My girlfriend of many years suddenly broke up with me

It's just feelings, it's not a big deal, don't take it too seriously. Pinning all your hopes on an illusory and beautiful soap bubble is very unrealistic and easy to get hurt.

If you feel very uncomfortable and can't let go, you will imply that you hate her, hate her, hate her, and it was she who let you fall to this step, and you should hate her to death.

Women are much more cruel than men. The more you call her for **, the more she feels that she is superior, and she looks down on you even more. After ignoring her, after a while, she is likely to take the initiative to find you and ask you about your current situation or something.

There is no way There are many such people in this world No matter how good you are to her, she will still leave you for no reason and no reason I don't give you any reason I'm already numb Just think I'm feeding the wolf in the past I believe that such a person will be punished in the future Don't be sad friend.

The so-called love needs to grasp a scale, not that the more you invest, the more you get, this thing is different from doing business, doing business is facing goods, and feelings are facing a person's love, so at the beginning you have to learn to treat it with only 50% of your heart! It's not helpful to talk too much......Comprehend it for yourself! (inert).

I don't think you're meticulous.,A lot of her thoughts and performances.,You haven't paid close attention.,Maybe you're careless.,Maybe she's having other plans.,Anyway,Let it be.。。 It's that you can't run away, it's not that you can't keep it.

In fact, breaking up is sometimes so simple, you can't say who is right and who is wrong, it may just be inappropriate.

Who can say that the relationship is good, after getting along for a long time, it is normal that the original feeling is gone.

An ex-girlfriend hitting you out of the blue can mean different things, depending on her motives and context. Here are some possible reasons and explanations, so please consider which possibility is more suitable for your situation

1.Want to reconnect: She may want to reconnect with you, want to reconnect with you or start a relationship again. This could be because she misses you or regrets the breakup.

2.Want to solve unresolved issues: She may still have some unresolved issues that you want to communicate and solve. This could be related to feelings, personal issues, or other things.

3.Seek friendship: She may just want to be friends with you or want to know how you are doing.

4.Test your reaction: She may be testing if you still have feelings for her and wants to see your reaction.

Whatever her motives are, I suggest you first reflect on how you feel and what you expect from it. If you're interested in reconnecting with her, you can answer** and be honest about your thoughts and feelings. If you don't want to keep in touch with her, you can choose not to answer** or tell her your decision clearly.

Remember, communication and understanding are important for solving problems and building healthy relationships.

Let's talk openly together, find out a few problems and analyze them, pick the most important problem to solve, since you love each other very much, you have to work hard to fight for it, if you do what you should do, the other party still insists that I think you won't regret it, they all say that men will grow up when they experience women, but I don't know that you have already dealt with things with women.

I grew up!

Breaking up without any signs? I think the landlord is too nervous, or the emotional intelligence is too low?

She told you that there is no room for breaking up, just to break up, or to break up, but to say a lot of things that she hopes you can improve?

If it's the former, then the probability that you can redeem it is not too great, either because you have no feelings for you, or because you like someone else. If it's the latter, then she means that she hopes you can improve and love her more, and that's not really wanting to break up.

However, if the other party's family has opinions, you still have to try your best to get the love of the other party's parents, which is the basis of a happy marriage.

There is also the fact that Changjun is also an institution of higher learning, and there should be a lot of excellent people around her, so you have to pay attention to whether she has someone else.