What are some of the experiences that have you been guilty of speaking awkwardly?

When I meet the guy I have a crush on, and then go up and talk to him, I don't know what to say for a while. I suddenly felt very embarrassed. Very shy.

I rarely speak in the group, but occasionally I will say it if I want to, and the result is that I start to be embarrassed, and then no one responds, only my message stays on it.

When you're doing something else, and suddenly someone talks to you, and then you don't know how to respond, and you feel embarrassed when your mind hasn't turned around, or if you don't wear makeup, you feel embarrassed when you see someone you particularly like talking to you, and you don't know how to talk to them.

I have had some experiences of embarrassment as soon as I speak, that is, when facing some people I don't know, strangers. I don't know what to say, and sometimes it's very embarrassing to say the wrong thing, because I'm not very familiar with them, and there are some things that I can't say, so it's not suitable to say them.

In high school, because it was summer, there were more mosquitoes, and during the meal, someone called the person opposite me, and as soon as he turned around, then a mosquito landed in the meal, and he turned around and continued to eat, I quickly reminded him, and he had already eaten.

Everyone will interact with different people, but everyone's magnetic field is different, and the reaction to being together is also different, and there are many times when it will be very embarrassing, for example, I used to be with someone I didn't know, but we waited for someone I knew together, but it would be very awkward to talk.

I think it's supposed to be a conversation with a friend who forcibly doesn't understand the stalk and forcibly picks up the stalk.,I feel embarrassed.,But the words have already been spoken.,I think this kind of embarrassment is committed when you speak.。

For example, when I reply to Uh-huh, most people don't know how to reply or what to say, okay, I know this kind of words, many people will be embarrassed, and I don't know how to respond to this sentence.

People who are embarrassed when they speak are often the terminators of the topic, the awkward dialogue is to talk to death, cold, causing the other party not to want to continue chatting, and only then did he realize that he had said the wrong thing. What these people have in common is that they are either too subjective, or regardless of the occasionEither that or they don't pay attention to the conception and logic of language.

- Too subjective

People who are too subjective tend to be in a hurry to express themselvesWhen discussing a problem with others to find a solution, they will always put the ideas and ideas of solving the problem on their own sideYou are dominant, thinking that your ideas are better than the other personNot considering the feelings of others, or even disdainful of listening to othersBlocking other people's thoughts and opinions.

Too subjective for the other person to express their thoughts, then the point of discussion is lost, and others have no interest in continuing the conversationCausing others to be disgusted, this exchange is naturally cold and embarrassing.

- Regardless of the occasion

Nowadays it is a civilized societyChinese people are very particular about the right time and place, and they also pay great attention to the importance of the occasionEven the clothes need to be matched according to the occasion, not to mention the language that shows personal cultivation and conversational temperament.

Some people just speak regardless of the occasionFor example, it is very inappropriate to talk about personal relationships in business situations or work meetings, It seems that the relationship with the other party is very good,But as everyone knows, he has committed something that the other party doesn't want to mention.

The most embarrassing thing about this kind of person is when the other party changes from a natural smile to a fake smile that does not lose etiquetteI couldn't find out that my words were inappropriate, and I kept talking until the atmosphere of the audience became cold, and I realized that I was embarrassed.

- Lack of attention to linguistic conception and logic

Speaking should also be logical and artisticI want people to have a good impression of you in a short period of time。Of course, it doesn't mean that eloquence is bad, and people who are not good at expressing themselves are hated.

The people who are really disgusting and have no desire to appeal are those who do not think about it, do not speak logically, and do not pay attention to proportions before speakingTo put it bluntly is to "talk but not brains". What he said was not right for the horse's mouth, and the other party was also confused when he heard it, and he went around and around, which had consumed his patience for chatting.