I was a junior and a freshman, and we were in love, but she suddenly told me to give her up

Hello friend. You have to believe that there must be a lover in the world, whether you are surrounded by light and drowning in applause at the moment, or you are walking alone on the cold street and getting wet in the heavy rain, whether it is a light morning with a light snow or a twilight twilight scorched by a heat wave, he will surely pass through the surging crowds of this world, he will walk through them one by one, and walk towards you with a heart that beats hard. He will definitely hold the heat and the heavy love in his eyes, walk towards you and hold on to you.

He will be eager to come to you, and if he is young, he will hug you like a naughty child who occupies his toys and refuses to share them with others; If he is no longer young, then he will surely be like a hunter returning from overcoming obstacles, lighting a campfire beside you, and then hugging you to sleep tired and reassuring. He will definitely find you, you have to wait.

1,, love is actually very simple and very simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect it to be complete, but we can make it true.

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become fast food. What the future holds, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers. . .

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it.

2. If one day, someone who can't come back disappears, and someone who can't leave is gone, it doesn't matter, leave a wrong person, in order to meet a right person, time will bring the right person to you. Before that, all you have to do is to take good care of yourself, make yourself better, I believe that there is a person who is walking on the road to meet you, life is a grand encounter, if you understand, please cherish it.

What was not the foreshadowing before?

Having had the same experience, I handled it badly, succumbing to the pressure of my family and betraying my feelings. But people always change, and when I look at her now, I feel that it is nothing more than that, but I feel that I owe her a lot.

I think there are several possibilities:

1. You choose to obey your parents, you may meet someone who lives an ordinary life (sorry, I wrote the lyrics), and then you find that it is not bad, but occasionally it hurts, especially when there is a conflict at home.

2. You choose to obey your feelings and break through the resistance with her, but you have a clear conscience, or maybe you will use your sweetness to prove to your parents that their decision is wrong, and finally get the blessing of your parents.

3. You came together with her despite the opposition of your family, but you never got the blessing of the family, and then the initial feeling was gradually polished by life, and you both regretted your original choice, but you still have a clear conscience.

Brother, the road has to be walked on your own, all I can do is to provide several options, where to go, it's up to you ！

It has been said that time is the medicine that heals wounds.

There are also people who say that acacia is like wine, and the older it gets, the stronger it gets...

In fact, if you think about it from another perspective - you have given each other such a wonderful memory - you will definitely never forget it for the rest of your life.

It's warm and touching to think about at any time.

Another good memory == Isn't it enough.

The conditions are insufficient to answer.

I think you should still give up and analyze it from several aspects.

1.If you do, even if you politely refuse, your girlfriend will be wary of you, which may have an impact on you later.

2.Although everyone says that they dare to love, they dare to say it, but I think that since they already know that they have a partner but still confess it, there is an idea that they want to betray their partner, and I believe that everyone is not intentional, but love is breeding. But if you really love him, let him and his partner go on, and if he really breaks up one day, you come out and confide in him, and tell him how long you have been waiting for him, I believe any boy will be moved.

If you really love him to the point that you will never forget, you can wait, if you can't wait, don't regret it, it's just fate.

Although I am a little unwilling, it is better to give up. Even if he really leaves his girlfriend to be with you, his girlfriend will become a heart problem for you in the future. And if he doesn't accept you, what's the difference between that and now? You're only a freshman, and there are a lot of good boys, so look for them again.

Don't listen to people's nonsense and give up, I'm a boy, I understand, women chase men's compartments, and men chase women's compartments. If the guy likes to be nice to him, then take the initiative, but if he will seek what he likes, then it's up to you. In short, don't give up.

Don't give up easily, pay for him silently, your sincerity will definitely move him, there is a good saying: the road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people over time!!

Wait for her to share it! Usually senior year is the season of breakups! But you also have to look at the situation, good women will appear collectively in the third year, and the girls in college will change a lot, and there will be more choices in the future!

What else can you do if you have a girlfriend, you tell him, and then bless them, I'm sure you'd love to see the person you like happy, right!!

Oh, forget it, love is zero, it's useless to accumulate too much, and you'll still lose in the end.

I just want to say that you have the potential to be a junior, but as for ability, I don't know.

After breaking up, I found that I was reluctant to save the other party, and I still wanted to save the other party, but I didn't know how to save it?

I believe many people don't understand what kind of mentality is needed in the recovery process. Because most people's first reaction after a breakup is to be restless, and then they will be cranky, and some even can't control their emotions, and will be angry or weak and kneel and lick. Such a mentality is quite unfavorable for recovery.

In the process of redemption, you have to have a strong belief that the separation between you is only temporary, and that she is not the best in your heart. You must understand that men and women are equal, although you are at fault, but it does not mean that all the faults are on you, you can admit and correct your own mistakes, but it does not mean that you can take all the faults on yourself.

Many students will have a question when they see this: Obviously, I love her very much, and I will only redeem her if I regard her as a true daughter, why do I want to treat her as not the best in my heart now? Well, if you take her too seriously, will you constantly expose your sense of need in the process of recovery, and it is easy to have emotional fluctuations because of her, thereby lowering your own value, which is very detrimental to your recovery.

Then, be sure to figure out the reasons for the breakup, not only to understand the fuse of the breakup, but also to know what the fundamental problem is between you. In this way, we can know ourselves and our opponents in the follow-up recovery, so as to win all battles. In the process of redemption, know that you are equal to each other, so that you can avoid too many inappropriate behaviors in the process of redemption.

The process of adjusting the mindset is very hard, but it is also very necessary and the most important thing, since you have decided to redeem it, then you need to pay 200% determination and perseverance, so that is the first step to success.

The mentor wrote some experiences and experiences in redeeming love in ***wanhuimiji. If you want to save true love, you can ***** the book "Saving the Standardized Process". There are many ways to redeem (the freezing rule, the three-three-three chat method, the puzzle theory), and how to get along with the object more harmoniously.

If you don't contact you for a long time, you won't have much emotion, so let's have a showdown.

Slowly, she fades to you.

I think you're present.

In bai, this matter should be put down, of course, it is very easy to say, I can understand the sense of collapse in your heart now, it is difficult to save things at this point, I can only say, there will be times in life, there is no time in life not to force it, providence, creation makes people. I hope you can come out of it and meet the happiness of your next stop.

People are not exhausted. The most terrible system is not having a motivated heart. I myself, I don't care about my background, I don't have anything, but I can work hard together, what I can't accept is that I know my own situation, and I don't know how to improve, it's me, and I won't be with such a person.

If you are a man, you must have the appearance of a man and the responsibility of a man. I believe that if you still care about each other and you know what you have to do, there is still a chance.

It's a bit too much, throwing a girl in a strange place. If two people are not together, it is a painful torture, and they should cherish it when they meet. She's still excited, which means you still have hope.

Gotta keep it up. She has no faith in your future. It's up to you, how to keep her heart.

She's blacklisted you, and you can text him and stick to one message a day. QQ is also the same.,Stick to it every day.。 With heart, there is nothing that cannot be done.

You did hurt her! It's a fact, people come all the way to see you! You still treat people like this, but the problem must be solved!

Don't bother her just yet! Both of you need to cool down for a while! Give her some time and give yourself some time!!

Contact her in a few days!

You said a lot of nonsense and didn't touch on the root cause of your disagreement. Nature? How to communicate? Values? There are things that can be run-in, and there are things that cannot be compromised.

You're inexperienced, girls have to be coaxed.

You! People give you a body, your promise is like the wind, say no, it's gone, what do people use to trust you.

Cold salad, women hear you say this, nine out of nine, they ignore you like this.

It's better to cherish the time together.

Eldest brother! She is obviously not wanting to be nice with you. What else are you?

Hello, your situation looks like this to me. I have a feeling that this girl may have a last resort.

1. It may be that the family members know about you and have been subjected to external pressure, which has caused the current situation.

2. It may be that she likes someone else, so she doesn't want to cause others to have a boyfriend.

3. It may be that I have been estranged from you for a while, and I feel that I have nothing to say or I feel that you are too inactive and a little angry.

The above is my analysis, in short, a girl's mind is easy to change, you are now in the third year of high school, I think you will definitely be separated when you go to college, and then it will be time to test your feelings. Have you thought about it? Even if we get along so well now, what will I do if I go to college in the future?

Everyone has to be so far apart, do you think you can stand the test?

Think carefully before deciding.

Hope it helps.

Study hard, you don't have a future, either be brave enough to confess to him and make it clear, or let it go.

Whether her grades have dropped recently, or whether her parents have noticed.