Why is it that the faster you grow, the more you lose? People have become lonely

Yes, everyone has this feeling. Life is divided into stages, each stage has things to do and people to meet at each stage, and people's feelings will also be different over time and changes in the environment. Everything in the campus era is so beautiful and pure, there are always a lot of friends around at that time, but people have to grow up after all, and everyone can't beat time.

Entering the reality that society will change, utilitarian, friends also begin to be busy with their own values and working environments will slowly alienate, the more you grow up, the more you will find that people are actually an independent individual, you have to rely on yourself in trouble, and you can only believe in yourself. After starting a family and having children, the focus of your life is family and work, and the mentality should be good, this is a person's change from youth to maturity, youth is always beautiful, but people still have to change after all, come on!

When people grow up, they want more, and they lose more, so they should be content, and those who are content will always be happy! In fact, when you get older, you will understand better that everything is actually a passing thing. Chat with friends when you're fine, and it's best to have a few good friends of your own. That way you won't be too lonely.

In the process of growing up, you should also adjust your mentality appropriately to adapt to the people and things around you. If you have a positive attitude towards everything, you won't feel alone. You have to do unto them as you want them to do to you.

There's a song called "The older you get, the more lonely you get." (The more you grow up, the more lonely you become, and the more you grow up, the more uneasy you become).

The main reasons are that people can't find friends to confide their thoughts in, and they feel insecure.

As people get older, people take up different careers. Workers in each profession have different work pressures, and the older we get, the more we can't talk about the inner pressure of others, let alone the other person can't think about it for ourselves.

On top of that, people feel insecure about the workplace. Even if we can make more friends through work, the workplace is full of uncertainties, maybe one second we are friends, and the next second we become competitors. Everyone is unable to express their inner feelings to others, and the sense of insecurity is getting worse.

Although people have a very stable life and work status, it does not mean that people will feel full of security in their hearts. A sense of security is not just a matter of words, it makes people have higher requirements for their surroundings and friends around them. In addition to this, there is increasing pressure at work, and many people are worried about being fired, which inadvertently increases the insecurity in the hearts of many people.

When we grew up, we embarked on different lives and had different jobs. Even if we encounter difficulties in work and life, we confide our feelings and thoughts to our friends. However, if you are working in a different job with your friends, it will inevitably lead to the other person not being able to put themselves in your shoes.

As more and more often, people naturally feel lonely and even directly feel that they are unable to share their inner thoughts with others.

In general, loneliness is a feeling of self. As people live longer and longer in big cities, a sense of loneliness arises in their hearts. Work stress and uncertainty in the external environment can also lead to loneliness.

In addition, the work environment and the nature of the work between friends are different, and it is difficult to tell others what they really think.

Because the older you get, the more you have no friends, and it's hard to meet like-minded people, so you will be lonely.

Because I know more things when I grow up, and I am often busy with work, my family, I rarely be able to hang out with friends, and I am relatively lonely.

When we grow up, we will imagine more things in our hearts, and we will lose the innocence of our childhood. At this time we also found out. There are fewer and fewer things that can remain in the heart.

People's hearts will change, and as you mature, you will find that many things and people cannot go back, and you will no longer be interested in the things you once wanted.

When I was a child, I was simple and innocent, carefree and played with my friends, of course, I didn't feel lonely, but when I grew up and thought about more things, I had to work alone, and I naturally felt lonely.

As adults, the burden on our shoulders becomes heavier and heavier, and we are often busy with our own lives and work, and neglect to communicate with friends and family, which will lead to weaker and weaker feelings and loneliness.

Because when I was a child, I was always full of curiosity about the whole world, and when I grew up, my curiosity slowly disappeared, and some people became introverted and unwilling to confide in many things to the outside world, so they became lonely.

Yes, the older you get, the more you have to understand that everyone is an individual, you are responsible for yourself, and no one is responsible for you except yourself.

Loneliness is because you lack communication, if the frequency of communication is high, this is called traveling, that is called drinking, will you still be lonely?

Because the more I grow up, the more I learn, the more opportunities I have to come into contact with society, and then my mind will become confused, and then I will think about everything.

Because of having a mind of its own, an independent world.

The older you get, the harder it is to open up to others.