Doesn t loving her mean being obedient to her?

Updated on culture 2024-04-15
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Not necessarily, it depends on something. If she's vexatious, don't be obedient to her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Thousands of obedient? Why? Upstairs said love ≠ pampering, very right!

    If you love someone, you have to force yourself to be obedient to her and do things that you don't want to do, will you feel happy in the future?

    Are you really just trying to find someone you love and not love you? If it's just that you love her, and you treat her in a thousand ways, but she still treats you coldly, or is far less good than you imagined, what are you for?

    Is it also wrong to love someone? Should loving someone allow oneself to be wronged and tormented?

    I feel that this kind of love, I would rather not, even if I really, really love her!

    My pain is greater than happiness, so the long pain is better than the short pain!

    What do you think?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, my boyfriend was obedient to me and spoiled me now and didn't listen to him at all.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, no, no, no, don't change yourself for how people are, of course you can't change if you want to.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Blindly obey her, do you think you can get her true love for you? Brother Xian, you belong to yourself! The upstairs is good: love ≠ pampering!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, to love him is to be good to him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not necessarily. In principle, no.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course not, then it's not love her!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not necessarily. Girls like assertive boys.

    But it depends on the girl's personality.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No, the girlfriend may just be a matter of personality. There is such an example of a friend around me, the girlfriend is obedient to her boyfriend, but this is just a matter of her own personality, and it has little to do with whether she loves or not.

    There are such people in my parents' generation, and my aunt can be said to be obedient to my uncle, as long as my uncle says it, she will agree. At first, I thought it was because my aunt loved my husband very much, but she told me that it wasn't, because in the eyes of my parents' generation, it was still the concept of husband and wife, so it had nothing to do with love.

    Let's take another example of a classmate around me, a classmate and a girl from another major are together because they are in the same club, this girl is also very obedient to my classmate, at first it was okay, and then the classmate slowly found that this girl has a strong desire to control, although he is very good, but he really can't bear this, and finally decided to break up, but even if he broke up, this girl is still unrelenting entanglement for a long time.

    It is not a symbol of love, but this can be a factor, if the girl likes you very much, she will do anything for you, and keep your words firmly in mind, this is what love should be.

    To sum up, through two examples, we can also see that in love, one party behaves submissively not necessarily because of love, it may be because of the environment, or it may be because of personal personality problems. The mode of getting along in love must be to like each other and discuss things with each other, so that the balance will not tilt in love, and we can go to the end.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, there is only one reason why a girl is willing to be obedient to you, and that is because she loves you, so she is willing to do it, all because of love, there are very few girls who are good to a person now, and you should cherish this girlfriend.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, if your girlfriend is obedient to herself, you can know that when two people are together, they are the strong party, and their personalities complement each other, which is a better situation. Just keep the relationship going.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes and no, because in fact, some girls are obedient to boys because of personality problems, and of course, there are also some girls because they love you too much, so they will be obedient to you and listen to you for everything, which is her way of expressing love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, because I love you, your girlfriend obeys all your requirements, because I love you, maybe your girlfriend has given up her hobbies, since you have met such a good girlfriend, you should cherish her.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes. Girls need more care than boys, she hopes that the other half can spoil her like a little princess, but if she is very obedient to you, it means that she really loves you, and she is willing to change herself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The possibility is five-five, one situation is what you said, she may love you too much, and the other situation is that her own character is the kind of character that will not refuse, and it has nothing to do with whether she loves you or not, as long as the request made by anyone she knows is not something she can't do, she will obey it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think it should be, if a girl is completely dependent on a person, it means that the girl really likes this person, otherwise, she will not be so obedient.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I must love you, girls only love you very much, they will obey you, very obedient, if they don't love you very much, then they will ignore you, or they will be unreasonable.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course not, it may be that her character itself is like this, some good girls are more unassertive, and many things will obey others as long as they don't touch her bottom line, which has little to do with whether she loves you or not.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; also because he loves you, he calls for your interest to turn it into a ...... for him and Yu Xiao's interestOr because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    A beautiful love enriches life, and a ruined love that has passed the test is perfect.

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