Broke up with his boyfriend, and he said that he could actually be friends?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, no matter who said it first, the key is that you said that your boyfriend agrees or not, and you wrote above that he agrees to be a friend, which proves that he already has the heart to break up with you, otherwise most people say that if they still love you, they will be redeemed, and they will not immediately say that they will be friends and have time to play together, which proves that they don't want to be with you anymore.

    You can still be friends after a breakup, and only in this case can both parties feel that it is better to be friends, then you can be friends.

    After a breakup, one party still thinks about the other, can't be friends, and finally is a stranger, this is a certainty, think about it yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The person who can easily say the breakup shows that he no longer has the patience to manage this relationship and cherish this relationship. He may be bored, tired, or unable to bear it, and if you really want to be with him and he wants to give up, the advice is to stop there, not even friends. If you've ever thought of letting go and think it's more appropriate to be friends, break up and continue to be friends.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What have you done to him to make him so tired? Reflect on it! Maybe there are places that you think are nothing but he attaches great importance to them?

    If you cherish this feeling, you must find the problem! Otherwise, you will never find someone who can accompany you for the rest of your life! The simple truth is that the problem is still there, even if you change one, it doesn't mean that the problem is solved!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He meant to break up. Although you said it first, he had been preparing for this for a long time, so as soon as you said it, he agreed directly. There's nothing wrong with breaking up, two people are barely happy together, it's not really happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He may also want that ambiguous feeling, since it is not suitable, why should he be friends again, he can play together when he has time, cut and tidy up, and don't delay each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you can be friends, it means that he has never loved you, forget about him, how can someone who has loved deeply be a friend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Give everyone more time People in love are more or less immature, and time is the only way to test the love between the two of you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After breaking up, you can become ordinary friends with each other directly, and you definitely don't love each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How old are you? What does it mean to be able to play together when you are free? It is an extremely irresponsible attitude that both sexes can play together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    He's very tactfully telling you to break up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hehe, forget it. Personally, I think that your boyfriend said this means that he has put you down, whether to be friends or not, and to be like no one in the future? How embarrassing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, through the description and analysis, you shouldn't be friends after breaking up, it doesn't make any sense, but it adds to the trouble. Since you break up, I don't think there is any point in getting along from the perspective of friends, because two people have had feelings before even if they break up, it takes a long time to forget a person, so if you break up and still be friends, then how can you let go of each other in your heart, you will feel very embarrassed to get along as friends, it is better to break up, then break up completely without contact, do not bother, this may be the best result for you. Give each other space to calm down and accept new feelings.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't be fooled! He thought it so beautifully! He doesn't think of it as a marriage partner, but he doesn't want to lose you, a hot bun friend!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Everyone's breakup situation is different, there will be a certain reason for the breakup, which will cause two people to break up, some people can break up irreparably, but some feelings break up and leave regrets, but there is no way to get back together, I am like many young people now, the reason why I broke up with my ex in the first place, is mainly because the two of us chose to develop in different cities after graduating from college, and in the face of the test of long-distance relationship, neither of us could withstand it, and finally broke up because of this, I personally don't think there are any regrets between me and my ex, I won't choose to get back together after the breakup, the reason why I say this is not because I'm a relatively indifferent person in terms of feelings, the main thing is that I will realize that since the two and Ruchun people belong to the kind of career stronger, they are eager to make their careers successful and breakthroughs, so naturally, no one will take the initiative to give in emotionally, they are the same as the other party accommodating themselves, and the two people are developing in different cities, So in this case, the inevitable result of two people choosing to break up, even after we break up, we will still keep in touch with each other, we still belong to ordinary friends, but both of us are clearly aware that we are no longer suitable for each other, we are impossible to reunite as a couple, and now both of us have our own family responsibilities, so now the contact and contact between the two of us is basically interrupted, after all, we are all adults, For their own life and emotional aspects should be more rational, let the past let him pass, each of us must face the future life! Good luck and good work!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    To put it bluntly, he's either a scumbag or you don't like it enough when you're together.

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