Am I being selfish or is he domineering? Who was able to give me advice, thank you .

You are also a little selfish, first of all, your boyfriend is very stubborn, very childish, very want to get your attention, he just dragged it off again and again, and then you no matter what the reason is, you really didn't give him action, really can't say how important your relationship is to each other, think about yourself, how much you love him, since you can't stand his childishness and want to break up, I don't think you say you love him very much, right, there is no absolute right or wrong in front of love, only suitable and unsuitable, do you want to think about each other or not, think carefully about your attitude, and then make a decision, in the end I still hope you are happy: )

Generally, men take care of women, it's good that you take care of him, it's not that you don't take care of him, after all, you are a woman, he loses his temper with you, you choose the wrong object, take advantage of the early flash, or you will suffer the days later.

I think, your last few sentences have already given you the answer, in fact, he just wants you to see his son, the man's requirements are not as much as you think, he just wants to have his beloved woman by his side for a lifetime, now the two are separated too much, because of the emptiness and loneliness, so now the marriage has changed too much, you should think about his feelings!

It's because he's selfish!Everyone has their own things, even if the lover can't be deprived, you already care about him very much, it's he who doesn't appreciate it, and the altitude responsibility is pushed to you, how can this kind of man who can't forgive you live with him for a lifetime?

It's an evolved survival instinct.

Do you think, if a primitive man is very generous, and shares all the prey he catches for everyone to eat, and he himself leaves nothing, wouldn't he have to starve to death?And those who are selfish, who not only eat the meat given by the generous, but also keep the prey they have hunted for themselves, then they can have double portions of food and can feed more offspring, so that the gene of selfishness is more widely passed down than the gene of generosity.

Of course, people are not selfish all the time. A tribe of selfish people who are always selfish is certainly not as competitive and cohesive as a tribe of occasionally selfish people.

To sum up, man is a combination of selfishness and generosity. Wide and simple.

This is a normal psychology, originally you like something, you need a spiritual habitat to slowly play with it, as a result, a pure world in your soul is invaded by external factors, of course you will be on fire.

For example, everyone else likes Yang Mi, but you like an inconspicuous Zhong Hanliang, originally this is a small love in your heart, no one knows, but one day Zhong Hanliang became angry, shattering the small world in your heart, people like Zhong Hanliang, and the quiet and innocent emotions that belong to you are gone, replaced by those ordinary people crazy chasing stars, so it completely loses its meaning.

My understanding is this, once I liked some books, some songs, and some stars alone, and then I was hyped up and talked about, and I was really unhappy.

Each person's soul has a world of his own, which cannot be desecrated and encroached upon by others.

In fact, it's not all bad, it means that you don't want to conform to the herd, you have the desire to be a different person, but you haven't found a way to become such a person, so you will have such a mentality.

Of course, you have to find a way to resolve it and learn to think from a different perspective, otherwise if you let it develop, you may also become a very jealous person, and if you can't see your other half get ahead in the future, wouldn't it be bad?

It is a wise choice to pay attention to domineering, two-sided, three-sided, and three-way degrees to subdue evil and promote good, and contribute to society.

You're very possessive! As long as it's your stuff, you don't like to be touched by others; Actually, it's nothing, let's look at it lightly. What zodiac sign do you, Leo?

This is the so-called jealousy psychology, you can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour, this kind of heart should be eliminated, otherwise it will bring great inconvenience to yourself in your life, especially in the process of interacting with people, you will feel everyone's rejection of you, and you must learn to be open-minded.

Jealous because you like it, angry because you care, in a daze because you miss it, and sad because you don't want to lose. -

Six characteristics of immaturity] 1. Emotional intelligence is lower than IQ, and everything is calculated. 2. I don't know how to restrain myself, I am not good at accepting new things, and I am unwilling to change my old habits. 3. Often swayed by emotions, sensibility is higher than rationality.

4. A sense of satisfaction or emptiness fills the heart, and the mentality is not good at zeroing. 5. The subjective is strong enough to despise the objective, and it is not based on facts. 6. There is no idea, belief, concept, and go with the flow.

Don't get into an argument with someone easily, when someone argues with you, you let him win, because you have nothing to lose. What can he win by winning? What do you get?

What do you lose when you lose? What to lose? Fighting back and forth will only hurt each other's harmony and add unnecessary troubles.

Cautious silence is shrewd avoidance, dealing with impermanence with a normal heart, there is nothing that cannot be passed, only a mood that cannot be passed. Many things are difficult for us to get over because we can't let go of them in our hearts, and most of us only care about the things themselves and indulge in the unpleasant feelings brought by them. In fact, as long as you change your mood, the world will be completely different.

Understand one thing and grow up. Seeing one thing clearly, enlightened. See through one thing, be rational. Seeing through one thing, ripe. See through one thing, it's the end. Downplay one thing and let it go.

You are reluctant to share your stuff with others.

You just want to be different, you lack self-confidence.

1.Family relationships, you have always been favored.

2.Personality reasons, you are still young and don't know how to control 3You're independent and like to be different from others, or you want things you like to be liked by others, which is actually not good.

Learn to empathize and think more for others. Study politics hard in junior high school, there is something worth learning in it!

No. You want to be alternative. I think that my own ideas are very special, and I don't want to have the same interests as others.

When someone imitates you, you may feel angry.

Well, I suggest you think about it from a different angle.