My son insists on loving his classmates, and my family insists on opposing it, what should we do?

Updated on educate 2024-04-26
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Children in this period are in love, and it is also a rebellious period, especially boys, you can't be too tight, you can't object, otherwise the more they will come in the opposite direction, you just go with the flow, let him not delay learning, just pay attention to the scale, don't deviate, you can guide him Do you really like that girl, if you tell him to study hard, take a good university When the time comes, marry that girl to be your daughter-in-law, although it is against your wishes, but this is the best delaying strategy, I think you will say that it will have a better effect than against it, adolescent children must follow, as long as there are no vices such as fighting and drug abuse, everything else can go with him, if you can be a father at this age in ancient times, hehe... I believe that after a while your son's liking will definitely wane, and time will change a lot of problems.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think love is let him love, he is still too young to get married, and it is not too late to get married in three or four years. Maybe they'll break up in three or four years.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's okay, I'm 18, I'm with my girlfriend all day, just don't do those things, together we can let them work together for the goal, I hope you understand.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This kind of problem is actually very simple, parents are for the good of their children, but parents should also understand their children, children fall in love with the right person, which is rare, as long as the two of them truly love each other, parents should support them and let them go on sweetly!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Proper guidance, go out for a walk on holidays when you have time, don't be overly loose about the economy, adolescent children's concept of favor and love is not clear, or maybe simply pursue a certain aspect of consciousness, don't keep saying that this is not allowed to be like this, the child himself also knows that the rebellious heart at this age is still quite strong. Discuss things at home with your children appropriately, start with small things to communicate, and don't feel that everything has nothing to do with your children. Even if you are going to buy a towel, you can ask the child to go out with you and buy a towel by the way.

    Any decision made by the family will gradually involve the child, and over time, he will understand some subtle responsibilities and begin to become conscious. The key is still parents. Parents themselves are not quiet how to guide their children, some extreme ideas will never work, maybe some things seem to have nothing to do with love or something.

    But when those things turn the child into a mature person, you are afraid that he does not have good self-control

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do you mind a girl or do you mind a girl at her home? What are you unacceptable to the woman? Is there really no room for maneuver acceptance of the woman? The situation you said is too vague, you sort out the order and the points are decided for yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should test to see if this woman likes you.

    If it's a little interesting.

    Just chase it bravely!

    I will succeed, bless you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Dare to love and hate. Love just say it. If you don't dare to say it, don't love it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't confess, I have experience with this kind of thing haha.

    You can confess with your actions to make him feel that you like him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I advise you not to confess, otherwise in the end you will not even become a friend, saying that you are still young, study hard!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you fall in love, you're just a classmate. What else can you do with him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love is love, as long as everyone is happy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it's suitable, let's be together, what should I do?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Absolutely not, not all girls like guys with good grades. You lose to her in grades, but you have to be a little more emotionally than her.

    Of course, there is one exception, and if you have poor grades because you are idle, then she may not be optimistic about you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm the opposite of you, and I'm still failing.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you can give her the love she wants, I don't think she will look down on you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Fainting, what does it have to do with reading a book!

    The problem is that if she likes you too, it's fine.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think it depends on how you are

    And I sometimes think that if she looks down on you for this, she doesn't deserve your love at all.

    Besides, if you are below average now, it doesn't mean that you will always be like this in the future, you can work hard, you can improve!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It shouldn't be that serious, right? If you like her a lot, that. It's a shame to miss it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No, it won't! At least I wouldn't. Ha ha.

    Love is based on feelings, and if she is as good as you say she is, and is really worthy of your love, then she shouldn't care about that. Truly loving someone will contain everything about him! You have to be clear about how you feel, whether you really love her or not.

    If she has feelings for you, then she shouldn't care about them, on the contrary, if she takes your grades seriously, then what reason do you have to love her? Is it the hypocrisy of loving her?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't fall in love! Read well!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Go to school, study hard is the right thing, work in the future, have a career, I'm afraid I won't be able to talk about my daughter-in-law?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No, it won't! No one has any strengths or weaknesses!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you chase her, you will hurt her, can you bear to hurt her?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No, it won't! No one will be so good-for-nothing, there will always be a good side!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I am also a junior high school student

    I think the puppy ones are actually boring, probably just using this as a tool to pass the time and not knowing what we really need.

    It's fruitless, it's better to study hard, to have learning to fill your life!

    Maybe you don't understand it now, but you will understand it when you grow up.

    But it was too late.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I'll tell you that I had crushes on several girls in high school, and I was even more emotionally charged with you than you were at the time!

    But now that I've graduated, I can't see anyone, although I still miss people a little, but my heart is a lot calmer, and now I like a girl in our class again, and I can't sleep at night, often until the early hours of the morning, I'm about to collapse!

    Today's school holiday is close to her home, but my home is far away, I don't know if she will be home, depressed! I'm coming to you!

    Now that you are in high school and have not yet taken the university entrance examination, don't think nonsense, after all, we are still students, and learning is the first priority!

    I deeply understand, especially when the exam is about to begin, that it is not a good feeling to be parting! It's so uncomfortable to die!

    Back to Impact Exams! Often rely on the stove too!

    Now you are going to take the college entrance examination! If she doesn't study well, then you should study hard, study well, teach her, and raise her studies, you will be admitted to the university you agree with, and then you are afraid that she will not be with you, good!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You talk to her first, tell her what you want, and then you study hard until you can surpass her, and focus on your studies first! Then talk about feelings and let you say it because it won't confuse the time and friendship of the two of you @!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Agree upstairs.

    Make it a great memory.

    Some things are more beautiful when they're hazy.

    Besides, you're a student.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Keep silent and keep loving, in your heart.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's hard to get on the age first.

    You'll know when you enter society.

    Everything I wanted at the time now seems so unmoved.

    The older the person.

    The higher the pursuit.

    There are many things to see and many ideas.

    Secondly, the love that happened during the school years.

    Most are obliterated by reality, character, and so on.

    As you age, you'll find out.

    It's not the love you've ever dreamed of.

    Love in school is really fragile.

    Finally, about one going to work and one going to school.

    Two people who can't be consistent.

    It will be different at the level of appreciation, pursuit of understanding.

    Society is complex.

    The campus is comparatively greenhouse.

    The original common language will slowly be erased.

    Tell your classmates.

    Work hard for the college entrance examination first.

    After the exam, consider whether you need to be together.

    There's so much to think about in this day and age.

    Take advantage of your youth to train yourself.

    When I was young, love was like a flash in the pan.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hard work will be there, love needs to be managed. Of course, fate is also needed!

    Hope it works for you!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's man-made.

    Or、It depends on fate。

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's hard to say. There is too much uncertainty about the future.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Hehe, in fact, boys are very sensitive to this, as long as a girl has this meaning next to a boy, he will feel it, but sometimes he doubts his own feelings, and he doesn't dare to act ......There is another reason that he has someone he likes......A loved one, have you ever known it?

    In fact, it is really too difficult to ask a girl to confess to a boy, I think you should not do it, if there is a feeling between the two of you that the boy will act naturally, you believe me, hehe......Good luck!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's really together every day, and you can be sure that you or he can really maintain the relationship, so you choose to confess. If the relationship is broken up and we see each other every day, life will be very difficult.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Don't think about it! Do you want to fall in love? After a few years, if you don't get together, you will be estranged, and if you are estranged, the relationship will fade away.

    I don't want to be more sad in a few years than now, so I keep my distance from him now, break off my feelings, and try not to think about her. Anyway, I'm good with her now, and it's impossible to get married in the future. You can also choose the former.

    Think for yourself.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You're trying to date this girl! I still want to do better in my studies! Please add your question!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Don't fall in love, it's right to study hard, if you love him, wait until you have enough capital and enough ability to propose to her when you come back.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I'm a student, and I'm in love with a girl who is in the same class as me, and her grades have always been excellent, because you talk to her first, tell her what you want, and then you study hard until you can surpass her, first.

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