I want to break up with her, how do I say that? My heart aches

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    She shouldn't have taken your feelings seriously at all, otherwise it wouldn't be like this, this kind of person who is very casual about feelings is good to break up early, and bravely talk about the problem and his own thoughts. At the very least, I can honestly say that I dumped her, and that feeling would be better. Support you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She's done that to you... You just say it.

    You say I won't stop your happiness. Let's go

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't regret your decision. All the way forward. There is no way back.

    Stand tall and look far away. You will always see people who are worth cherishing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let's just say let's break up!!

    Or, you make a female name for the QQ password and find an insider.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let's break up.

    Call it a day. Make a good memory.

    Hope you will be happy in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's just say it! Otherwise, you won't dump her for a while, be lukewarm to her, and don't ask anything about her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, you don't need to say anything, you go on with your life and see how she reacts, if she is still lukewarm, then your choice is definitely wise, if she does something else, then make another plan. Buddy, don't grieve yourself. Wishing you happiness!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let's just say that you are not suitable together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    To put it bluntly, she probably won't care about you that much.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You also think too much, he waits for you to say it, but say it, don't say it, the same ending, the two of you can't be together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You just say. You've never had me in your heart. Never cared about me.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let's tell the truth, don't be too hypocritical, if it's not suitable, it's not suitable

    Love is a thing that is difficult to explain clearly. Since you don't feel right in every way, just talk to the other person. According to the description in the title, the two should not have been dating for a long time, and it is not possible to talk about whether it hurts or not.

    I think if you tell the other party the news directly, the other party should be acceptable. After all, in our real life, there are many people who don't like a person, block him directly, and then don't contact him.

    If you find it hard to say, you can do the same, but I think it's a bit too hurtful. It's okay to break up if it's not suitable, but at least it should be said.

    After this period of interaction, I feel that the two of us are not suitable in all aspects, so let's not delay each other. Good luck finding that right person.

    I think this statement should be quite euphemistic, and normal people can accept it. Anyway, that's probably what it means, and you can think for yourself about how to phrase it.

    As long as you want to break up, there are always thousands of reasons to break up。There's no need to cheat others in the end, I think telling him the actual situation is also a sign of respect for this short-lived relationship.

    When I went on a blind date before, I met an inexplicable wonderful person, and the two of them knew each other on a blind date for a while, and then suddenly there was no more.

    At first, I thought something was wrong with the other party, and I asked someone to inquire. Later, I learned that this was a way of refusal. At that time, I really felt very embarrassed and hurtful.

    If you like it, you will pursue it, and if you don't like it, you will break up. No one in this society will force anyone, do what you want to do, say what you want, and life may be better.

    Everyone is full of longing for love, I wish you can find the person you feel is suitable as soon as possible, and happiness will be waiting for you not far away.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. I don't.

    If you want to influence your future again, you can find someone better than me ......I don't want to deceive you and myself anymore, I hope you forgive me! I will bless you forever.

    2. Hope is a tenacious crutch, patience is a travel bag, take them, and you can embark on an eternal journey and travel all over the world.

    3. It's not that I'm scared to leave, I just don't want your love to come to an end because of me! I hope you are happy every day, and you can only choose to leave alone.

    4. The beautiful encounter at the beginning will become an eternal touch in each other's hearts, we are destined to be friends, but we are not destined to be together for a lifetime; You've been to my sky, you've had my footprints in your sky, we're just passing guests to each other, and eventually become each other's stories.

    5. Our fate has been destined from the beginning, maybe stopping like this is the best ending, and each other will not hurt each other, although sometimes they will worry about each other, but this is already destined in the dark.

    When people say "forget it", they are generally depressed, and their voices will not be loud, but they will no longer smile at you, and their faces will obviously become "cold". Maybe his heart is very irritable and he doesn't want to talk to you, but he just bears it silently. Even if you have always been good to him, but he is unwilling to communicate with you, it is "a slap that does not make a sound", you are not a roundworm in his stomach, you can't "pinch your fingers", you know everything.

    When you meet a man who says, "Forget it", you should say, "Forget it, it's not a big deal". Don't really be pitiful and say, "Why, I really like you" and something like that.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you feel that the two of you are really not a good fit, then the long pain is better than the short pain, then put it bluntly. When you say it, you must be sincere, and you must say your own experience and your own feelings. Maybe your boyfriend really won't accept it too much at first, but if you really don't fit in, I think he'll think about it seriously, and if it's good for both of you to separate, he'll understand.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In this case, just break up with the other party. You are not suitable for each other in all aspects, and you will definitely not come together. Instead of falling in love without feeling like this, it is better to break up with the other party directly.

    I think the other party should also want to break up, but I don't know how to bring up the breakup and how to say it so that both parties can accept it. I met him in December in the game. At first, it was just a game relationship, and then the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship was determined.

    Although we were not suitable in all aspects at the beginning, we both felt quite at that time, and we both thought that we would not break up in the future. Later, prepare the face base, and if it is appropriate, the two people will have a serious relationship. But he is 28 years old, he is from the north, a state-owned enterprise heating unit, there is no holiday in winter, and it just so happens that I have nothing to do, I am going to see him, and I don't think about anything suitable or inappropriate, that is the feeling of love that I get carried away.

    Towards the day of departure, I refunded my ticket again. I don't think it's safe for a girl to go, and he's an only child, and he needs to come to my city with me, and his parents won't approve of it. In this way, the problem of inappropriateness in all aspects has arisen again.

    I can't guarantee that I will always be with him, and we have no savings, and it is difficult to hold on to the reality, so I told him that I wanted to break up, come. At that time, they didn't seem to feel anything for each other. But he was in pain and kept holding me.

    I don't know what to say or how to do. He thinks that everything is not a problem with love, but I think about a lot of practical problems. I happened to have an exam in April, so I told him that I would talk about it after the exam.

    And then he kept waiting for me, and I felt like I really liked him. I want to share something with him, I think it would be nice if he was around, and I look forward to when the two of us are together. So we still have to face all kinds of inappropriate problems, and there is no way to break up in the future.

    Now we still talk occasionally, and I can't help but reconcile with him for the past two days. He said that he still liked me very much, still wanted to be with me, didn't want to break up, and went back to solve the inappropriate problems. But because of the time, he no longer had the urge to come to me.

    He is also thinking about practical questions, such as will he find a suitable job if he comes to me? What about his parents? Am I going to be with him for the rest of my life?

    Then I said don't reconcile. In the end, he told me to prepare well for the exam, and after the exam, he didn't want me because he missed the opportunity to move forward. But he couldn't help but talk to me, and I couldn't help but talk to him.

    So if you want to break up, don't hesitate, and bring it up directly if you don't feel it, which is good for both parties.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think that since you have personally decided to break up, and you don't feel it now, then just say it directly, there is no point in dragging it out, you don't have to feel that you are a sinner when you say it, you feel that it will hurt him or something, because love is like this, love well when you love, and you should let go when you don't love, otherwise it will be more difficult for the other party to drag it on, and the long pain is better than the short pain, just be better.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you feel that it is not appropriate, say that you will break up as soon as possible, don't procrastinate, so that you will work hard and give the other party a false impression. Find an appropriate opportunity, say it seriously, say what you feel about him, what you want to feel, feelings can't deceive people, if two people are together without feelings, they are just together without a soul. Be decisive in breaking up, don't drag the mud and water.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you're daring, hit **or.

    Meet and say. Say directly: We're not suitable, let's break up. If he asks you why, you tell you why.

    If you want to be tactful, then text and say: Maybe it was the spur of the moment, but now I feel like we're like intersecting lines, past that focus, farther and farther away. I can't be happy anymore together, and maybe you are too.

    In my opinion, let's break up, there is no point in being together like this.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The sooner you break up in this case, the better, don't drag the love without an emotional foundation and drag it will only waste time with each other, it's better to break up simply, everyone is fine, and their personalities are incompatible, this reason is very fatal, and it is also potential, even if it is safe now, it will become the fuse of the breakup sooner or later, it is better to cut through the mess quickly and early. The breakup came neatly.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is no feeling, two people are barely together, it is a kind of hurt, to make it clear in time, you can ask her out, find a place to sit down, say straight to the point, say how you feel about her, if she agrees to break up, and has no feelings for you, then it is also a good thing, if he has feelings for you, you must also make it clear in time, don't drag the mud and water.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you don't feel it, it means that two people won't be moved together, at this time you should ask him what it's like to be with you, if he also feels no, then you can break up naturally. If he feels that he likes to be with you, you can ask if you can be friends and get along again to see if you are suitable for a relationship.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's hard to be together again without feelings. Love can't be forced. If you don't love it, you will put it forward directly and tell the truth.

    There is no need to say a bunch of excuses. You can also try to communicate, I feel that sometimes it is cultivated, and if the other party is willing to change, you can also try to run in again. It really doesn't work, it can only be separated.

    It's good for each other.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Now that you've thought about it from all sides, if you think it's not appropriate for the two of you. Then you should say it as soon as possible, you can tell your partner your thoughts directly, try to separate for a while, see if there is still any possibility between the two people, if you still don't want to be together after this period of time, break off the relationship.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you want to break up with someone, just tell her directly, don't make all kinds of excuses, which will hurt both people.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then tell him face to face, don't drag it any longer, it will be bad for both of you and it will hurt each other more. If it's not suitable, just say it, we're not suitable, but I still wish you happiness. Being so open-minded, thinking too much, and being too hesitant is irresponsible.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you don't think it's suitable, I think you should separate, so I think you can make yourself better, otherwise, there will be a lot of contradictions and awkwardness when two people get along like this. Therefore, it is necessary to be brave enough to say inappropriate words in this way to be able to give yourself a good choice, and it is possible to make yourself come out of this relationship faster.

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