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Parents are like this, they have no malicious intentions, and they are not targeting you as a person, but they really hope that their daughter will not suffer, so you don't blame them.
You just need to let your girlfriend hold on, parents can't help their children in this matter, like your girlfriend, you have to hold on, you don't want to marry. How can she still go on a blind date, isn't this the hope of his parents?
You have nothing to do for the New Year, buy something to send to his house, and the other thing is to work hard and treat her well. Over time, they will soften.
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Let's elope, continue to mortgage the house, rent it out, collect part of the fee, and then the two of them go to work in the field together, and wait for her family to slowly accept it before proposing marriage. When the child is older, the heart can't be controlled.
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Jean's girlfriend loves you with all her heart and doesn't want to be separated from you, so her parents have her own to deal with, and everything is not a problem. At the same time, you should also make yourself excellent in all aspects as soon as possible, and I believe that they will accept you.
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Then you have to do it! gave her a happy life, and naturally her parents were no longer holding on to ......Parents on the girl's side naturally want their daughter to do well, and there are some worries ......
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Persistence is victory. Sooner or later, she will be moved, don't be disgusted with her parents.
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It is a common cultural difference that parents cannot accept that their children do not marry, and the following methods can be taken to understand that in this situation:
Respect each other's perspectives. Understand and respect your parents' perspectives and cultural backgrounds, while also letting them know their own views and values. Pay attention to the tone and expression in communication, and avoid attacking and blaming each other.
Give time and space. It takes time for parents to adjust and accept their children's decisions, so give them plenty of time and space. In this process, parents can gradually understand the reasons and meanings behind their decisions through multiple exchanges and communications.
Share your life with your family. Sharing your life, work, and hobbies with your parents to keep them informed about your life and goals can help build a more open and trusting family atmosphere.
Find meaning in life beyond marriage. Although parents may think that a balanced marriage is an important step in life, there are many other meaningful things ahead of life, such as career, travel, volunteer work, and so on. Share your life goals and plans with your parents so they can see that you are still happy and meaningful.
In general, communication with parents requires patience and understanding, following the principles of mutual respect and tolerance. Giving parents time and space to share their lives and find other meanings in life can help parents better understand and accept their children's decisions.
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If your parents don't agree, don't do it, let alone think about it, because you'll regret it. Parents are well-intentioned.
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Think a little bit more.
a Adults have something to do. More than children. You said a word to her. You can remember it, but parents don't necessarily remember it.
b I estimate that the main purpose of your is to make you learn to be self-reliant. Because you spend your own money to know how to save.
c. Utilities at home are not a small expense. I found out until I was living with my girlfriend.
The photoelectric fee sometimes costs four or five hundred. So it can be saved or saved.
d still need to understand each other. Let your mom feel your feelings. For example, you promised her something. Didn't. What to do..
You still have financial assistance now. Have you ever wondered later if you were in the field. I'm getting older, too. Live alone. What should I do if I run out of money? Do you still care about the parents?? I don't feel at ease if I want money like this.
I didn't have much communication with parents in the past. The generation gap is too big. I simply don't communicate.
I'm older now. I know the difficulties of being a parent. ~
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It's not easy for parents, they are arguing with you for the sake of their children. Think more about them! At the same time, try to win their understanding.
You should sit down and have a good talk, tell him what you want to say, and clarify your ideas to each other. If he feels that he is not able to speak, he can ask his parents or his friends to persuade him to correct it. I feel that women are very practical now, and they don't like men who spend money lavishly, because in the future, considering that they can't save money after getting married, they are not very comfortable living a very tight day every day, and they think about spending money in useless places, which is called living. >>>More
You just say that you have a chance to ask her to bring her boyfriend out to dinner together! Or you don't get discouraged and continue to pursue, girls are easily moved to soften. You start with a friend and be nice to her, take your time, it's better to let it be!
She shouldn't have taken your feelings seriously at all, otherwise it wouldn't be like this, this kind of person who is very casual about feelings is good to break up early, and bravely talk about the problem and his own thoughts. At the very least, I can honestly say that I dumped her, and that feeling would be better. Support you!
There is a play, as long as you do it with your heart, I believe you will have a harvest. Bless you
Actually, you don't need to criticize yourself like this! Who doesn't have a few shortcomings!! You can't just stare at the shortcomings. Hehe. >>>More