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A junior high school child is just in the rebellious period, and he may have a big temper but is disobedient, and if he is not educated, then he may go to a crooked path.
When he loses his temper, you must first understand the ins and outs of good things, and then reason with him first. Maybe he was so angry at that time that he couldn't listen to anything.
But in fact, as parents, children are also respectful and dare not mess around. If the temper is really too big, then it is still necessary to beat and scold.
Take my brother as the best example, if he hadn't been severely beaten and scolded by my father at that time, he doesn't know what kind of riffraff he would have developed into now, after all, he is really not afraid of heaven and earth.
Of course, I think it is necessary to give him a certain amount of space and face. At this time, he gradually understood his dignity, and every time he was beaten and scolded, he might feel disgraced, and it was necessary to explain some reason to him.
When he is more sensible, he should be praised or encouraged, after all, when he receives honors, he will also feel happy.
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Children in junior high school are generally in a rebellious period, at this time, we must be patient with the child, communicate and communicate with the child more, and give the child enough space, respect the child's ideas, we are not only the child's parents, but also become the child's friend.
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Precautions for the education of junior high school children:
1. Parents can talk to their children more on weekends and create a harmonious and relaxed learning atmosphere for their children in the early stage of school. At the same time, it strengthens the cultivation of children's awareness of independent learning.
2. Parents should keep up with their children's growth in a timely manner, and correctly understand that children's adolescence and rebellious period are a necessary stage of life, and mutual understanding and trust are the most important prerequisites for communication and communication between parents and children. Pay attention to the ways and means when communicating, avoid long-winded preaching, and set an example for children.
3. In addition to winter and summer vacations, during the usual class process, children are encouraged to maintain the same routine at school when they go home on weekends, and do not disrupt their rhythm at school because of a day or two. It is best to agree with your child how many hours you want to study each day. The amount of time spent on entertainment should also be controlled.
4. Parents need to cooperate with the fact that they do not need to be too sensitive. Usually the problem of interaction between children and classmates of the opposite sex should be paid attention to, but not too much attention. There is an understanding, but it doesn't have to be distilled, and there needs to be some space for the children.
5. He hopes that the child is a learning child, and the children don't want their parents to be learning parents, even if you look at the newspaper and look at the magazine, to replace playing with mobile phones and playing mahjong, it is very meaningful. When a learning atmosphere for the whole family is formed, children's reading habits will be formed and their reading ability will definitely improve.
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1. When a child enters junior high school, he has fully entered adolescence, and there is a big difference between children's education and primary school in this period. It is best not to forcibly discipline, instruct and reprimand children in education and management, let alone endless nagging, what is needed is patient listening and serious communication. No matter what kind of ideas parents have, they should communicate with their children at the right time and in the right way, and guide them patiently.
2. For children in junior high school, there should be more guidance and fewer restrictions. When a child reaches junior high school, he or she also enters puberty. Children in this period are more eager for independence and freedom, and more eager to get rid of their parents' discipline and restrictions on themselves, if the parents' discipline and restrictions are too much and too trivial, it will often make the problem worse and worse, and may make the child extremely repulsive and disgusted with school.
3. Education management of children entering junior high school, don't get angry at every turn, don't reprimand at every turn. Parents who are endlessly angry or teach their children will pierce into their children's hearts like a stinger, causing children to have a psychological reaction of extreme rejection in their hearts, making adolescent children more rebellious and more difficult to discipline. As a result, your academic performance may plummet, and you are not willing to take the initiative to learn and be motivated.
4. Parents should learn to listen patiently and actively guide. After the child reaches junior high school, it is the most rebellious stage of adolescence. At this time, children need to gain a sense of independence and freedom and a sense of self-existence.
At this time, no matter what kind of thoughts parents have, they should calm down and listen to what their children think. No matter what he thinks, whether he says something wrong or not, listen patiently. Only by listening patiently can children truly feel the attitude of parents towards themselves, which is more conducive to effective communication between parents and children, and can hear the true thoughts of children.
5. After the child enters junior high school and primary school, there is a big difference, the child gradually has his own consciousness and value orientation, and has his own basic point of view, at this time, parents can no longer use the way of thinking and psychology of primary school to manage them, and must know how to trust and respect children. Give children more guidance and guidance in learning, and less nagging and coercion. Don't force your child to go to tutoring even on weekends and holidays, as you did in the past, and come back at night to sit in front of your child and supervise his homework.
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