I m making trouble again, what should I do?

Your joke is indeed a bit rude, how can you speak in such a tone to your father, if it is me, will I be angry, this may also be related to the fact that your father and son usually talk regardless of size, and you must be called the most appropriate to speak to the elders, you see that your first message was sent, with "How are you." No one can tell if you are father and son or father and daughter. Let others look like the words of your peers, be humble to your father, don't make your father angry, it's not that you shouldn't say that your father is wrong, but you must be polite when you speak, and you must respect your father.

You're the best bond between your parents, and it's not a big deal, and it's not a big deal that your parents have emotional problems, so I think you can do this kind of thing. First of all, you have to not reject your father, but also help your mother to accept him. For example, you can buy a small gift for your mother, say that your father bought it, you can buy a dress for your father, say that your mother likes it, you can also prepare a romantic dinner for them on their wedding anniversary or their birthday, when your parents quarrel and are upset, you can't follow the coaxing, now the biggest problem is that your mother can't accept your father's drinking, and you have to do this job. The warmth of home, after a long time, he feels that his wife and children love him so much, he won't let him go out, of course, it takes time.

Calm your mind and read more. Let the heart be as calm as water. As wide as the sea.

The joke is really too big, apologize.

Don't worry, you are born to be a father and will not be really angry with your daughter, the relationship between a father and her daughter is closer than that between a mother and her daughter. As long as you coax him into something nice, I think that's enough. In the future, when I have the right time, I will persuade him well, and I think he still likes to listen to it and will change it.

Remember that he wasn't really angry with you, just making excuses that you need to care about him. Hehe, it's going to be fine!

Your dad is drunk again. To be honest, it doesn't feel like a very good father.

Communication is a bridge between people, don't think everything so badly, communicate well.

Unreasonable people are still justified, mainly because his three views have been wrong, self-righteous, I have seen a lot of vexatious people rent sparrows, sell bi so how to deal with vexatious people.

1. Control yourself, when the other party is difficult for you, the first reaction can not be to fight right away, because this is often a mild person will be at a disadvantage, since the other party is prepared, you are sudden.

and defense, first of all, lose in momentum. At this time, you should control yourself and avoid getting angry, if you get angry at this time, you will make yourself look very bad, and it is not easy to win people's hearts.

2. Respond calmly, carefully analyze the starting point of the other party's behavior, whether there are loopholes in the words, if there are obvious loopholes, then after speaking, just point out this point, get to the point, and don't give any chance to justify, because since it is an unreasonable person, then it will definitely come up with crooked ideas immediately, and if you don't give a chance to justify, it will definitely make you very depressed.

3. Lay a good foundation for the masses, if you can no longer point out the flaws at that time, then you must learn to win people's hearts, and the friends around you will not have opinions on you.

4. Take the initiative, find the opportunity to take the initiative to attack, don't be soft-hearted at this time, be tough when you should be tough, remember, be kind to others, there will be no half of gratitude. In addition, in front of the leader, we must learn to "be a low-key person and do things in a high-profile manner", and behave when it is time to perform, and not being proactive is a sign of weakness.

5. Know how to protect yourself.

1. Low-key: For powerful people, being low-key can better protect themselves, and being high-profile will only attract some people with bad intentions.

2. Principled: For people who do not have the strength for the time being, everything can be principled.

You will be oppressed by others. If you are unprincipled and have no bottom line, you will only become a bad person.

3. Trust your own judgment: see more and think more, and have your own medium-sized judgment, rather than listening to what others say and doing it.

4. Learn some specialties to support yourself: When people live in this world, they must always be warm, fed, and stable, so they must have skills to support themselves in living in this world.

5. Learn some legal knowledge: When you encounter some bad things, you must learn to use the law to protect yourself, so as not to hurt yourself, learn more and think more: the times are progressing, the society is progressing, and only by constantly learning and thinking can you keep up with the progress of the times and society.

Yesterday afternoon, I took my baby to the fruit supermarket because he finished eating his favorite apples. After buying apples and bananas, I pulled him to the outside of the supermarket, and he said, "I haven't bought Tiantianquan yet, I haven't bought small snacks yet."

I am very reluctant to buy snacks for him, because after buying snacks, the child basically does not eat, the doughnut is too sweet, the cold is not completely healed during this time, and there is a little cough, nasal discharge and phlegm. I've been persuading him not to buy it yet, and we'll buy it when you're sick.

Out of the supermarket, his mood was not good, he began to make trouble, don't go home, and shouted "I don't want to go home" at the door of the community. I persuaded for a while, and finally followed me into the community, and then began to cry and chirp as I walked, "I haven't bought donuts yet, when can I buy donuts?"

At this time, my patience was almost exhausted, but I still patiently told him that he could buy it when he was sick, and that he would definitely buy him donuts at that time.

After entering the community, the two of us went to the rookie post station again, because the child's father bought two couriers, but I didn't expect it to be two large packages, originally the fruit was bought, and it was very difficult to go upstairs with two large packages, and the child was making noise to go to the non-staple food supermarket, well, I compromised. He took three more bags of sausages and one apple juice. When I was about to go out, I started to shout and argue again, which meant that he hadn't bought potato chips yet and wanted to eat potato chips, so I ignored him and walked straight out of the grocery supermarket.

He cried and went out with me, and I told him to wait until he was sick and stopped coughing before buying chips, and he kept crying. I opened the unit door and he didn't want to come in, I told him I would close the door if I didn't come in, but luckily, he came in with him. In the hallway, he wanted me to hug me, "Mom, I'm tired from walking upstairs, and I didn't even buy donuts and potato chips."

It's just crying all the time. At this time, I was already very impatient, I didn't listen to what I said, I didn't want to beat and scold, I was also very angry, we were in a stalemate in the corridor for more than ten minutes, and finally, when his mood was almost calm, we went upstairs.

When he got home, he was asked to wash his hands and disinfect them, and he started again, insisting on not washing his hands, and then those few words, those few things. I ignored him and went to the bedroom by myself, and he started chasing me and crying again, which was really annoying.

When the child is unreasonable, the kind words and persuasion have been used, and the cold treatment has also been used, but they can't be solved. What should be done to effectively stop children's vexatious trouble?

Hello friend. In everyday life, it is common for arguments to arise due to verbal disagreement. Some of them will be vexatious and give people the impression of being justified.

There are many reasons why this is the case. The main reasons include that unreasonable people need to prove themselves by raising their voices, unreasonable people will feel weak so they will speak loudly, and unreasonable people will be honest and upright because they are wrong

Unreasonable people need to prove themselves by raising their voices when arguing with others. As the saying goes, reason is not loud . When there is a discussion between people, as long as the reasonable person says his reasoning, the other party will be speechless.

Second, for unreasonable people, in order to prove themselves when arguing with others, they often use a higher voice to prove themselves, so as to appear that the reason is on their side. But such an approach is futile, and a discerning person can see at a glance.

Unreasonable people are actually very weak-minded, so they will raise their voices and quibble. When two people debate on a certain topic, for the reasonable party, their hearts will be very steady, and their speech and behavior will be very rational, while for the unreasonable party, in fact, their own hearts are very empty, so they will prove their reasons by arguing loudly, but the result of this can only make everyone see their mistakes more fully.

In order to cover up their own mistakes, unreasonable people will make unreasonable troubles to prove that they are justified. When we discuss problems, we often mention the word "reasonable" when a person is reasonable, he will be more confident, and when discussing problems with others, he will be calm and more imposing. It's called justification

For unreasonable people, they know that they are wrong, but they refuse to admit their mistakes, so they can only make trouble unreasonably to prove their justification. But doing so can only give the impression of being unreasonable and cunning, making their defeat even more complete.