My boyfriend is in a hurry not to beat me, to beat himself...

These are the ways to be coquettish, you're so cute. You said that you and him have strong personalities, which means that after your quarrel, none of you will want to beg each other like on TV, and you are reluctant to engage in romance, although you want to admit your mistakes in your heart. Men really need a woman's tenderness and even tears, a few tears of kindness and sympathy, maybe then the woman will become more tender.

Please women don't show their delicate tightness, this is not the same as cowardice nor good bullying, you should still break out when you should. A woman with a strong personality will always hurt herself.

Or you can choose to be a strong woman. Comfort your boyfriend a little more.

Perhaps, as you said, "because the emotions that have been suppressed for a long time in front of outsiders will generally explode in front of the closest people", he is always a good gentleman in front of people, and he is very likely to encounter something that makes him feel bad at work and life, so he can only vent in front of you. In this regard, you don't have to panic, you can communicate with him when he is in a good mood, ask him about his daily work, some details of getting along with colleagues and friends, let him know that you are always by his side, he is not alone, and the two can discuss difficult things to solve. I believe that in this way, his almost masochistic behavior will get better.

Why do you have to let him beat himself? Give in to each other and believe that this will not happen.

I don't deny that he has a slight tendency to violence, but the good thing is that he can make a clear judgment, I admire his perseverance, but don't go on like this for a long time, you need to adjust, and you are the most effective key to open the door of his heart.

That's .........So do I. He loves you so much that he holds you in the palm of his hand for fear that you will melt.

Men do need comfort, no one understands, you don't comfort him, he has nowhere to vent I'm like him, knock on the wall by myself, and feel better.

He's a good guy, really, you comfort and comfort him more, I'm really anxious to yell at you, you must be afraid, it's scary for an honest person to get angry.

Men want women to coax them. Otherwise, it's better to find a man, and have some fun, just kidding. This kind of man is very fragile psychologically, love him well. Women will make men strive and make men better. See what you do to him.

Too much pressure, or death to save face, life needs to be smooth and harmonious, not at the expense of mental and physical health to strive for so-called success;

Talk to him well, let him relax, and let yourself relax, and you have to make your own decisions about what to say, I think it's better to be gentle.

This is clear that he loves you too much and will not hurt you, you have to cherish him, endure whatever you can, don't let him hurt yourself, remember to love him more.

Usually this is a sign of madness and nowhere to vent, congratulations, he does this, in fact, it is equivalent to indirectly telling you that he loves you very much! Haha

I think he really hurts you. But it feels a little scary. You let him change it. Don't use violence when you're in a hurry. Whether it's someone else or yourself.

I agree with what the upstairs said, he is a bit masochistic like this, you should help him correct this deformed psychology, he loves you, but don't hurt yourself.

He does this, and if you leave him, he will also commit suicide, and you will not leave him. This trick is really fresh.,It's a pity I don't need it.,The people who should go have gone far, far away.。。。

Such a man is too rare, you still hurt him so much, cherish it.

Women are born mothers, and men are born children.

He's a good boy.

Masochistic tendencies, remember to stop her when it happens again, it may lead to other mental illnesses in the long run!

It's so cute, huh!

What else to say, love him well!

When he loses his temper, he hugs him very spiritually!

Self-harm! What a scary man, is this also love?

Masochism This is tormenting you in a change of direction

I hate such men the most

Either ask out loud when you're angry, or just hold it in your heart and digest it for a long time and hit the wall?? What is it?? Do it for you to see?? Bo your sympathy