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If I can turn my dream into reality, I feel that what I don't have at the moment and I want to have in the future should be fought for. If you don't even strive for what you want in your dreams, then you can't change the reality of what should be realistic. There are things in this world that belong to you and things you want to have.
If you lose what belongs to you, then I think you should go for it.
And some of the things in your dreams that you want to pursue, if you don't take action, don't work hard to fight for it, and don't work hard to fight for it, then dreams can only be said to be dreams that will eventually become utopian.
How to get a sentence for what you want. When I was a child, my dream was to open my own clothing store when I grew up, and now I have set myself a goal to achieve my plan in the next five years. At that time, I worked hard every day in order to achieve my first goal.
But at that time, I didn't have a concept of money and time management, and every month was always the most popular moonshine family at that time. Five years have passed in the blink of an eye, and I am still the same person I was at that time, and nothing has changed, and the dream at that time, the things I wanted to have, still failed to have.
So in order to fight for the things I didn't get, I began to try a new job, and soon found a job where I could barely make ends meet, and slowly I got away from it, so I returned to the original two-point and one-line life, and repeated three things every day, going to work, getting off work, and sleeping. Slowly, the things I wanted to fight for but couldn't get gradually became my dreams again, unattainable and unattainable.
I work hard every day to dream, although I do it, but I don't get the results as expected, maybe there are still many problems that are bothering me, I still stand in the same place.
I couldn't find the next intersection, except for frequently changing jobs that I didn't like, looking for jobs that I wanted to do and that I liked related to my dreams. I work hard every day to fight for what I don't have. Although I have been on the road all the time, for my dreams, for a more stable life in the future.
It's just for myself, for the promise I made at the beginning, I've been running on the road.
If you don't have what you want, you have to work hard to get what you want, and if you don't fight for it, you will eventually lose what you want to have. Therefore, on the road of life, we must be indignant and strive for what belongs to us and what we want.
After experiencing it, you will find that what you really want must be fought for by yourself, and only you will not treat yourself badly. Only if you work hard can you get those things that you don't have, and you have to work hard to fight for what you don't have.
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Personally, I think it still depends on the situation.
First of all, what I don't have, but what I need, what is good for me, or what I like, is actually something I still have to strive for, because I think we still need some motivation to live, we can't be born with everything, there are some things that we are born with, or our parents can give us, such as superior family background and life, then those who may be poor, born with not so good conditions, But for a better life, we still have to work hard, this is a positive part of life, and we will want to work hard when we have motivation. For example, what you like, beautiful things are always so far away, but we can also work hard to achieve it step by step, get it, no matter what the result is, at least we enjoy the process, we also struggle, just like the dream of this thing, even if the final result is not as good as we want, but in the process we may gain more.
But not everything we need to strive for, because there are so many things you want if you want them, how can anyone have everything they want? It is still necessary to stop in moderation and conform to your actual situation, otherwise you will find yourself a failure in the end and get nothing, in fact, this is because your mentality has not been adjusted well, or your ambition is too great.
There are some things that we don't need to have, and we don't need to fight for them, fame and fortune are actually things outside the body, many people are desperate to pursue fame and fortune, and do some bad things, in fact, it is not necessary, look away a little, look down on it, and life will be better.
Finally, I hope everyone can live their ideal life!
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Each of us is born with something, and there are things that we need to work on to get there. But it doesn't mean that we don't have to get something we don't have, it depends on whether you like it or if you need it.
Each of us will have ideals and goals, but these ideals and goals are not something we were born with, but something we only have later. Because we have ideals and goals, we will have a specific direction to work hard, so that we will not live a muddy life and live a dull life, and our life will become colorful. Our ideals, our goals, and the distant places we aspire to are not there at the beginning, but these are what we need, so we need and must strive for them.
Before the college entrance examination, parents or teachers will ask them to think about which university they want to be, and some teachers will say that they should choose those that they are sure of, but more teachers will let us choose bigger goals, not just focus on the present. Why would the teacher ask us to choose a higher level? Because these things may not be available to us now, but these things can make us better, we deserve to have them, we may be able to have them, so why not go for them?
We can't get it now, but we can get it through our own efforts.
Everyone knows that Apple mobile phones have always been expensive, and I have heard of people selling their kidneys or being thieves in order to buy Apple mobile phones. I can't figure out why this is happening? Could it be that a mobile phone can make you don't even want your own organs for it?
Could it be that a mobile phone can make you not even want your own good life for it? Does it have to be an iPhone? It's true that not everyone has an iPhone, but this kind of thing doesn't mean that we have to have it, so even if we don't have it, we don't necessarily have to go for it.
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Many times, we all ask ourselves, what do we have, what should we do, some people are very confused, some people are very proactive, know what they need, but that is a minority, I think most people will be very confused for a while, of course, during this time you can be decadent, you can ignore anything, but you think about it carefully, if you keep living like this, what is the difference between being a vegetative person?
People are always not satisfied with the current situation, and they all want to work hard to change the status quo, because he feels that he can have the ability to live a better life, whether to fight for what he doesn't have, the answer is, of course, why can't you do it if they can do it? Do you have fewer arms or legs than him? If a person is blindly satisfied with the status quo, then this person will slowly lose his fighting spirit, and he used to have the ambition to get everything, but now he is dead.
Although sometimes you try to get something that you don't have, but the end result is not satisfactory, at least you do it for the sake of your idea. You work hard to get what you want, but if you don't work hard, you won't get it. If a person likes something he doesn't have but likes very much, and he loses the belief that he wants to get it, then this person will be eliminated in a few days.
Why do we choose to go to school and choose a good job, isn't it just to have something that we couldn't have before? Experience the beauty that you have not experienced before, and the various things that you have encountered in the process of striving for it. So what you don't have, try to fight for it, don't care what others think of you, you just have to work hard for yourself, you are a hero.
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Many people always have some ideas of their own in this life, and they will always strive to be the first when they do some things, so that they can make their lives particularly complete, but in fact, sometimes we think about it the other way around, some things are really not necessary to fight, to give a simple example, for example, when we face family affection and family property, these things are really not necessary to fight, I personally see these problems as particularly indifferent.
Family affection and family property.
The danger of losing affection.
It is you who have lost the relationship with your family and friends, or the fratricidal relationship between your brothers and sisters, compared with such a little bit of benefit and family affection, I don't think it's necessary to do this, and it will also affect my future development, and it will set a bad example for my children, so when you lose, your children will also fight for family property for this, so will you be happy? Therefore, family affection is really invulnerable in the face of money, and don't fight for something that is not necessary.
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For example, there is no need to strive for all kinds of fame and fortune, because it is very likely that you will fail and you will be devastated by yourself.
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For example, there is no need to fight for the status in the mother-in-law's heart, because the mother-in-law only has her own children in her heart, and it is useless to fight for herself.
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In life, some people look down on you in particular, in fact, there is no need to fight for such things, as long as you live a wonderful life and live your own value, then others will naturally be able to look up to you.
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There is no need to fight for things that you know you are not capable of, otherwise it will not only hit your self-confidence, but also bring you great disappointment.
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In life, there is no need for two people to be in the family, they have to fight for who is the boss, in fact, in marriage, they are soft, not that they have no skills, but out of love for this feeling.
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In fact, there is no need to fight for some fame and fortune, as long as we do our own work, strive to improve ourselves, and make ourselves better, I think this kind of life is also wonderful enough.
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It's just that there is no need to strive for some things that you can see the results and you can't succeed at all, and there are some things that are not worth it, and there is no need to strive for them, which is just a waste of time.
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Usually pay attention to rest, do more sports, enhance physical fitness, and reduce smoking and alcohol.
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