Is there any need to continue this kind of love?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-15
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can at least describe it like this! Otherwise, we won't be able to help you much, maybe you just want to vent!

    Just saw your addition, judging by your description, it seems that your boyfriend is a workaholic and may not care much about his partner, this may be his first relationship! In my opinion, you better find a place to sit down and have a good talk, turn off your phone, tell him your dissatisfaction and expectations of him, and if he then says that he doesn't have time or doesn't want to turn off his phone, then you have to tell him very seriously: if you think your work is more important, then I think we can end it, if he really doesn't care about your threats, then you have nothing to be nostalgic about, and maybe he will say:

    Love can't be eaten, I can only feed you if I work hard to make money! Men should be enterprising! Then you can tell him explicitly:

    There's nothing wrong with being ambitious, but I also need your concern, and I don't ask for much, just a little more every day to care about **, a good night text message, remember, your attitude must be tough, serious, cold, my girlfriend used to do the same to me, hehe!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What does it look like? According to what you said, you are so much older than you, you should have seen and experienced more than you, you should know how to be warm and cold, and you know how to care about people, but from what you described, it is estimated that you are more selfish or selfish, I suggest you calm down for a while, do not contact for the time being, and then make a decision.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you feel that it is hard, there is no need.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Is it the love that makes you physically and mentally exhausted? If yes, I suggest you don't! You may not get used to it at first, but get used to it slowly! There is another way, if both parties are willing to change the status quo, it can still be saved!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There's no need, it's boring when you're in love, and you still hope for the future

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since your heart is tired, then letting go is your best choice right now, maybe you will be miserable for a while at first, but time will make you forget everything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can only rely on yourself for emotional matters, and others can't help you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Although I haven't talked about it, I personally think that falling in love is meant to make both people happier and happier. If you talk about a relationship that is more unhappy than happy, I personally don't think there is much need to continue. Of course, it also depends on what is unhappy, the reason is that you are still him, and the reason is that you have to be different!

    If it is a relationship that is more unhappy than happy, then you should ask yourself to think about it, whether it is still necessary to go on like this, love and marriage are not the same.

    After all, there is still a long way to go in life, don't wait until you get married to see a person clearly, but when you are in love, you should feel more about whether you are really happy, or really sad, connect more with your heart, feel your own inside, if you are really unhappy, don't force yourself.

    It is not easy for people to live a lifetime, in addition to their own lives, they also have to face the unhappiness brought by the relationship with their lovers, which is too tiring. Originally, love is for your own happiness, and when you don't get to the point of talking about marriage, no one is necessarily the one who will be with you for the rest of your life, so it's good to be happy for yourself. Couples still need to communicate more before.

    Communication is really important. Don't hold back if you're unhappy, and if you want to continue, you have to solve the problem.

    It's better to give up, after all, it's not happy. People are very tired when they live, and choosing to be together is not to increase their troubles, they should be happy, life is very short, but it is also long, and they will not be able to endure it.

    But I still have to remind you that the responsibility is paid, the reason is clear, there are no regrets, and there is a line of life. If communication can solve the problem, then communicate, and what can come together will not be hard to come together. If you talk about it well, you will definitely be able to improve, talk about what you are dissatisfied with or feel bad, talk well, improve together, many times it is a problem from your own perspective, and if you know more, you may be able to understand and follow your heart.

    Finally, I wish you a happy life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There's no need to continue, because the two of you are not happy when you are in love, then there will be no result for the two of you, it is better to let go of each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There's no need, since I'm not particularly happy, talking about it will only make me more miserable and make me very uncomfortable.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There's no need to go on, because you're not very happy when the two of you fall in love, and you'll break up in the long run.

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