Why is it said that older leftover women are not suitable to be wives?

I don't agree with the idea that older leftover women are not suitable to be wives, and there is no theoretical or factual basis.

In fact, whether it is suitable to be a wife or not has no necessary relationship with age. It is only related to the values, living habits, behavioral awareness, etc. of both parties, and even the right match can be used as a condition for whether it is suitable to be a wife, but age alone is not a sufficient reason.

This is because the older leftover girls are produced for different reasons, and most of the older leftover girls are very good, even far better than those young girls.

For example, some older leftover women, because of study, work or a small circle of life, have not been exposed to men suitable for marriage, or missed the best age for marriage, but such a girl, no matter from the character, from the living habits, personal cultivation, temperament and other aspects are very good, if you can marry her home as a wife, it will be a blessing for you to cultivate for a lifetime or several lifetimes.

Then there are older leftover girls, who may have been hurt by feelings when they were young, so as to protect themselves like a hedgehog, but in fact, such a girl knows the preciousness of feelings very well, and knows how to cherish it very much, if you can open her heart and marry her home, then you will live extremely happily in this life.

There are also some general advantages of older leftover women, they are not pretentious, not pretentious, will be very pragmatic, will be very considerate of each other, they have a strong ability to live, economic ability, and the ability to look at things objectively and calmly, and deal with problems, which are all good qualities that a family hostess should have. Marrying such a girl back home, then in the future family life, a lot of family problems will be shared for the man.

Of course, some people will say that older leftover women may be inferior to young people in terms of physical conditions, especially in terms of childbearing, which depends on the specific age and physical condition of a person, generally speaking, girls before the age of 30 or 35 are not a problem to have children under the current medical conditions.

To sum up, because there are a lot of very good older leftover women around me, they just missed the best age for marriage for many reasons, but when they get married at the age of 28 or 30, they perform very well and happily in the family, and they are not inferior to those girls in their early 20s.

First, the birth of a child by an older woman affects the body. One of the reasons why you can't find an elderly leftover woman when looking for a wife is that older leftover girls and children can easily affect a woman's health, and the children born may also be unhealthy, so men who want to get married generally choose a younger one, so it is good for their children and their future lives, of course, they must be cautious about the people who live with them.

The second high-collared leftover girl must be the kind of person with a strange temper or a bad personality, and it is not easy to get along with. Why are so many women left without getting married, most of them should have problems with their personalities, or problems with the work they are engaged in, the impact on the human body can be said to be quite beaten, men looking for women to marry are planning to live a lifetime If women have a bad temperament, then men still have to divorce even after marriage.

Third, too picky. A common problem of elderly leftover women is that they are too picky, and there are always a lot of problems in life, and men and women who are not good-looking look down on them, and rich men do not look down on such old leftover women, so such women are particularly picky, and there will definitely be a lot of contradictions after marriage in the future.

In the Chinese national culture, starting a family and starting a business is said to be a man on the surface, but it is also a woman in essence!

The most basic unit of society is the family, and a normal family has grandparents, parents, sons and children. Men have been pampered since childhood, and when they grow up, they have no sense of social family responsibility and become leftover men, and on the contrary, women become leftover women! The high-sounding reasons are all entrepreneurship, studying, and no time for personal matters.

The health of older leftover women is worrying. Most leftover women have a certain first love and advocate Western freedom, especially personal private freedom. Physical health in general is generally not very good, especially in terms of female fertility.

Therefore, the maintenance and integrity of the family, the happiness of family life, and the presence or absence of children have a great relationship! Therefore, older leftover women are the first reason for male friends to avoid them, that is, fertility, in the eyes of male friends, the wife is important, whether there is the next generation is more important, and the man with brains is more important to consider the importance of the next generation, on the contrary, smart male friends for the next generation, looking for a wife will not consider the older leftover women, the age advantage has nothing to do with the older leftover women, these smart male friends are the part of the comparative advantage of very few good men!

This has something to do with regional culture and the degree of development of the city, women in big cities generally get married late or even don't get married, and their own education level also has a certain relationship, only women in remote rural areas or older women in 34th-tier cities either have physical problems or psychological problems, or they feel that they are particularly good, and they feel that no one in the world can match me. If you have a bad mentality, your heart is higher than the sky, your life is thinner than paper, and you don't have a clear understanding, who can marry you?

Older leftover women are really not suitable to be wives who only elevate themselves by belittling women, men with low self-esteem will only comfort themselves by insulting women, and the three high leftover women can wait until they are 50 years old to marry a man who has achieved fame and is directly promoted to be a grandmother, can a man who has achieved nothing wait for a woman to choose himself in this life?

Not necessarily, some women are dragged into leftover women when they encounter scumbags. There are many leftover women now, and not all of them are bad. There are still good ones.

The reason is that older leftover women have low plasticity and low potential, and the maintenance cost is particularly high.

It really doesn't fit. Although it is not suitable to be a wife, it is still in demand, and even serves as a grandmother after entering the door.

Because why don't excellent men marry young and beautiful, and they can't afford to marry young and beautiful men, and they can't look down on leftover women.

The few remaining ones are really too good to find a suitable one, but the vast majority are not too good, and the so-called busy academic work is a complete excuse. When he was young, he was desperate and self-righteous, and when he woke up, he was too picky, and he always felt that he was not as good as the man he used to play with.

This is the society's care for older youth, and the leftover women scream loudly until they can't be called.

Introduction: In fact, it is not that older leftover women in life cannot be married, because these women will be more cautious when considering marriage, so it is actually more difficult to get the attention of these women, and these women generally have better conditions and higher requirements, and then in the process of getting along with men, they will pay more attention to the three views between the two, plus some women actually have a certain fear of marriage, or they will have too idealistic imagination about marriage. Therefore, it is very difficult to marry yourself, but for men, it is advisable to have older leftover women, as long as they can be treated sincerely, I believe that two people can be together.

Why are boys reluctant to marry older leftover girls?

With the acceleration of the pace of life, many women will be busy with their careers, so it is easy to cause a lot of women to appear older leftover women, and they also know that once they are crowned with the label of older leftover women, it will be difficult to marry, which is also because many men will think that older leftover women are more picky, so that some men will think that they want to take some younger girls, you must know that many boys' eyes are somewhat prejudiced against older leftover women. In addition, some older leftover women will pay more attention to the reality of the situation, and they will not believe too much in love, but from the perspective of men, they will hope that a relationship can develop with them, so it is easy to cause disagreement.

The current situation of the life of older leftover women.

The living status of many older leftover women is currently in a state of living alone, and many times they actually have boyfriends, but in their eyes, cohabitation does not mean marriage, as long as they are not married, they are single, so women will pay more attention to the pursuit of love for men, but this kind of honesty is also unacceptable to many men.

In the end, in fact, whether the marriage is happy or not is not directly related to age, many times for marriage is to see whether the two people are suitable, you must know that older leftover women do not mean that they are not excellent and cannot marry, but they are too good to cause them to be unable to find their favorite object in this society, but marriage is completely up to the individual.

Of course, you can marry, first, you must have enough property, second, you must be tall enough, third, you must have a handsome enough face, fourth, you must be considerate enough, and fifth, you must be able to tolerate, understand, understand her, and love her. To do these points, work harder, and marry an older leftover girl is not too much of a problem.

It is possible to marry an older leftover girl, but you have to understand why she is left.

Unilaterally, older leftover women will be more anxious, some people say that a woman's ** period is between 20-30 years old, as time goes by, they are no longer young, easy to get old, that some women will say: we can buy cosmetics, maintenance, maintenance is very good, it is with money to smash out.

Girls like this are not easy for ordinary men to control, because they have a big vision, and they look forward to their prince charming.

can't marry, because older leftover girls have generally suffered huge emotional trauma, and there may be some flaws in their personalities.

OK. These girls have independent thoughts, and they are also very loyal to their feelings, and they can be married.

It is recommended or not, both physically and mentally are not good, and there is no comparison with young girls at all.

Most of the older leftover women have no problem in the Ming Hall, and some of them do shout hypocritically.

1.Worried that older girls are emotionally rich and difficult to accept in their hearts Many times, men have their own concerns and don't want their future half of their feelings to be too rich. Many men looking for a wife hope to find a relatively simple girl, this girl does not have too much emotional burden, and it is easier to have feelings for themselves after marriage.

No matter how old a man is, he will have such concerns, and older leftover men are no exception. Many times, older leftover men will think that girls are so old that they must have experienced a lot of feelings, and their emotional experience must be very rich, and it is easy to compare them with their past boyfriends after marriage. Older girls experience so many feelings, and they will not be as dedicated to feelings as little girls, and men want to find a woman who loves them no matter how old they are.

2.I am worried that older girls have extreme personalities and it is not easy to get along with them, and many times older leftover men will think that older girls must have experienced a lot of feelings, and these feelings are failures many times. Women may have met men who live up to themselves, and in the emotional setbacks again and again, the woman's personality will become extreme, and she does not have much tolerance for feelings, and it is not easy to get along with her married life.

In fact, in real life, many older girls have very good personalities and get along well, but the inherent concepts are difficult to change. 3.Worried that older girls are older and have risks in childbirth No matter how the times change, there is one thing that men value very much in marriage, that is, they hope that their bloodline will be continued and they will have their own children.

Most men will think about having children after marriage. Older leftover men often have a stronger sense of urgency, and will consider the girl's physical condition when considering marriage. Most of the older leftover men will think that the older the girl is, it will have a certain impact on childbearing, although with the improvement of living standards, this risk is getting smaller and smaller, but many men are reluctant to try.

They prefer younger, more fertile girls when choosing partners, especially men with better conditions.

Why are older leftover women reluctant to marry? The man said these big truths, don't understand.

1. In general, the "leftover women" have been on the battlefield for a long time, and men who are not good enough cannot enter their "magic eyes" at all. If she eventually "marries" because of her age, the man is worried that there will be various psychological imbalances and various "princess diseases" after marriage. The reluctantly accepted marriage is full of contradictions and is difficult to last.

There are many examples of this.

2. Older leftover women generally have a high self-evaluation, with a strong personality (picky) and a lack of gentleness (tolerance). They may be "heroes" among women, but they may not be virtuous wives. But most men prefer the latter.

3. After the baptism of time, older women pay more attention to reality and no longer believe too much in love. There is nothing wrong with this in itself, but there are many men who want to have a relationship that can accompany them in their entrepreneurial struggle. Obviously, the leftover women are not among them.

4. It is undeniable that long-term singleness and "unhappiness" in marriage have caused the leftover women to be "independent and self-centered" in psychology and life, which makes it difficult for them to accept another way of life and thinking. It is very easy to have conflicts with a husband with a strong personality in married life.

5. Older young women generally have many "stories", and it is normal to have many stories, and the key is whether men can accept it. And for people with a lot of stories, will her suspicion be heavier? This worry is unnecessary.

6. Fertility problems.

Although it is not a critical issue, it is indeed a big deal for child raising education. Some men may value it more.