Isn t it bad for me to do that? Isn t it too bad for me to do this? What to do?

Updated on society 2024-04-08
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Tell him in person and see how he reacts.

    If he accepts you, ignore him, such a caring man is not worth it, see one and love the other. Even if I am with you now, there will be a present you in the future, and you will become another woman now.

    If he rejects you, then forget about him, because there is no need to waste your time on something that is simply impossible, bless him.

    So, no matter what the result is, you should start over, try to reach out to the people around you, and you will find that there are people in this world who are better than him and more worthy of your efforts.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That's just it, I really can't see that it's bad. It's right to like someone.,It's not a big deal to really talk to him.,There's a GF and it's not an LP.。 But you already know that he is not interesting to you, so there is no need to force it, if the other person is good, he will refuse, if he almost stepped on 2 boats or played with you, is it okay?

    It's right to like someone, but it's wrong to have someone respond to your liking.

    If I change it, I don't think about him or stay away from him, and I will forget it after not seeing him for a long time. People have to look forward.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since that's the case, don't think about it.

    Of course, you have to think that he is good enough, he has to be, anyway, they are not married, you go to compete bravely, this is not a third party.

    But don't overdo it, especially the intimacy between the two.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's so stupid...

    If you love it, you love it. If you don't get it, you don't get it.

    You will have the one that belongs to you. The rest is only a matter of time.

    Let it go and make it easier for yourself. Take a step back and open the sky...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think you like him! Like someone, as long as he is happy. But it's good to do that, so that he understands.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should have the courage to say your love, there is nothing wrong with loving him, even if he has her, let him know that you love him, let him choose for himself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why can't you stare at it, the person you love will appear and the person who loves you may be by your side, take pity on the person in front of you! It's time to put it!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I have a friend who is like that, but she is very good friends with him, and he doesn't blame her. I just feel sorry for him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When love is a thing of the past, we can only think of it as a memory.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's just that you're not willing to give up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Classic Motto: Further open the sky

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm sorry, scolding, people's answers won't be seen by you, because they will be checked twice.

    I'll tell you what you should do.

    First of all, you should forget about your ex-boyfriend, I know it's hard, but it can be done, because you must have broken up with your ex-boyfriend now, not even a year, I don't know if I'm right.

    And this time is when you are in the tangled period of breaking up with your ex-boyfriend, and you are in the conflicting period of wanting to find a man who is good to you.

    And the most paradoxical thing is not that you are in the middle, but that you feel that you and the other person will not have a future.

    Then I'm curious, why do you know that you and the other party will not have a future?

    Do you know your ex-boyfriend you can't let go? Sooner or later, you will reconcile with him? Or do you feel that you don't have feelings for that man, and that you are chatting with him purely for selfish reasons, wanting to satisfy your boredom and being cared for?

    If it's the former, you talk to me privately and I'll scold 1 you. If it's the latter, then good, you remember, feelings can be cultivated, if the boy you talk to him, through long-term contact, he is really good to you, then you remember, what looks like height or something is secondary, after the age of 40, which man can be handsome too exaggerated, not all the same.

    Moreover, you are now gradually getting closer to this boy you love to chatter, this is the beginning of love, although you don't want to, but it won't take long for him to completely confess to you, or even forcibly hold your hand, you have to be ready.

    Seriously, I still don't understand that you believe in your sixth sense so much? You can't control chattering with him, how do you know that you can't have a future with him?? How do you know!?

    Are you just obsessed with your ex-boyfriend?? Then why don't you go with an ex-boyfriend? It's fun for you to pit other boys?

    If it's not fun, then socialize with others, chat with others, and you can also compare well, how about this boy, don't think about it if you have broken up, can you reunite after breaking the mirror? If I can be separated from you once, won't there be a second time? If he loves you, will he agree to part with you?

    Why don't you think about it!

    Hey, don't talk about it, I'm done with you first.

    That's all, think about it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Oh, in fact, you understand things very well, but you have to keep a distance when you get along, think about it, if he finds his other half in the future, and no longer listens to you at any time like now, how will you feel in your heart?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't give him hope, you know.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Let it be, maybe this boy is your real destiny.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I hope you forget your boyfriend、If you can't do it, don't give him hope。 Over time, you may like him slowly, and it is impossible to make it clear sooner.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

    Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

    Love is not possession!

    You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

    When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

    The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

    knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

    Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

    When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

    In love, one thing is said and another is done;

    The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

    Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's starting to attack again. You shouldn't be nostalgic for what you lose, and you should learn to cherish what you do, you know?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's not a question of whether it's bad or not, it's that you don't have her in your heart, so you treat her badly.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's not bad, without self-control and perseverance, no one can help you, only you can help you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Many people are like this, undecided, or not persistent enough. Find someone to supervise you, or find a little motivation to learn.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Actually, it's not, since you know it's wrong, of course you can change it. Bless you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    That's how many people are.

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