Tangled, how? How can I not get tangled?

Awesome, since you always think about him, silently bless him, love is not to get, but to bless, for the sake of the other party's happiness is better than to get, that is true love, if you really miss him, you can ask him to be a friend, since you are a friend, who the other party is looking for has nothing to do with you, hehe, relax your heart, you miss him is nothing more than getting used to him, anyone who is used to any person will miss each other, will want to get each other, but, there is another sentence, In this world, only oneself is one's own protagonist, everyone else is a supporting role, they are all passers-by A and passer-by B, anyone can live without anyone, and the only thing that cannot be lost is oneself.

Whatever you want, depending on the mood. When you meet someone who is good to you, you should be together, don't be stupid and wait for the person you love to give you a chance, those are all clouds in the sky, you can see it, you can't touch it. As long as you have a positive attitude, it doesn't matter, as for the number, whether to stay or not depends on your heart.

Don't let your heart be too tired, it's over, not to mention that he has a girlfriend in the middle, why are you so persistent, people are a single individual, no one must rely on anyone, do you know what he thinks? Did you know that he still has feelings for you? How can he have a girlfriend in the middle of him if he still has feelings for you???

Look at the open point ... Think for yourself, is it worth it???

You can chase her as a woman, but you can't lose yourself, you can't accommodate him because you like him, and if he really loves you, he will reconcile with you. If there is no decisive abandonment.

What you are reluctant to do is just the past, people will change, the day he left you is no longer the same person who was with you before, so live a good life now, treat him as a very ordinary friend, give yourself space, find a real half of your own, don't lose your self-confidence and your pride, come on.

I advise you not to, if this man has no feelings for you, you'd better not be too stubborn with him, it won't be good for the woman at all.

Think too much, do what you have to do, and you will naturally meet the right one. Since you lose it, you don't belong to yourself.

It is better for the man to take the initiative for these people who live in real life . Don't believe in miracles.

Don't try to change others, it's better to learn to change yourself...

Seize the future 、、、 don't get caught up in the past.

It's not interesting to go back and eat grass.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

A lot of times, cranky thinking happens because there's nothing to do. Or if you are too concerned or anxious about something, the most effective way to solve the anxiety is to take action and develop a business hobby and skills. Or go do something that interests you.

In short, if you make yourself happy, you will stop thinking cranky.

First, take a deep breath and then change your position: if you are sitting or lying down, stand up and walk around; Second, find someone to talk to, it's okay to talk about anything, just don't talk about what you're thinking; Third, daydream about the thing you're thinking about, and assume what I have.

People will only worry about the people or things they care about, and if they don't want to be entangled, they need to think about it a little, and they have tried their best to do many things, but they can't change the facts, and no matter how entangled they are, they will only embarrass themselves. So, after opening your mind and doing your best, just wait patiently for the result, even if it is not satisfactory, you don't need to deliberately force it, just let it be.

There will always be bread and milk, but 8 bread is hairy, and milk is rancid. There will always be love, only 8 times love may not be sweet, it may also be bitter, heartbreaking...

Summary. Hello Doing things is always entangled, you are a kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder, for a certain thing to be too strong to target, in ordinary times must learn to relax and relieve stress, go to outdoor activities more, communicate with others more, to make yourself relaxed and happy.

Hello doing things is always tangled, you belong to a kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder, for a certain thing to be too strong to go to the needle, in ordinary times must learn to relax and relieve stress, go to outdoor activities more, communicate with others more, to make yourself easy and happy.

Hello, do things tangled, you can.

1. Establish self-confidenceYou don't believe in your own feelings, because you have ignored your inner feelings or heart-to-heart voice for a long time, you are easy to be shaken by external influences, take more time to understand yourself, get along with yourself more, cultivate love and trust and appreciation for yourself, and make yourself independent, why do you develop the habit of entanglement? It is because of the lack of the ability to make decisions, and the more you lack the ability to make decisions, the more you must practice making decisions independently and being your own leader. Second, recognizing the situation says that everything depends on the situation, and the entanglement also needs to choose an appropriate time.

We must allow the existence of tangled psychology, and contradiction is the fuse of tangled, which has advantages and disadvantages. The advantage of blind refueling is that when you encounter special circumstances and have to make a decision, you can avoid this choice, anyway, you are also very entangled, so let others make the decision. The downside is that when it comes to making a choice, your struggles may make you lose some opportunities, or otherwise, and may even make you late, etc.

Therefore, it is difficult to recognize the situation.

3. The reason why improving decisiveness is entangled is because a person lacks decisiveness, and the way to cultivate decisiveness can be to exercise oneself more in the moment of entanglement, understand one's own needs, and choose the best. Learning to give up and dare to give up is an important way to develop decisiveness. You can give up one of the two things you like, don't regret or regret the one you didn't choose, think, not only did I get a thing I liked, but I also saved time to do more things, and I didn't struggle with it this time!

Fourth, learn to think in anticipation of events, and think in advance when you are free, so that when it comes to choosing, you can not waste time. And sometimes your entanglement is contagious, and your companion gets caught up in it with you. Therefore, it is best to think about the choices in advance, and it is best to avoid getting entangled in psychology.

In short, think about what is best for you and what is most useful for you.

We have a lot of struggles, such as whether to change jobs, whether to break up or get divorced, and so on. We often struggle with these issues repeatedly, knowing that the entanglement is not good, but there is no way not to think about it, our thinking will often force ourselves to make an either/or choice, so we are always restless, and our mood will be greatly affected.

So how can you do it without getting tangled?

First, if you make a choice to maintain your current status, such as not changing jobs, not breaking up, or not getting divorced. Then you should ask yourself: what is the root cause of this problem?

What do you need me to do right away? When you think deeply about the solution to the problem, all that remains is to act immediately, and you don't have time to dwell on it at all.

Secondly, when you take action but there is no good change or meet your expectations, then you should choose to leave with a peaceful attitude, such as leaving your current job, breaking up or divorcing, and you must move forward bravely and do not suffer from gains and losses. Just like in the college entrance examination, at that time, we always felt that there should be nothing more important in life than this exam. When we get married, we think that everyone in the world is divorced, and we don't break up.

Later, after walking more roads, I found that among the most important things in life, there is only one exam or a marriage contract. There are endless possibilities, and no person, job, or opportunity is truly important and irreplaceable. Relaxed mentality, not nostalgic for the past, courageously moving forward, the future can be expected.

Finally, you can also try to jump out of the limitations of this question, why do you have to choose yes or no, there is no other choice? Why bother with this, is there anything I can do?

Therefore, when you are struggling, you should think like this, and then act immediately to get yourself moving, instead of leaving time for yourself to sink into the tangle endlessly!