In marriage, can you only be happier if you know how to make mistakes?

There will be no happiness. If you want to be happy in marriage, you don't rely on making mistakes, nor do you rely on forbearance. Any happy marriage is basically to put the relationship between husband and wife first, be able to perceive each other's emotions, and sweep away the unhappiness in each other's hearts, and two independent and assertive adults are qualified to enter the marriage.

But if one party is immature and unwilling to leave his original family, the probability of such a happy marriage is too low. Here's why:

1. Nowadays, many people's lives are arranged by their parents, and they are in their thirties, but their self-care ability is particularly poor. Men of this generation are basically well protected by their parents, and there are not many men who are truly mature and responsible. Most of them are not bad in nature, but there are more men who don't have any opinions.

Modern people generally have no responsibility than their parents' generation, and their sense of responsibility will be worse, and it is easy to have conflicts after marriage, and they are helpless, and finally divorce.

Second, the marriage that will be wrong does not solve the problem. Wrong means that one side must be forbearing. If the other party does not perceive the other party's emotions in time and help solve this problem, when they quarrel in the future, they will definitely turn over old accounts, and the more they will be wrong, the more unwilling they will be, and in the end serious conflicts will break out, and they will not be able to get by.

3. A happy marriage is unreasonable. Many men like to reason with their wives very much after getting married, but you will find that the more you reason, the more angry your wife becomes. Because what the wife wants is nothing more than her husband's favor, but when the man doesn't give it and will only blindly reason with her, the wife doesn't like to listen.

A man who really loves his wife will never always fight with his wife to win or lose.

Therefore, a truly happy marriage is definitely not to make mistakes, but to find out the root cause of mistakes, and solve it, and not to backlog contradictions, so that a happy marriage is possible. In addition, if you are looking for a husband, you must find a man with a larger pattern, otherwise you will be suffocated to death. Men who are too small will always fight women over the details.

Not really. If you make mistakes in your marriage, you will only endure more and more pain and will not feel happy at all.

No, mistakes in marriage need to be corrected and made up in time to avoid an irreparable situation.

No, when mistakes are found in marriage, they should be corrected in time to avoid the mistakes getting bigger and bigger

No, how can a well-paid marriage be happy, the freedom of marriage does not need to be exquisite, even if it is for the sake of children, it is not necessary, people are individuals, and they can become a better version of themselves after divorce.

This is indeed the case, because in married life, you can't take it too seriously, and if you always distinguish between right and wrong, there will be a gap between two people.

I think it depends on what everyone's understanding of love is, if your understanding of love is very realistic, then there will be happiness in marriage, but if you have high expectations for love, it is not necessarily.

In the process of marriage, after a long time, it may be ordinary to live. A lot of things just feel like they're going to be natural and natural. Especially for couples who have been married for many years, they may also ignore each other's feelings because they do not pay much attention to some details, which leads to some misunderstandings and even unnecessary contradictions.

Ignoring certain details and ignoring the feelings of the other person may be some of the mistakes that are easy to make in daily life. <>

Maybe when we are dealing with outsiders, or when we are talking about something with colleagues, we will pay more attention to the expression of some details. In terms of speech and demeanor, he also pays more attention to some formal things. They are often more restrained in their language expressions, hoping to leave a better impression on the other party.

Therefore, a person often wants to create a beautiful personal image outside, but after returning home, he hopes to be able to express himself without constraints and present his true side to his family. But sometimes when you are talking or doing errands, if some details are not handled properly, it may make your family feel uncomfortable. For example, if we speak too directly, we may make our wives and husbands feel that we are not taking care of our feelings.

Maybe when two people are in love, they may be very diligent, hoping to leave a better impression on each other. But after getting married, some people may show some inertia, so that we don't pay too much attention to the other person when they are busy. If you don't pay attention to some such details, it may make the other party unhappy for a long time.

But when we are living an ordinary life, we should also pay more attention to the inner feelings of the other party. In terms of the way of speaking, try to avoid being too blunt and straightforward. When two people are able to take care of each other's inner feelings, it may reduce some unnecessary friction.

It's slackness. After a long time, you will feel that the feelings in the marriage no longer need to be carefully managed, and there will be a situation of slacking off in the face of feelings.

The most common mistake I make in marriage is not knowing how to love myself, giving too much to the other person, but not getting a response.

The easiest mistake to make is to be vexatious, because you are easily angry.