Why do you like everyone else s wife or girlfriend?

The wife is someone else's good, and the child is his own.

It's normal to fall in love with someone, and it's a sad thing to fall in love with someone else's wife.

And when you are unfortunate enough to encounter such a slippery situation, the first thing is that you need to suppress your emotions。While there is nothing wrong with love, it is inherently immoral if your love causes harm to others. We may like a lot of people in our lives, but some of them are out of reach, and some of them are within reach.

Usually other wives are unreachable, not because of how far away he is from you, but because your road to expressing love is very thorny. There is no shame in being attracted to a good girl, but if you are attracted to the flower and force you to pluck the flower, you will be condemned by morality.

If you don't suppress your love, you'll put the other person in a dilemma。Usually when you express your affection for a girl, he has nothing more than two attitudes, the first attitude is that he also likes your wide game, but he is now married, if he wants to walk with you, it must be against morality, which is very tangled and tormenting for most girls.

And the second possibility is that he doesn't have a good impression of you, and after you express your love for her, he even wants to avoid you and have a fear of you. I don't think that's what you're trying to achieve by expressing love, so in such a situation, you really can't express your emotions easily.

Some love is to have, some love needs to be let go, and love for other people's wives usually needs to be let go.

There is a saying: live in the moment. There is a sentence in last year's fire:

As for people, you have to look forward, if you keep staring at the past, then you can't live this day. If it is free love, I believe that in most cases, men will marry the woman they love as their wives;Women do not necessarily marry the person they love the most as their wives;Men can work hard for the woman they love the most;Women may not be willing to endure hardships for a long time with the man they love the most. Of course, whether as a man or a woman, since they are together, they should cherish each other and love each other, so that they can be white!

There are a lot of regrets in life, and if you miss it, fate is not enough!The person you once liked liked was also the same as before, since you weren't together, there must be a reason, since you didn't resist it at the time, do you contact it again and hurt it again? Since you missed it, she's not the one you're responsible for.

Your current wife, no matter what the reason for getting married, at least you have the fate of husband and wife, and also have affection, she married you, that is, she entrusted the rest of her life to you, she is your legal wife, and you have the responsibility and obligation to treat her well. She also has a lot of flaws, imperfections, but think about it, the person you like has no flaws? Isn't there any merit for a wife?

We don't find ourselves digging into the horns when we are more serious, just imagine, if you treat your wife like the person you like, what will she be like? The same patience with his wife, she may be better. Every woman doesn't think about making herself a resentful woman, a jealous woman, when these situations arise, have you ever reflected on whether you are doing well, taking care of her feelings, and giving her a sense of security?

The understanding is mutual, and when you treat her well and take care of her, I think she will surprise you too! Generally speaking, the favorite person is not suitable for being a couple, and the most suitable person is right. People also know how to cherish after experiencing loss.