himself, how can he calmly walk into the spacecraft and become China's "first person in space". Therefore, we should have self-confidence, believe in ourselves, and I am the best.
But it is not enough to just believe in ourselves, we should also trust others and listen to their opinions. As the saying goes: no one is perfect.
Life is so long, no one can guarantee that they are perfect, do not make mistakes, there will always be some small setbacks, small bumps, but as long as you find out in time, and correct, then you can do as perfect as possible, at this time, relying on self-confidence, it is far from enough, you must listen to the opinions of others, learn from the lessons of others, so that you can better overcome difficulties. As the old saying goes: if you listen to both, you will be clear, and if you listen partially, you will be dark.
That's what I'm talking about. If Tang Taizong had not listened to Wei Zheng's advice and criticized himself, how could there have been a prosperous scene of "Zhenguan's rule"; What if? Finch did not listen to the criticism of his teacher, how could he become a world-famous painter ......Therefore, we must also pay attention to believing in others, so that we can always be invincible.
To sum up, we must not only believe in ourselves, but also in others. So, while remembering "go your own way, let others say go", also remember the Polish proverb: he who asks for directions does not lose his way.
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Believe in Yourself In my computer, there is a song that I deliberately remove from the list whenever I listen to it. I really can't help it, I can't help but laugh when I hear this song, and I think of those days ...... two months ago
Perhaps, I was born with no talent for singing, so it's not that I'm often out of tune, but it's difficult not to be out of tune, and I can't even say that I can't sing at all. I'm sure that even my family hadn't heard me sing before this.
However, it is inevitable that in the second semester of my second year of junior high school, I had to take the final exam of the ** class, and the requirement was that no one had to choose a song from the textbook to sing a cappella song. Even the chorus I may not be able to accept, let alone a personal cappella, but it can't be done if you don't sing, all other grades can be excellent, ** I still have to take the exam.
We have three weeks to prepare, which is a lot for everyone, but for me, not even three weeks, even three years may not be able to correct my voice.
In order not to compare myself with others, I chose a difficult English version of "Hand in Hand", which was the theme song of the 1988 Seoul Olympic Games. I don't know why I have the guts to sing such a difficult song.
At first, I felt good when I sang along with **, but then I couldn't, and I used the computer to record, but as soon as I heard my voice, I was scared half to death. I can't help it, my voice seems to be worse than before. I had no choice but to ask the teacher to postpone the competition for me for a week.
I always want to change a Chinese song to sing, every song in the book is simpler than this one, but after practicing for so long, how can I give up? If you change the song, you still have to reconnect, and it will take more time, yes, you can't change it, you have to believe in yourself, you must practice this song well this night! 、
That's what I was still thinking about the night before the exam.
I took the *** I borrowed from a friend, and in my bedroom, I closed the door and sang with all my might.
On the second day of the competition, in order to make my mood less nervous, I asked the teacher to sing while listening to ***, and the teacher agreed.
Somehow, I was placed last. It's just a lesson of kung fu, and the students in front of me sing very quickly. It was my turn.
I don't know why I have so much confidence: stand up, turn up the volume of ***, close my eyes, just like closing the door in my own home, and sing loudly, the same as I did my best, and the difference is - after I sang the last sentence, I took off the headphones, and what I heard was no longer my own sigh, but the applause of the other students in the class
It was at this moment that I understood, I had won!
Just like a record-breaking champion, the gold medal is just a representation, and the real honor lies with oneself; I'm the same, a high score of 90 is just a gift, a gift of victory after I have overcome myself!
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Today I got a bad blow, I haven't been there since I was a child, I'm very sad and very depressed. This is because of a quote from my classmate.
Today, a female classmate suddenly said: You scored more than 20 points in mathematics. I froze, thinking that it is impossible, I can't get this kind of score, as a member of the study committee, I can't have such a score, I asked her, is this true, she still said that it really didn't lie to me, I was about to collapse, on the way home, I still kept asking and asked, and the classmates next to me comforted me and said, don't worry, we believe you won't be so bad, everyone said she was wrong, and she finally said:
Maybe I'm wrong, because the teacher always writes 7 like 2But I'm still not in the mood. But I realized for a long time that my grades were declining, from the 4th place in middle school to the 7th place, and my usual test scores were not as good as those in elementary school, so of course I knew that junior high school and elementary school were different, and the burden of junior high school was much heavier than that of elementary school.
When I got home, I went online and told them the news I got from my classmates: I only scored 20 points, and they comforted me by saying that the score is not the most important thing, and that if you do well this time, it doesn't mean that your grades will be so bad in the future. I listened to these words and thought about it:
Yes! It doesn't matter if I do well in this exam, I can work hard, so I vow that from now on I must study hard, no longer so obsessed with the Internet and spend more time on studying, I want to work hard, because I believe that I can do what others in the world can do, and I will definitely be able to do well if others do well!
From today onwards, I have made a life motto: I can do what others can do!
Why can't you believe it, you have to believe it absolutely, don't think too much, think about it, but if you think too much, it will become a tragedy.
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I don't know what you're talking about.
First of all, self-confidence should be established, a self-confident person can show a special temperament and talent in everything he does, and often hint to himself that he is not bad, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and everyone lives in their hearts a beautiful image of themselves that they desire in their dreams! To put it bluntly, everyone has their own little inferiority, since we can't be perfect, then why bother to pursue the dream of yourself, change your mentality, change your habits, happy and optimistic life, this is the meaning of our life, not to be happy, not to be sad, optimistic and wise, do this, you will find your own difference, you will feel very good, I wish you success, slowly try to do it!!
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