Psychological cancer After a relationship was easily given up by the other party, I died a miserable

There are a lot of irrational beliefs in your thoughts, and beliefs influence and guide your behavior:

1.It is not easy to face the difficulties in reality and the responsibilities that we have assumed, but it is better to avoid them.

2.A person's past experiences and events often determine his current behavior, and this influence is never changeable.

3.There should be a single answer to every question in life.

It is precisely because of these irrational beliefs that you feel that you have been injured once, and you have to run away from your fear in order not to get hurt again. Because previous injuries make you feel like you're going to be hurt again, previous injuries have been affecting you; You think emotionally, only eternity is right, and there can be no twists and turns in between. Two people who love each other sometimes separate because of reality. Not every couple can be married at the first time.

It is recommended that you take a look at Ellis's "Reasonable Emotions**", which will help you. Correct your wrong ideas, reconstruct your cognition, and you will find that life is different.

I hope mine is helpful to you and I wish you happiness!

I don't think there's anything to be afraid of, you don't have to do much to enrich yourself, there won't be so many things, make yourself a little more attractive, and the premise is that I'm also a woman!

You are like me in the past, and when I see you, I feel like I see myself. Once I was just like you.

I can't accept such pain, and I think how can he treat me like this! But when you think about it, it's nothing.

Hawkers! The most important thing is time, my friend used to tell me that time can make me forget him, I don't believe it, because I really love him, I even give up my life for him, but people always have to grow up.

Yes! I think you should need more time to learn to forget, in fact, you really don't need to be deliberate, and you don't have to escape everything about him, but you have to accept, get closer, let yourself not escape, and after a long time, you will find that in fact, it's nothing, there are many people who have broken up.

There are many people who are more miserable than you, and they are still doing well, and they are still finding something else in their lives.

Half, I'm sure you can too, now you can't accept it, it may be that the time has not yet come, this thing of fate.

Most of the people who are talking about this have experienced it! You have to believe that you are strong, and you will live well alone! Only those who learn to love themselves will be loved!

You don't have to think so much anymore, the main thing you have now is to think that you will live a better life in the future. Instead of being afraid of wolves and tigers, if you do so you will never walk out of the past!

Don't be afraid, go with the flow.

You will always meet someone who will accompany you throughout your life.

Dude (I guess you're a dude).

I have three comments:

1. Everyone has to live if they leave!

2. The road is your own, if you want to be worthy of yourself, why torture yourself?

3. For relationships and marriages, accumulate your own capital first, which is better than anything else; Men should focus on their careers.

All right. My past relationship experiences also made me afraid to let go of love.

Fear of getting hurt.

So, don't love easily.

Give everyone a chance to get to know each other, the scariest thing is that you are in love, but you are very strange.

Okay, take your time.

Make yourself strong first, then be strong, stronger than anything else.

Dude, I'm talking about this, and I'm encouraging you!

Don't overthink it. Actually, every time we are in love. It should not be put into all the feelings. I was in love for the first time.

However, it really didn't put all my feelings into it. Because. I feel insecure.

Learn to lower blood pressure, and it will get better slowly.

You can't be bitten by a snake for ten years at a time, and you can't be afraid of the well rope, and don't give up eating because of choking. If you want to love, don't be afraid of getting hurt, you can't get true love if you wrap your heart in an impenetrable air. Who truly knows how to love has not been hurt ... A person's life is a process of constant setbacks and continuous growth!

Relax and don't force the next relationship, maybe it's coming and you're used to it before you know it, or it's changed.

The country is the world. Big things and little things.

Await. Waiting in the rain.

The figure of a mother in the moonlight.

After I read the article "Gulliver's Travels", I deeply realized that no matter what the situation, it is also dao

Be calm and face it. Inside.

This article mainly talks about Glejung Buddha is an adventurer who loves seafaring, and in the course of his voyages, he has visited many strange places and encountered a series of bizarre things: in Lilliputia, he is a powerful giant; In the kingdom of adults, he became a dwarf pet; In Equestria, he is the humble "Wild Beard".

In real life, we often ignore the need to be calm in any situation. During the summer vacation, I went to the pool and because my earbuds were not tightly covered, I ended up swimming and one earbud fell into the water. When I took off my swimming goggles, I found that my earbuds were missing and I was in a hurry.

I inadvertently thought of the truth in "Gulliver's Travels", so I calmed down and found it.

Gulliver's Travels", you are my favorite fairy tale book.

Gulliver is a ship-accompanying doctor who has traveled to Lilliputia, Adulthood, Flying Island, and Huima. On the way, all kinds of novelties give him many new perspectives on the world.

This kind of is not emotional intelligence at all.

Men like to save face, and the more obvious you say things, the less he will be, rebellious period.

The man finally decides to give up on a relationship, and he does it only after he has really experienced a earth-shaking battle in his heart。Although men always seem to be indifferent, maybe they don't care, in fact, most men are still very delicate in their hearts, they are not good at expressing love, it does not mean that there is no love in their hearts, so the damage in their hearts when they give up their feelings is great.

After most men die for a relationship, they will choose to be the hurter and propose to break up, because they still think about the other party, so that the other party can have a good step; It is painful to give up a relationship, and they need to pay double the discomfort to make themselves the bad guys, so that the whole world thinks that it is their fault that causes the relationship to fail.

In fact, many men are victims in their relationships, just for the other party to feel the discomfort twice, and let the other party become the victim and go further, which is the man's last effort to the former her.

2. Don't let men give up on a relationship easily, the pain they suffer is double

Whenever there is a problem in the relationship, everyone will pile the fault on the man's body, you must know that the pain in the man's heart is indeed impossible to simply say, is it really that they are willing to give up a relationship? Many times they just choose to make such decisions for the sake of each other, and their hearts are at peace after many earth-shaking battles.

When a man really decides to give up a relationship, it means that he is really tired and can't maintain it, and no matter how much love he loves, it can only become a memory.

Men give up their feelings, generally because the hurt in their hearts is too great, and they are helpless.

If a man finally gives up on a relationship, if it's not scum, he must be cornered.

This is the practice of wanting to give up after chasing fruitlessly, and I am disappointed in this relationship.

When a man gives up his feelings, he must have made a very painful choice in his heart!

If a man decides to give up on a relationship, then he will rationally analyze that there is really no need for the relationship to go on.

He gave up and we were all relaxed, oh yes.