What do you think of the parents statement that they have a second child for themselves?

As an expectant mother, the first baby is about to be born, and I have long had plans to have a second child, I don't think I need to ask for the opinion of my first baby when I have a second child, and I don't have the idea of having a second child to give birth to a playmate for the first baby.

In my opinion, this practice of having a second child for the sake of a first child is not worth advocating, or even very undesirable. Especially if you're in a situation where you're already in middle school and have made your own decisions about many things. At this time, the parents wanted to have another one because the second child was released, which was understandable.

But to have a second child under the banner of having a companion for you in the future is not fair to you or Erbao. <>

For me, having a second child is my own idea, and I feel that having two children is just right for a family, and with my energy, work situation and financial situation, it is perfectly okay to raise two children. In addition, my husband and I were born in a family of two children, and I have a younger brother, and my husband has an older brother, and we both feel that our lives with brothers and sisters are very happy and complete. Of course, my parents didn't ask for my opinion when they gave birth to their second child.

But the results were good.

I think that we are born without the right to decide our own destiny, we can't choose our parents, we can't choose our brothers and sisters, we can be at peace with what we come from, and treat everything we have with a normal heart.

Although your parents' ideas seem undesirable to me, you also do not have the right to decide whether your parents have a second child.

Maybe your parents are just trying to convince you that you will be happier when you have a younger sibling. You should also understand the feelings of parents who want to have another one, no matter how they choose in this matter, just accept it.

The situation of the second child, or this policy, is at best for the normal supply of labor in our country, ensuring sufficient military resources, and promoting social development. The promulgation of this kind of policy by the state has a very macro plan and a long-term future.

Or you may say, if you tell me that this kind of thing is too far for me, and the future of the country is too far away for you, then I will talk to you about family. Home, what is it to you, you say your parents want a daughter, or this says you're a boy. Then I'll treat you as a boy and say, do you think that having a sister is a burden and a burden, because what you see is that you have grown up, you have adapted to this kind of life alone, you have become accustomed to it.

With an extra sister in the house, you will feel that your personal space has been encroached upon. Or rather, your parents' feelings are divided into two, for you and your sister. But you look a little short, you look bigger, wait for you to start a family, marry a wife and have children.

As for your wife, she is also an only child like you, plus she has to raise a child. Four old people, one child, plus a house, a car, messy things, red and white ceremonies, the burden is too great. Society is not as simple as you think, you need to take care of everything by yourself, you are responsible for yourself, you want to find someone to discuss, who to find, you are an only child, who do you go to, maybe you say, you have a group of buddies, I can discuss with them, they don't even have a blood relationship with you, what do you believe him?

To put it mildly, do you believe them, do they dare to believe you? The world is hot and cold.

It is really important to have a sibling, don't think that she will rob you of the so-called inheritance, she is also a person who can pay for you unconditionally.

I think there is a certain amount of science in your parents' statement, and part of their starting point is definitely for you.

The first point is loneliness, you are only in the second year of junior high school now, you are relatively young, you have classmates in your life, there are students and parents, there are a group of people who love you, so you will definitely not feel lonely, but after you arrive, you can't say, there are six people in our dormitory, two of them have younger brothers, I don't like children, but when I hear them talk about their younger brothers, I want a younger brother a little.

At least one person is involved in your life, and when you get old, at that time, your parents, grandparents, grandparents, and grandparents have passed away, if you have a brother or sister, at least you are not alone, I know that you may feel that you will not be lonely if you have children, not like that, I often see my grandmother talking about my uncle, grandpa, my aunt, and grandma, and I also make food to send them over, I think this kind of life is very good.

The second point is to consider the pressure that only children will face later on, and your parents definitely take this into account. Our generation is basically an only child, and when we start working as adults, our parents are still middle-aged and don't need to rely on us to support them, but when we are a little older, our parents will get old, and we need to support them, not only financially, but also spiritually.

Not only parents, but even some only children have to support six people alone, plus their own small family, it is terrible to think about, which is a lot of pressure on the economy. If you have a younger sibling, then these obligations and responsibilities will be shared, and your stress will be reduced.

I think your mom and dad are telling the truth, they want a daughter and it's definitely one of the reasons why they want a second child, but it's also absolutely true that they want a child to be with you.

The reason why many parents want a second child is that they are afraid that the eldest will be too lonely, and you may not feel it now, but the parents are worried that one day they will leave you, and there will be fewer relatives in this world. <>

Having a brother or sister can be less lonely and can support each other when things happen. I also came to my own family with a second child, and when I was six years old, my parents gave birth to a younger brother.

I am a child, and suddenly I have a younger brother, and the eyes of the whole family are focused on this little one. Naturally, I felt that my family was patriarchal and didn't like my brother very much.

When he was young, he didn't take care of him like other sisters, and often quarreled with him and refused to let him take a step. So we didn't have a good relationship when we were young, and he didn't get taken care of by my sister, so I feel very guilty when I think about it. Now that I'm older and married, I finally understand what my parents said back then.

The parents are getting old, and the younger brother has grown up to be the backbone of the family. Especially when my mother was sick, I felt that it was so good to have a younger brother, who would not be overwhelmed at this time and would not feel helpless.

Now that I have a child of my own, although I have no plans to have a second child for the time being, I know in my heart that my parents' words back then were not perfunctory. How glad I am that my parents managed to add a younger brother to me when family planning was strictly investigated.

So you can feel comfortable accepting this new member of the family, perhaps because her young parents will pay more attention to her. But it will definitely not affect the love for you, and you will also love the cute little sister.

If I have parents and my parents tell me the same thing, then I will be very happy, because now there are very few people in our family, just me and my mother and my grandparents, and if my mother says she wants to remarry and give me another brother or sister then I will be very happy, because as she said, if she says that if a brother or sister comes out, then I can have one more companion, and my grandparents will be very happy because of his existence. Because they can have a child to accompany them in the midst of their daily boring life.

And I think in fact, you are already in junior high school, then you should be in your teens, and I think junior high school can be regarded as the age of being sensible, if your parents say this, then I think you can actually understand it, because things are like this, they do want to be good for you, the purpose of having an extra daughter is just to spend more time with you, you are already in junior high school, and having a sister is also a happy thing, isn't it, Because every day when you go home, you can see a lovely person waiting for you at the door.

And, you say don't now, and you will regret it later, because having a younger brother and sister is really a good thing, you don't know how much I want to have another brother or sister, I think now, is a very proud thing, you can protect her if someone bullies her, and if you are sad, she will also comfort you in turn, which means that you have another intimate little padded jacket, you can watch him grow up and watch her grow up, and don't let anyone get close to her, Then it's actually a very, very happy thing.

If it is for Dabao, have the parents asked Dabao's opinion, if he (she) says that he (she) disagrees, the parents don't want it, if the parents completely listen to Dabao's opinion and decide not to, it can be said that they want to have a second child for Dabao.

If the parents don't ask, or Dabao doesn't agree with the parents to ask for it, I don't think it's under the banner of asking for a second child for Dabao.

My colleague is an only child, her father is in the hospital with cancer**, she has to go to work, take care of the children, and have to serve her sick father. Her daughters were in junior high school at that time, and because of this, she decided to have a second child, because she was afraid that when she was old in the future, her daughter would be as tired as her.

As a child, I don't want my parents to have a second child.

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First of all, I already have an older brother or sister and our relationship is already very good, and having another brother or sister may judge and affect our relationship. Secondly, my family's financial situation may not allow me to have more than one sibling, which will increase the financial burden on the family.

Finally, I think parents should prioritize their own health and quality of life rather than having a second child as a means of solving the problem.

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While I don't want my parents to have a second child, I understand that parents have the right to make their own decisions. If my father and mother decide to have another brother or sister, I will respect their decision and hopefully maintain a good relationship with them.

In this case, I may try to understand their thoughts and feelings and have in-depth communication and exchanges with them to ensure that our relationship is closer and more harmonious. In addition, I will also try my best to help parents deal with the issues and challenges related to the second child to ensure family harmony and happiness.

Recently, "Ode to Joy 4" was on the air, and when Fang Zhiheng went home for the New Year, she found that her mother was pregnant with her second child, and her heart was undoubtedly mixed. As one of the parents, having a second child is naturally one of the important choices in life, but as a child, will you feel that it will affect your life and have the right to prevent your parents' decision to have children?

This is a delicate issue. It is not unreasonable for children to have a sense of responsibility for their parents and family considerations, and feel that having a second child will increase the burden on the family and affect their living environment. However, as parents, childbearing is a natural right, and it may cause ethical trouble for children to prevent it.

My point is that children should not interfere too much with their parents' decision to have a second child. There are several reasons for this:

1.Childbirth is a basic human right. According to the Constitution, citizens have the natural right to bear children and raise children. By interfering in reproductive decisions, children are depriving parents of their basic human rights.

2.Parents have the ability to support them. If the parents still have the corresponding ability to support and finance**, having a second child will not have a substantial impact on the lives of the existing children, and the reasons for the children to prevent them are not sufficient.

3.Perceptions can be transformed. When parents have two withered fetuses, the children's living environment will inevitably change to a certain extent, but this is not necessarily a negative impact. It can be seen as the addition of a new member of the family, a change of mindset, which can be an opportunity to add a bit of joy to life.

4.Can help in other ways. If the child is really worried that having a second child will increase the burden on the family, they can help in other ways to reduce the pressure on the parents to serve the hunger, instead of asking to stop having children, which can resolve the conflict and achieve a win-win effect.

To sum up, having a second child is an important choice in life, and children should not be overly intervened. Parents should be understood and supported in their financial or life capacity to make decisions. If you're really worried about changes in your home environment, you can find ways to help in other ways.

The best way is to reach a consensus in the conversation, resolve each other's concerns, and achieve a harmonious and win-win outcome.

This question needs to be considered from several angles.

First, we need to think about this from a moral and ethical perspective. As a child, we may be concerned that our parents' age, unhealthy health or lack of financial resources will have a negative impact on the health and growth of our second child, and we will consider persuading our parents not to have a second child. However, as individuals, we do not have the right to limit the reproductive rights of our parents, because procreation is a fundamental right of every adult, which is protected by legal and ethical principles.

Therefore, from an ethical and moral point of view, we cannot force parents to stop having children.

Second, we need to consider the influence of family and society. If the family's financial situation does not allow it or the parenting conditions are insufficient, having a second child may be a burden on the whole family, and may even lead to conflicts and discord between siblings. If the education and nurturing environment of the society is not perfect, it can have a negative impact on the growth and development of children.

Therefore, we need to take these aspects into account, not just personal feelings.

Finally, we need to think from a parent's point of view. As parents, they have the right to decide how many and when to have children, because it is not only about personal rights, but also about their responsibilities and contributions to their family and society. We should respect the choices of parents and support their decisions as much as possible, rather than forcing them to give up their reproductive rights.

To sum up, as children, we should not prevent our parents from having a second child, but we can put forward our concerns and suggestions to our parents on family and social factors in the hope that they will be able to make an informed decision. At the same time, we should also respect the choices of our parents, support their decisions, and contribute to the harmony and happiness of the family.