Does he love me? Or is you in love with your ex girlfriend? What should I do?

In the absence of any evidence, don't impulsively say that you want a divorce. And you have a baby, so you can't mess around.

Even judging by the worst-case scenario, he really loves his ex-girlfriend, so what? Are you divorcing him because of this? And I can guarantee that you are not willing to divorce at all.

Human emotions are complex. When people are sick, or in their current thoughts, they suddenly remember the person they once loved, and they may have regrets, and it is normal to want to see the person they once owed to.

Not every woman can endure such a situation so generously. If you're not married, you might be able to make a big fuss. But you're married, and you should be calm in that case.

I don't encourage people to get divorced, and even if there are problems in the marriage, communicate and solve them, rather than solving them with divorce thoughts.

He is married to you, and he has a duty and love for you. You don't question that. He's supposed to be okay with you, too?

Now you're just wondering if he still has her in his heart, and even loves her, right?

No woman can endure such a tormented feeling of tormenting her thoughts. You can't understand clearly for a day, you can't live your life with peace of mind for a day, as long as you think about it, your heart will feel uncomfortable.

I think the most important thing for you at the moment is to communicate well with your husband. Don't make a fuss, don't show your dissatisfaction. Just tell him about your uneasiness. I think only he can untie this knot in your heart.

Eight years ......Well, it's long.

Everyone thinks differently.

If it were me, I might let it go.

Even all the good things that were before.

I think cherishing the people in front of you is more important than anything else.

He may not understand it yet ...

Sister, I don't know how, but I just want to tell you that if you love him, try your best to keep him!

However, after 8 years of marriage, he still loves his former girlfriend, I think he is very sorry for you, if it were me, I would divorce!

Judging from your description, your husband is a very kind-hearted person, I don't know why he gave up his ex-girlfriend and married you, but I think since he finally chose you, it means that he is ready to be with you for the rest of his life, indicating that he loves you, maybe the former feelings make him unable to let go, for the person he once loved, I hope she has a good life and happiness is a normal psychology, what you need to do is to relax your mind, as if you don't know anything, you have to treat him well, Let him understand how much you love him, how much you cherish this relationship between you, look for my analysis, your husband misses his former girlfriend more because of pity, not because he can't forget love, you are a happy person, because you are married and live with the person you love, so you should cherish your happiness more, don't give it away or give it up lightly, that will only make you and your husband miserable, I believe he loves you very much!

I say. If one day you fall in love with someone else. I would say. Tired to go home. Tired of going home. But. I won't be in the house anymore.

Everyone's first love is the most unforgettable, maybe your husband is not in love with her, but misses her The best thing you can do now is to take care of your husband and then go with your husband to meet her Or talk to your husband and talk to him directly to understand your feelings After all, you are a husband and wife for 8 years.

Why don't you tell your husband what you think!

It's been 8 years, it's too long, I can't give it up, but when I think of my husband having someone else in my heart, I get angry, do you love him very much? If you can't give up, give him a chance, find a chance to talk, and see if it's necessary to continue. Right?

Don't be sad, maybe it's a test of your marriage?

Love is selfish, since the ex is unwilling to part with his current girlfriend, justDon't take your ex's word for it, and don't contact again. People who are inconsistent in their words and deeds cannot be trusted.

The predecessor was inconsistent in his words and deeds, and he was not credible <>

Now that he has broken up with his ex and he already has a current girlfriend, there is no need to start over. My ex said that he loved me, but he didn't want to break up with the current one, his love was fake, so I had to see the truth and couldn't intervene in other people's feelings, which would make me very passive, and I wouldn't deal with my ex anymore. My ex's words and deeds are inconsistent, and he says that he loves me, but he is unwilling to part with his current girlfriend, which is cheating my feelings, so I want to cut off contact with him.

My ex doesn't want to get back together with me, but he says he loves me, this is the performance of stepping on two boats, and I will not let him continue to cheat on my feelings.

Long-term pain is better than short-term pain, and it does not destroy the emotional <> of others

The other party was reluctant to break up with the current one, but gave me hope, saying that he loved me, and he didn't want to give up on anyone, but gave me pain. Knowing that this relationship has no results, the feelings of the three people are entangled together, and in the end it is still me who suffers, because I intervened in their feelings, so the long pain is better than the short pain. After thinking about it, I finally explained my thoughts to my ex, because I didn't have a boyfriend, so I always loved my ex, if my ex loves him as much as I do, he should give me an answer, if he doesn't want to break up with the current one, then I'll quit, I did it both to fulfill them and to fulfill myself.

My life shouldn't be full of entanglements, the love I want is just and bright, and the love I want can't be built on destroying other people's feelings. Although I had a deep relationship with my ex, it is in the past, so I have to put an end to our relationship and I believe that I will find someone who loves me with all my heart.

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A sweet love must be built on the basis of loving each other, and love is selfish and cannot tolerate a third person. Since I chose him, he also chose me, not to give me hope while he was dating other women.

If he really loves you, he will definitely be separated from the current person, if he just says that he loves you, but he doesn't show it, it means that he is just talking, don't care too much.

The predecessor's words can be said to be doubtful. I love you but don't want to be with you. I don't want to part with the current one, so the love for you seems meaningless, so you should consider letting go.

My ex said that he loved me, but he didn't want to part with his current girlfriend, what should I do? Since he doesn't love and doesn't separate from his current girlfriend, it means that he doesn't really love you, and I can't let go of my current girlfriend for some reason, which means that you don't need to wait for him anymore, there are many good men in the world There is no need to hang him in a tree.

Since he wants to swing left and right between the two of them, you should let him make the final decision himself. You can be with him, but you also want him to be able to put all his emotions into you.

It's about loving you, but it's about loving you now! If he doesn't want to break up, you don't need to waste your youth on him, turn around and leave to find your own happiness.

You don't have to pay attention to your ex. Such a person feels good about himself and wants everyone to revolve around him, but in fact, he loves himself the most.

Your ex says he loves you, but he doesn't want to part with his current girlfriend. This ex of yours is hanging on you.

Reject him and ignore him.

Because this man says he loves you, but he is with his current girlfriend, then it is not worth believing, he just wants to find a spare tire and pedal two boats.

Hello, as the saying goes, a man's mouth, a deceitful ghost. Your ex just says he loves you, but he is actually with his current girlfriend, and he is using his actions to prove to you that he is just talking to you, and you should stay away from him and find a relationship of your own.

Your ex now has a girlfriend, and he confesses to you that he loves you, but he doesn't want to part with his current girlfriend, and you quickly break up with such a man, this is a scumbag, he just wants to cheat on you, and he shouldn't waste any more time with such a person.

The ex said that he loves you but doesn't want to break up with his current girlfriend, you or you should leave by yourself to find your love again, after all, your relationship has become a thing of the past, and if he doesn't break up, it means that he loves his current girlfriend, such a man is too greedy.

Hello! Although the ex said that he loves you, he is unwilling to break up with the current one, it is recommended that this kind of thing be said, just listen to it, don't put it in your heart! If I really love you, I won't break up with the current one!

Your ex said that he loved you, and he didn't want to break up with his current girlfriend, do you believe what he said? He still has to if it's really you, how can he not break up with his ex-girlfriend? He's just procrastinating, and you're even joking with you to hurt your feelings.

Saying that he loves you, but he is unwilling to part with the current one, it means that he still doesn't love enough, such a person is no longer worth your stay, look forward to find happiness that belongs to you.

It shows that your ex is more sensible, although he likes you, but his current one may be more suitable to be his wife and marry him!

I think your ex is a scumbag, he just wants to step on two boats, so you should stay away from this kind of man completely.

That is, it is not true love for you, he just wants to step on two boats, and he is a scumbag.